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ok my guy friend wants my help and im not sure what to say to him. His girlfriend whom he loves alot theyve been going out for like 8 months is treating him like dirt. They broke up for awhile then got back together. Im good friends with his girlfriend and shes always looking for other guys and says her boyfriend is ugly. Yet she claims she loves him. Shes a bit of a brat, and anytime something goes wrong thats not her boyfriends fault, she acts like shes mad at him when he did nothing wrong. I feel so bad for him because he LOVES HER. I told him if I was him Id dump her, but he said he didn't want to. I don't know how to help him. Any advice, I rate! (link)
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I think you've already given him the ultimate advice. Unless you want to give him some valid reasons for your thinking this way though he probably will continue to put up with her. You know she's going to dump him as soon as someone who in her book is better comes along. Maybe you should tell her that she needs to turn him loose so he can find a girl who deserves him. Nobody is going to ask her out if she's attached anyway. He really deserves better than that...even if she is your friend. :)
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is it safe to preform oral sex om a woman with genital herbes? (link)
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If she has open sores then no it is not safe. Genital herpes is contagious.
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my boyfriend is starting to have extermly bad family problems...i mean it was so bad last night that we couldn't even talk bC he was so upset! i don't even know what i should do..he told me he didn't wanna tell me about whats been going on bC he wanted to "protect" me from it! but he finley told me when i told him that i felt like i was doing something! he got kicked outta his house and now his back home...well last night was to terable all i could do was cry..we ened up getting into a really big fight but i stopped it and told him i didn't wanna but and more stress on him bC of what he was dealing w/...and i told him that it breaks my heart that i can't be there for him and hold him...i don't know what i should do...should i just let all this ride out...or try my best to help him out!?
plZe help me!! i'm so scared that we will break up bC of his family problems and i love him to much to have that happen (link)
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OK, you probably aren't going to like my answer.
What is he doing to get "kicked outta his house"? From the way you put it I can only suspect that he is the cause of his "family problems". I don't know how you can help him with that if he doesn't tell you anything. Chances are you won't be able to help, because unless you agree with him...he isn't going to listen.
Personally I wouldn't want to be with someone like that. The problems are probably going to ruin your relationship, I think you already realise that. :)
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Ok today i was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and he said that today it was like diffrent because he didnt know like he didn't want to talk to me. I said maybe its beacause we talk all the time together he said yea i think your right then he said i spend alot of time with you i like spend the most time with you out of all my girlfirends. Wait stop right there is that bad or good it sounds like he dosnet want to talk to me or be with me. !!
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Sounds to me like he has a harem. I think I would find someone who didn't have a so many girls hanging around that he has the audacity to tell you he doesn't feel like talking to you. He is an as*ho*e. sorry. :)
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ok...i think im really shy around gus and stuff...everyone tells me im really pretty and no guys like me. so whats a way to get a guys attention?
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Being shy really shouldn't be a big problem. Just smile at them now and then and maybe say hi. Don't turn away and make them think you are being stuck up and you'll do fine.
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I went out with this guy named Chris.We were talking and relized that we were not going to see each other this summer. Since i was going to be gone for most of the summer. So i said to him that we could be friends. But i also think about him all the time. Waiting for him to get online. I think i still like him and i think that he still likes me. But i don't know if i should give it another try or let it go. And just be friends with him? Please help me. My e-mail is mandabear1321@aol.com or mandabear1321@ yahoo.com. (link)
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I think you should leave it open for the summer. Talk and stay in touch then resume your relationship when you get back. It takes lots of attention to have a successful relationship and I don't think that will be possible with you being away.
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Im 14/f and have never frenched anyone. I know its a little pathetic but the only offers I have ever gotten have been dares and I dont wanna waste my first real kiss on a dare, that doesnt mean anything. So now I really like this guy (lets call him "Jon")...and as far as I know he likes me. Jon was going to ask me out so his friend asked if I liked Jon and I said no cuz I didn't want everone to know that I liked him. But it turns out that was his test to see if he should ask me out. So now were friends with benifits and I want to french him but how can I without making it too weird or random? (link)
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Why, if you don't want to waste your first kiss, are you wanting to do it with a friends with benefits partner? Either your his girlfriend or you're not. Don't give anything to a friends with benefits. He will never date you if you give it away. :)
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i really need help. I want to break up with my boyfriend cuz im tired of him hurting me and feeling like he doesnt care about me. but... I dont want him to hurt himself / commit suicide. Im talking to him on AIM now and he says i should see all the blood and that it hurts and he doesnt want to live. I havent even told him that i want to break up with him but i think he figured it out.
i want to break up with him but i dont want him to hurt himself. But i think he already has =\. What can i do? I know i should tell somebody about him hurting himself, but i dont really know what to tell them...?? please help me! (link)
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First of all you can't hold yourself responsible for what he may do in the future. You really need to let one of his parents know about his suicidal threats. Give the responsibility to them. He needs more help than you could ever give him.
Don't stay with him because of threats. That's like being held hostage. :)
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I've had a boyfriend for like 4 months. He's my first. He's really shy and so am I. Since both our parents are really strict I can only see him at school. I really want to kiss him on the lips but I'm too shy and I never seem to have the right time to. Please note that Im thirteen 1/2. My eight grade year has been great. Middle school is almost over, and I wanna have my first kiss, now. How can we both get over being shy when we see each other? (link)
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Once you see each other a few times your shyness will go away.
If you want a kiss...Grab him by the ears and just give him one!
Ask your mom if you can invite him over for dinner sometime during the summer. Maybe your parents will let you see each other that way during the summer. :)
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well here it goes..
i like this boy who i have dated in the past (let's call him *j). He tends to drink a lot as well as smoke. However, now he has cut back a lot on smoking. My friends think that in our previous relationship he didn't treat me right. Well, he did cheat on me with other girls while he was drunk. But, he confessed. On valentines day (while we were going out) he gave another girl a card saying he loved her. Yet, knowing me.. i just let it go. About a month after that incident we broke up, and now we are starting to like eachother again after a break of about 2 months. However, this time he is treating me different & way better. He actually calls me now as well as asking me to do stuff outside of school. He even calls me when he is around his friends, which he like never did in our previous relationship. Now i am debating as if he really has changed and wants a commitment or if he is just the same. Last week, he kissed me.. & that is giving me mixed signals. Now, i like him even more, which is killing me because how do i know he is a different person.
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You really won't know if he's changed unless you try it again. You're already liking him even more so maybe you take the risk again. Just don't put up with any nonsense this time and don't wait for him to change again. Smoking while not real pleasant is not against the law. I would be more worried about the drinking. Especially since it tends to make him do things he later regrets. Like cheating. So, if you want to try it again go ahead, just be prepared because it may not work like you want it to. :)
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hi i need some advice i cant seem to find a girl that likes me i ask and everyone says im a good guy and anygirl would be happy to have me but i just cant find one that does i feel so depressed and sad that i cant get one
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Patience is a virtue. The right one for you will come along.
What kind of girls are you asking? Take a look around and find one that thinks like you do. Maybe she isn't one of the more popular girls or the prettiest in your class. :)
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I am so full of energy so after I was laying down for like 10 minutes, i ust had this blast of hyperness and i jus ran outta my room yelling..ahaha..my mom was scared..so when she realized I was just being crazy, she started cussing at me..BAD! she was like "F*** YOU! MOTHER F*** YOU!!!" i feel so sad now :-( what can i do? (link)
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Apologise for scaring the crap out of her.I'm sure she didn't mean anything mean by it. :)
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ive known this guy for 4 years and about 3 weeks ago he said that he likes me and it was weird for him beacuse it was in a sexuall way. i dont really know what that means but is there anyways that you can help me understand? i really like him too its just that he seems to want to go further than im really wanting to and we have talked about it and he isnt gonna push me into anything. but i was just wondering, does he really like me or just want some bootie? ya know. he always tells me how beautiful and gorgeous i am and that he thinks im so hott and all i just dont know if her really does like me. can you help? another thing, he got very mad at me becuase he said i broke a promise to him b.c i told my friend about us and we werent even going out. he kept telling me that thats how i make him not want to be around me anymore.. what should i say besides im sorry?? (link)
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I personally don't see this guy as being boyfriend material. I think he wants you for sex and nothing more. He isn't attracted to you because your nice or smart or a good person. He is attracted sexually. Somebody needs to tell him if a girl doesn't have one...she doesn't give the other. :)
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Me and my old not quite boyfriend got in a fight because i had hickys on my neck and i said they were from one of my g/fs and he found out i wAs lying and he wont talk to me.. Should i give him a call and tell him im sorry? Or what should i do i miss him.. And i made a huge mistake.. (link)
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ya I suppose you should. I don't understand why a "not quite" boyfriend would be so concerned. Maybe you should ask him that. Maybe he should be asking you to be his real girlfriend if he's worried about it. :)
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 about 5 weeks now. But i recently found out that his best friend likes me and i have liked his bestfriend since last year. I dont wannna hurt anyone by saying i dont wanna going out w/ so and so but idk what to do. Should i dump my boyfriend 4 his bestfriend because i have liked him longer or should i stay w/ my boyfriend and just have a big crush on my bfs best friend? I dont wanna hurt anyone! (link)
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I think before you break up with the current boyfriend you need to make darn sure the other guy likes you. He may feel differently if you break up with his friend. This is really a mess!
The thing is if you break up with current boyfriend...even if you are nice about it, if you date his best friend hes going to take that as a slap in the face. You really have to think hard about this one. Make sure the other guy likes you before you do something hasty. :)
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There's this guy that I've became friends with this year. Surprisingly, we've grown really close. We talk all the time on the phone and on the computer. There have been certain signs that have made me think he likes me:
1) He makes direct eye contact when talking
2) He's sweet to me and mean to the rest of my friends
3) He never wants me to get offline or off the phone when I'm talking
4) Though this isn't a reliable sign, he has had a "boner" twice when talking to me
5) He smiles at me all the time
6) Tries to show off in front of me
7) Makes the kissy faces online and says that it was an accident
8) Suggested we hang out sometime after school
9) Told me I look better with my hair down (not really a sign but wanted to throw it in there)
10) People always come up to me and tell me that they think he likes me
I'm not sure if that sounds like a match but, lately things have been weird. He's telling me how much he likes this other girl and she knows. Today she turned him down (even though he didn't ask her directly) and now I'm thinking he really doesn't like me. What should I do? I want to make a move because it seems like the signs point to yes but then, he likes her!
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There are different kinds of like. He might like you as a friend now. That doesn't mean he can't be swayed! Keep up the friendship and maybe even ask him straight out if he wants to go out or something. Get it over with! :)
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This really hot guy asked for my number and now he is going to call me.. obviously. The problem is i never know what to say when i talk to guys on the phone its kinda akward. What can i do to prevent something liek me running out of cool things to tlak about? (link)
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just let him lead the conversation. Be yourself and don't try to impress him...he already likes you or he wouldn't be calling. Don't worry you will find something to talk about. :)
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ok here the thing,
i'm going out with this one girl (let's call her g.) now me & "g" have beem going out for around 2-3 weeks. now i like "g" and all that but i also like this other girl. (let's call her sussie)
now me & "sussie" have went out before but she broke up with me.now about a year later i hear from some of her friends that she still has feelings for me. she also acts like she still has feelings for me. she'll like watch me while i'm outside or smile at me & stuff. so wat do i do?
could someoen PLZ HELP ME OUT!!!!!
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The first one has broke up with you before. You need to decide if anything has changed since then to make the relationship work a second time.
She may also just like you now because someone else does. That has been known to happen too. It all boils down to which one you like better. Maybe you just need to be free to date anyone you like and don't attach yourself to any one girl. :)
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My boyfriend can be so immature sometimes & it really bothers me. He's always fooling around & playing pranks of people. I know he's a guy so he's entitled to have fun with his friends but sometimes, it gets out of hand. What do I do?
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When it starts getting out of hand you need to express your disapproval. Not that it will do much good...some guys don't ever grow up and can be very irritating at times. :)
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Hi my name is jess i like this kid named Egore and i think he likes me to but the onl problem is that hes black i dont mean to sound mean but my dad says i cant date black people i mean i really like him but i dont want to disrespect him ehat shoul i do. (link)
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If you're nowhere close to 18 then defying dad isn't a good idea. Other than that bass chick is right on the money. The thing is you don't want to hack dad off to much or he may not even let you be friends. That would be bad. So, I think you need to stay friends for now at the very least. Then, when you are 18 and dad can't pick your boyfriends you can see him...if you are both still available. I don't agree with your dads way of thinking but you have to live with it while you are young. Doesn't mean you can't try to change his way of thinking...just don't jeopardize what relationship you CAN have with your friend. :)
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