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Ex-friend
I wrote in about a month ago, asking for advice about a friend of mine that treated me badly (called me names, made me look stupid in front of others, etc). I finally confronted her about it, so now we don't talk anymore. I'm so much happier; but now I have a few more problems...
1) She always stares at me! And when I walk down the hallway (and she's in a classroom), she is always by the door (like she's waiting for me), but she never talks, she just stares. Is that normal, because it sort of freaks me out.
2) I REALLY want to go to a camp, but she might be going too, and I really don't want to run into her (because then she'd beg for forgiveness, and I don't think that she would change, which is why I didn't give her a second chance in the first place). Should I go or not, and why?
Thanks in advance! Sorry it's long, but I will rate!
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You need to go to camp... if she goes... and she says she is sorry you should forgive her and tell her that you will give her another chance and that if she breaks it that is it!!... you need to forgive and forget.. or else god will not forgive you!... if she stares at you just stare at her back like you don't care and say Hey! like all nice... she prob. just does that because she knows that it gets on your nerves!... so you need to show her who's boss!! and show her that you dont' care anymore!! :-D hope i helped! and good luck!
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Either ignore her or stare right back at her.
Go to camp and have fun. You don't have to talk to her if you don't want to. :)
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A person shouldn't stop yourself from having fun. You SHOULD go to camp and have a good time, and not let your ex-friend get in the way. If she's staring at you, then I suggest you look away and pretend not to notice. I think she wants you to notice her and feel bad that she's upset, but do not stoop to her level and let the same thing happen again. Usually someone won't change their personalities, so don't let her bother you. Good luck!
-Alexa
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Haha I've been through this before! She's JEALOUS! She's thinking about you and she misses you! She wants you back! She always took you for granted, but now that you're gone, she realizes that she's nothing with out you! (Trust me..I KNOW IT!) About camp, GO!! Have a great time without her...she'll be super jealous! That'll be the payback she deserves because she use to treat you like that! go go go..and have TONS of FUN!
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She's staring because she's jealous..trust me!Go to camp!Never let anyone stop you from doing something you want to do. Go to that camp, just ignore her and she'll get over it. Don't give up something you want to do for her.
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Ok first of all you shouldn't let your ex-friend control your life.And your probalby thinking she's not controling my life. But think about it she is. Her staring at you and basicaly following you is holding you back. you want to go to that camp...then go!!!! If she beggs for forgiveness tell her stright up that she's full of it.She's out of your life so act like it. What was the point of breaking the friendship up with her if she's still ruining your life.
**PIXIE**
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go to camp and dont worry about her, if you run into her just ignore you. try to have fun because she should'nt hold you back from having the time of your life. and about the staring thing, don't worry about it, it probably means she just wants your attention. good luck!
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