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my dad broke my coller bone da ova day but he says it was an accident which it was. but now when we have an argument he will say he break something else of mine but i dont know if hes joking cause he looks seriouse ive told my mom and she says hes just joking but she ent der when he says it because he dont say it round her. what should i do is he joking or what can any one help.
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If it was really an accident that your collar bone was broken then he is probably just saying that. :)
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He doesnt mean that. When you guys argue he gets just really mad and says that. But dont worry because he doesnt mean it like that. ♥
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WOW if this is realle happening and you saw h im have a serious face just calm down and ask you r self...
1. how oftent does he say this?
2.when he does say it is his face always serious?
3.Is this all just a joke or should i settle down a little?
O.K.... if you dont feel like doing those things ask you r dad if he was srious.. if you are to nervouse to ask him then go to a school guiedance consuler and tell them, learnn more about chid abuse and find a number abd put it on speed dial... just in case that he does happen to hurt you in any kind of way.
Hope i helped,
*GOOD LUCK*
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Ok first..not to be rude or anything...but....don talk lik dis cuz ppl cnt undrstnd you nd its rly anoyin. please..Thank you...
second....thats a threat..and i dont exactly know how or why he broke your collar bone the other day, but hes not allowed to even give you a spanking, because that could be considered child abuse...so hes threatening you, that he'll break something else on you? you can get him arrested for that, because one thing could happen and you could lose your life, its not something to joke about, or kid-about...maybe you should video tape it one time and show your mother and then you have evedience to show the police..hes not someone to trust..i hope i helped! im sorry about your collar bone and your father with his threats i hope it comes to a stop...
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hes broke your coller bone once he can hurt you again if he was messing around or not and if it was an accident you need to tell someone for this accident never to happen again your dad should have never done something that serious to you in the first place what caused this so called accident to happen and you need to be sure that it was an accident hes been thretening you with nasty coments about what he did so it seems like he is prowd of what he done and he isnt sorry at all and if he says he will break something else of yours then hes probly right he probly will so to stop this from happening you need to confind in someone else not just your mum perhaps other family members and only be around your dad when there is someone there
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When you say your dad broke your collar bone, it was an accident, what exactly does that mean. What was going on when the "accidently" broke your collar bone. If he was angry and arguing with you, and pushed or shoved or hit you, and your collar bone got broken in the process, that is not an accident. That is assault and against the law. Your father may say, Oh it was an accident, because he didn't set out to "break your collar bone" he just wanted to "knock some sense into" (in other words do and see things his way, no other way) and he broke your collar bone while trying to "knock some sense into you". That is a crime in the eyes of the laws. If you two were perfect strangers and he did that to you, say in a bar fight, or a parking lot, he could be arrested. And guess what.....it is not OK to do that to your kids or wife either. He is not "joking" he is trying to intimidate you. Your mother is wrong, your father is wrong, and maybe next time he threatens you, you should threaten him with the police, because he can and will get arrested for it. Don't egg him on, though and don't go looking for trouble. Let him be the one to start it, and just be "matter of fact" real calm like, and tell him it is agains the law. He won't like it, but he may back off. YOu see, he is obviously a coward because he only picks on people smaller than him (you!) and he won't behave that way in front of other people (your mom) He know that other people hearing those threatening words coming out of his mouth, would look at him like he was some kind of animal! I know that you don't like him talking to you that way, and I don't blame you. No one should have to put up with threats like that, and that is why it is agains the law. And since he did assault you once by breaking your collar bone, then you have a good case against him. Don't let him get away with it. And most of all, don't grow up to be like him.
MIchele
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if telling your mom deosnt work which it hasnt and probably wont unfortunaltely. whether he's joking or not it could happen agian. to prevent him from losing control and actually doing it you need to find someone maybe at school you will take you seriously and speak with your father and try to convince him to get help on controling his anger. whether he wants it or not he sounds like he needs it. a dad in his right mind deosnt threaten to break his daughters bones. ya see what im saying. hes not allowed to do that. it is against the law to hurt you like that. you need to stop it before it happens and the threat becomes real. at least tyr to make him see that saying that isnt funny and that it scares you. its okay to be afraid. i would be. well good luck. things will work out.
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Whether your dad was joking or not, he still threatened you. I thionk you should try to talk to your mom again. If she still doesnt listen, go to a teacher or another adult you trust. You dad needs to know that he has to control his anger or whatever caused him to break your coller bone. Your dad needs to get help. I really hope things go okay for you. Hope my advice helps you!
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