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okay i like this guy he's in college he's about 2 years older then i am. i am only 17. i really like him and i told my friends that i do. all of my friends suggest that i should just call him and tell him that i like him. would this be right or should i just get to know him more?? (link)
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If you know him pretty well already its okay to call him and tell him. If you don't though you might want to get to know him a little better first. :)
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I wrote in about a month ago, asking for advice about a friend of mine that treated me badly (called me names, made me look stupid in front of others, etc). I finally confronted her about it, so now we don't talk anymore. I'm so much happier; but now I have a few more problems...
1) She always stares at me! And when I walk down the hallway (and she's in a classroom), she is always by the door (like she's waiting for me), but she never talks, she just stares. Is that normal, because it sort of freaks me out.
2) I REALLY want to go to a camp, but she might be going too, and I really don't want to run into her (because then she'd beg for forgiveness, and I don't think that she would change, which is why I didn't give her a second chance in the first place). Should I go or not, and why?
Thanks in advance! Sorry it's long, but I will rate!
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Either ignore her or stare right back at her.
Go to camp and have fun. You don't have to talk to her if you don't want to. :)
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My 2 best friends have been leaving me out a lot lately. This may not seem like a big deal to you, but let me explain. 2 years ago, my best friend (lets call her Rose) was an outcast. everyone hated her and i was the only one willing to take her in. Last year, we were inseperable, and had an amazing friendship. My other friend, (call her Marie) is the most popular girl in school. she wasnt at the beginning of the school year, and she and i did everything together. all of a sudden theyve become best friends and are leaving me out of everything. it makes me feel so bad, and its gotten so bad that i cry myself to sleep at night. any advice? (link)
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You need to have a chat with them. They may not realize what they are doing. Let them know how you feel and see if that changes anything. :)
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My friend says she never wants to be my friend again. I have talked to her before but we have gotten no where. I really want to be her friend. Also, she is friends with my other friends so i will still have to be around her. What should I do? (link)
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I think since you have talked to her and she remains unfriendly...just ignore her. I think she will probably get over it sooner or later. I'm assuming you have apologised for whatever it is she thinks you've done. Don't do it anymore. Once is plenty. Ball is in her court now. I don't see her staying mad when she hangs around with you and your other things all day. Make her be the one to make the next move. :)
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My ex-BFF made up lies about things i said about my other friends. She keeps doing mean things to me! She's gotten on my last nerve and i dont want to b her friend anymore! The problem is that my parents are friends with her parents! I've tried talking to my parents about it but it doesnt work! they say it doesnt make a diffrence but it does! Is there anything else i can do??? (link)
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It really doesn't make a difference. Just don't go with them when they visit her parents etc. If you have to see her at some point you can be polite without being friendly. :)
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Okay, I've been best friends with this girl since last year and we've been so tight! And now I think my other best friend is jealous and is trying to take her away from me! What should I do? (link)
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You need to talk to your other best friend and explain that even though you have another friend he/she is still your friend too. The other friend is probably feeling a little left out. :)
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my dad broke my coller bone da ova day but he says it was an accident which it was. but now when we have an argument he will say he break something else of mine but i dont know if hes joking cause he looks seriouse ive told my mom and she says hes just joking but she ent der when he says it because he dont say it round her. what should i do is he joking or what can any one help. (link)
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If it was really an accident that your collar bone was broken then he is probably just saying that. :)
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me and my parents have never got on i was kinda sexual abused by my dad (not going into detail) and my mum never did anything about it i didnt know what was going on as i was young at the time, now its 5 years later i know there was something wrong about it, i have cut my wrist many times and mum and dad know i have tryed to kill myself just endded up on a drip for days my friends and boy friends will do anything for me but i dont feel like its enough at the moment im always gettin into arguments with my dad whenever i say u hav hurt me he like denies it and says he has never touched me (which is complete bulls**t) and he knows it, i want to do anything i can to hurt him to get him abck for the times he has hurt me and all he seems to do is punish me hes really stubborn and wont listen to anything i say at all he just wants to take things away from me and i dont know what to do anymore, going into hospital and cutting my wrist didnt seem to make him think that he was the one hurting me, my mum wont listen to me and whenever i say something to her she goes off crying and my sister does the say i feel like im all allone all the time and dont knwo what to do aymore :'( when id did get a social worker they didnt believe me because my mum dad and sister lied and now i have a counseller all she does is go on my parents side and it p**ses me off!
what can i do????
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I think you need to continue to talk with your counselor. She is there to be of help to you. Be honest with her and tell her everything that is bothering you. Don't just assume she is on your "parents side" because she questions you about it. She needs all the details she can get.
Don't treat her like the enemy. :)
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i have a question me and this guy are going out and like his family like his parents like arent the fondest of me like she is holding something against me. see me and this other guy went to prom together and the guy im going out with now is obviously pretty bummed about this so his mom is constantly holding this against me and just wont gimmie a 2nd chance! So i plan on writing her a letter. I need some help on what to say to her. Like explaining why i did go. I went because he proved 2 me it was so important and that he wanted to go with me. Well this guys mom (my bf) is obviously protecting her "little baby boy"... well trying. but i cant tell her why i wanted cuz she'd hate me more. So please help! (link)
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Don't write her a letter and don't worry so much about it. Leave it to your boyfriend to fix the problem since it sounds as if it may be partly his fault for involving her in his love life.
Not a good idea to be dating one guy and going to prom with another. Prom is usually considered a pretty big deal. Mom is just responding to her son being hurt...a pretty normal reaction.
If he has forgiven you for going out with another guy then she really should too. But, writing a note to her isn't going to help any. It may even make matters worse. If you continue to date her son she will probably eventually forget about. :)
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I am constantly insulted by my sister. Before, she would make fun of me, which I would just shrug off, but lately, its been getting to a point where I just feel like there is no point to anything. I cant even cry when she says things to me, I just shut down, and let her go on and on.
Like tonight, I walked into the living room, and she began to swear at me. She said that I am a psycho, and that she cannot wait for me to leave for school (college in the fall) because I am worthless. I have not even said anything to her at all at this point, I really don't know what I did.
What I really dont understand is how she will talk to me one night insultingly, and then the next day she wants me to go shopping with her.
I really dont understand it-if anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it
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Sounds like typical sister behavior. I didn't get along with mine until I moved away from home.
You didn't mention if she was younger or older, it really doesn't matter though because they are usually the same. She could be jealous of you leaving home though (in the fall). You can either ignore her or give her back as good as you get.
I don't know why the hostility is so easily turned off and on. That's pretty normal too. Maybe your her ride to the shopping? Sister (or brothers) are just a royal pain in the ass...You will notice a difference when you don't see her everyday. :)
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i really like this girl and she just got out of a tough relationship. she needs space..and i'm willing to give her that. what should i do, though? i really like her. she sort of led me on and stuff, then regretted it i guess. i feel sort of sad i guess too. how do i make her see i really want to be with her, but not being too pushy? help!! (link)
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Just try being friends to start off. Do a lot of talking and getting to know each other. Sooner or later she will be ready for a relationship and you will be right there. :)
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OK well, it's abit silly but I kissed my boyfriend for the first time a few days ago and was kinda' surprised when he went straight into frenching! It was my first time kissing properly so I was just expecting a lip kiss or whatever, but he kinda slipped his tongue in somehow... and I was like... ah no? I didn't really want to go that far + it kinda grossed me out! so I sort of pulled away... He said he was okay with waiting until I'm more comfortable kissing him, but I would just rather stick to lip kissing for now! How should I deal with this? I'm not sure how to phrase it right... It was his first time kissing aswell... any help muchly appreciated! (link)
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Just tell him what you feel. For right now you want to just leave the tongues out of the kissing. He said he was okay with that so it will be fine. :)
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Well , i have been going out with this guy. we never see each other and sometimes people tell me he is makin moves and flirting with other girls!! i dont know what to do. should i break up with him? thanks in advance .. :o]
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It's never a real good idea to date someone you never see. If he never sees you he probably is flirting with other girls. Find someone new who is a little easier to date. :)
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hi ,i m really confused wat to do .theres a guy in my class whom i really like but i haden't told anyone bout it.then few days back i got to now that my best frnd also likes him.that was too heart broking but then i thought i shud sacrifice my luv for her becoz i didn't wanted to hurt her.but just after few days when i was having headache i was sitting in the class alone,that guy came to me n said that he loves me very much .i was really shocked actually very happy.he said he wants my answer in few days.i m really confused now.i dont want to say no to him but then i also think bout my frnd.wat will she think of me when she will get to know that i m involved wid that guy.plz give me some answer soon!!!!
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Your friend may like him, but he must like you. You can't help that. He isn't dating her so you aren't stealing him from her. You say yes you will go out with him. You explain it to your friend. She may be upset at first but if she is a true friend she will soon get over it. :)
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at prom there was this guy i was dancing with and when we were slow dancing he pulled me close and are faces touched and he was smiling. i'm thinking this is a way of affection. also he was pulling out my chair for me and opened the car door for me. was he just being nice or is it something more?? (link)
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He sounds like a really polite guy. It could be he likes you. Could also be he just has good manners. I think you need to talk to him more and see if you can find out for sure what he's feeling. :)
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my friend Alyssa is a BIG liar, she always makes up stupid stories. and when i tell her shes lying, she gets mad at me and i have to apoligize. but anyway, heres the point: today in lunch, i was sitting with Alyssa, my other friend Cassi, and my other friend Jenna. Alyssa said she has a friend named Jake who likes me and she said i've hung out with him and i've never known anyone by the name of Jake. so when she left the table, my friend Cassi said "so...do you believe her about Jake?" and instantly i said "nope." so...should i believe her? im hoping shes right. she said he looks just like the boy who i like and hes HOTT! so, should i believe her or not?
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I don't know. If she has a history of lying she probably is. Besides, if the guy was that great looking don't you think you would remember him? I think you probably would have. :)
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Ok....Well there is this boy name, well lets just call him C and I like him and he likes me, but he doesnt want to brake up with his girlfriend. His girlfriend is a slut...lol!!! Well anyways C said he would break up with her is I broke up with my boyfriend and I did, but he isnt keeping his side. Well how can I break them up....I dont know his girlfriend that well.
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You don't. You just learned a lesson the hard way I'm afraid. Especially if the girlfriend is really a slut! He isn't going to leave a sure thing (if you know what I mean). I think you should forget this guy. :)
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Okay well, I'm going into 8th grade next year and I still haven't had a boyfriend! No guy even notices me! I'm not a dork, and people say it's just because I'm tall. Well, there are other girls in my grade that are tall and have boyfriends! I mean it's not just that though. I mean all of my friends have had their first kiss and everything but I haven't. So no one really understands what I'm talking about or how I feel. All my friends have had at least 3 boyfriends and have all been kissed. What could I do to get guys to notice me? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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You have to talk to them. Ask them questions about things. Smile at them. Be nice. All the usual stuff. Sooner or later one of them is going to notice you. Go places that you know they hang out at. It will happen soon. :)
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i need some help here..well okay i love my boyfriend to death and we`ve been dating for a little over 7 months. and we just started doing things sexually because i dont know before i didnt feel comfortable but now it's like everytime we are together he wants to do more than just hang out it is always revolved around "doing stuff" and that isnt what i like. Why is he doing this? Is it just a guy thing or what? and should i talk to him about it because when i dont give him any i feel like he`s mad at me like until i get to see him again. even tho he says he`s not. And i`m sorry this is so long, thanks for everyone who reads this, please help me! (link)
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You don't say your ages...I'm going to say that's just the way a lot of guys are. Once they get the stuff it's kind of hard for them to think about much else when they see you. The younger they are the worse it is. Girls are just geared a little differently. We kind of like to talk and do other things too. It doesn't help that almost all younger guys don't think or know much about satisfying girls. That is why you really are better off waiting until your older to get involved in all the sex stuff.
You really should talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If it is really bothering you just stop doing it. He won't like it though so you'd have to be prepared to deal with that. :)
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Can someone help me find another way to say "“ceased to replenish it's supply.” thanx =) (link)
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oh lord...stopped ordering. No longer stocking provisions. No longer carry this product??? Depends on what you need it for. :)
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