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Cindy
My friend Cindy, is kinda always the center of attention. well she don't get that much attention but... Ok! She sometimes asks me to come somewher with her and so i ask my mom and she said yes, so i go with her, she said we were going to her uncle's house who is a famous foot ball player. We were ther right so, an insy bit of her family is there, and some other people were there, so this 1 time music was playing and everyone wanted her to dance, and she all shy and said she din't want to. then all of a sudden she goes up ther and sart doing the chicken head dance.But my piont is, I don't want to go anywhere with her if she just going to end up every body pays attention here. Cindy also acts the same, thinking she the center of attention. But if she tells or writes me a note asking me if i want to go any where else with her,and some of her family, and her family's friends are there then what should I say? Right now I am almost close to not being her friend because I hate the way she act, Cause she also think she pretty and act like she....OOOOOOOOhhhhhh!!!! Ok I'm just saying she's REALLY starting to PISS me off right now.
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And why are you being so rude about this. There is nothing wrong when a person likes attention. When she did the chicken dance she was having fun! Not just wanting attention! Maybe you should loosen up a little as well. She might be a little conceded but you dont have to be talking behind her back like that. Go and tell her how you feel and she will change. You are lucky you have a good and outgoing friend like her. She invites you everywhere maybe you should appriciate that a little more. If I knew her I would just tell her to stop doing whatever she is doing wrong. You can do that as well. She seems perfectly normal to me. ♥
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Please learn to use grammar and string a sentence together. Kthx bye.
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Maybe a better way to put is that your friend Cindy is a major embarrassment to you!
If you are with her family then they probably think she is good for a laugh or two. Just laugh along with them.
If she does it other places then you need to tell her to stop. People are probably laughing at her because they think she is just a goof. Tell her that you find her behavior embarrassing. If she doesn't stop then I guess not going out in public places with her will be your only option.
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it sounds to me like you're a little jealous of your friend. but that's normal, everybody is jealous of somebody else. but anyway, you should probably get her to hang out with your family and dance with her. she shouldn't be the only one having fun, you should have fun too. that way you both are happy. if you're not a party person, then maybe you should find out what cindy likes to do that you like to do. then maybe you two can stay friends and you won't be annoyed with her.
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Don't you think that you may be too over dramatic about your friend. Well, perhaps she likes attention because she doesn't receive much. Is that so bad for her? Is it healthy attention or is it completely just going to her head? If it's going to her head, then you really need to talk to her about it. Let me give you some advice about this. In friendships there are compromises of certain circumstances that vary of all kinds. But that is why you compromise . Deal with it. Support her. But if you really don't want to be the true friend , then don't waste your time with her. Like you sort of said, if she thinks the sun rises and sets when she says it does, then move onto another friend if you can't deal with it. I know that I sound harsh and everything but it is just being brutally honest .Try to savor the friendship. If that doesn't work out, then move on.
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