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Jealousy


Question Posted Sunday May 22 2005, 6:30 pm

Okay i have this really big jealously problem... i mean i don't get jealous but when people try to make me jealous i get REALLY REALLY MAD!! i dont' know why i get that way... but okay here's the story

On my class trip i liked this guy and i didn't like him anymore lets call him Billy well billy i think liked me and he sat by this girl lets call her nina well on the way back home nina and billy were sitting really reallly close and billy had his arm around her... nina is just like a slut and lets guys do whatever they want .. well i was sitting on the floor and he kept on looking at me to see if i saw what he was doing!!! it got me so mad!! i moved up to the front and started like yelling to my friends and telling them i was going to f****** kill him (haha i know a little out of hand) but i guess my question is .. is there a certain way why i get that way? or do i need some anger management!!!! lol

ps. sorry so long!


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Additional info, added Sunday May 22 2005, 7:51 pm:
i mean im not going to do anhting to him... i just feel like i can't stand him and i get really mad!.

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Teza answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 4:20 pm:
Aw! That just means that you still have feelings for him even tho you might not think so. You still like him a little bit and you dont want him doing that to her. You probably made him jelous before and he is trying to get back at you. He wants attention from you. ♥

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karenR answered Monday May 23 2005, 1:00 am:
Aw come on, you must have still liked him some or you wouldn't have gotten mad. Right? You did get jealous that's why you got mad. Otherwise you wouldn't have cared who he did with what.

The reason you get so mad is because you don't like it when people play games with you. Rightly so. So I doubt anger management is going to do you much good. You are normal. :)

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XXkaiiOO answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:52 pm:
you should just try to control your anger and just talk to him about it or something. I think you are just a normal person who is a jelous type of person and gets angry about it. It isnt harmful to vent like you did it helps you become less mad at that person. hope i helped good luck

*kaii*

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kitty_kat123 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 8:25 pm:
Jealousy is normal, especially when a guy you likes doesn't like you back. Sometimes, they do like you but they don't want to break up with their girlfriends because they are easy to get into their pants. The reason why he isn't going out with you yet is because you're smart and you're not what he's looking for... he's an idiot... he wants a slut and you're not that. You get jealous because of it. Because Nina dresses and acts the way she does, it attracts more guys and guys think she is easy... that is how dressing seriously effects your reputation. You're a smart girl and jealousy is normal... don't worry about it. You want Billy but he doesn't want you because he knows you're not as easy... you're the "hard to get" kind of girl. You're the "you gotta know me inside, and I don't mean inside my pants" kinda gal... you know? You're way too good for him... THERE'S PLENTY MORE FISH IN THE SEA and there's a really hot guy out there lookin' for someone JUST LIKE YOU and guess what? He's better than Billy. Forget him! He's a jerk. He wants to brag and he's TRYING to make you jealous... once he sees his plan is working, he's happy. Don't let him see your jealousy. You find someone else and make HIM jealous. Let him know who's boss and that he's not so great. He'll know! LOL. Well, Best of luck, sweetie.
~~~Kayla~~~

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sourpatchkids379 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 7:28 pm:
Hey!
I think you took it alittle to out of hand. it's natural to be jelous and stuff but you know i understand were you are coming from i'd be pissed to so just dont have such a monster blow out theres nothing worng just mandage it alittle better. Good Luck
~*~Sour~*~

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