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Toning down kissing!
OK well, it's abit silly but I kissed my boyfriend for the first time a few days ago and was kinda' surprised when he went straight into frenching! It was my first time kissing properly so I was just expecting a lip kiss or whatever, but he kinda slipped his tongue in somehow... and I was like... ah no? I didn't really want to go that far + it kinda grossed me out! so I sort of pulled away... He said he was okay with waiting until I'm more comfortable kissing him, but I would just rather stick to lip kissing for now! How should I deal with this? I'm not sure how to phrase it right... It was his first time kissing aswell... any help muchly appreciated! <3
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Just tell him what you feel. For right now you want to just leave the tongues out of the kissing. He said he was okay with that so it will be fine. :)
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I think he said he'd wait, so like, what's the problem?
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Ok, if your not ready for french kissing then simply tell your boyfriend and I am sure he will understand. But, honestly, french kissing is a lot of fun and its really not a big deal. You would probably enjoy it if you would just relax and not be so nervous. lol. But you really dont like it, just talk to him. Hope I Helped!
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haha awl just talk to him. i have that same problem. frenching is fun! haha. um talk to him about what you feel about kissing.
LiiLo
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It's O.K. There's a first time for everything but there's also a RIGHT time for everything. Maybe it just wasn't the right time. Get to know him a little better and he's good for understanding how you feel.
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~~~Kayla~~~
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Let me get this straight-it was his first time kissing and yet he already wanted to french? Wow-either he was really horny that night or he just wanted to try it out? Sorry decided to get that out of the way first. Okay anyways I think that you should tell him that "It's your first time and you want to get used to just real kissing, without any tounge. Just lip kiss." and if he really likes you then he'll wait and say that it's fine with him. Plus I'm sure it kinda grossed you out. Even my first french kiss was gross. But once you're ready for that you can tell him and if he says he's ready then invite him over or something and try it out, and if you decided that you're still not ready, then just keep deciding. It can take quite some time for you to be ready for frenching. Also - I think you should just wait until you're ready then tell him and try it out, just at first don't try it out when you have friends over or he does, sometimes you can get embarrassed or it can make you nervous-so make sure it's just you and him when you try it for the first time.
-Good luck and I hope I helped =)
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yea i think that you should just stick to lip kissing till ur more coforable and just tell him that and if he dosnet listen then dump him cause then he isnt worth it . hope i helped
Sarah
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If hes going to fast for your guys first kiss then thats all gravy!Im sure it kinda groosed you out belive me my first time was weird also ... so just take it easy and when your ready go for the french **(( WHEN YOURE READY! ))**
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you could always try using your teeth :-) thats not as slimey
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