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Ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 about 5 weeks now. But i recently found out that his best friend likes me and i have liked his bestfriend since last year. I dont wannna hurt anyone by saying i dont wanna going out w/ so and so but idk what to do. Should i dump my boyfriend 4 his bestfriend because i have liked him longer or should i stay w/ my boyfriend and just have a big crush on my bfs best friend? I dont wanna hurt anyone!
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I think before you break up with the current boyfriend you need to make darn sure the other guy likes you. He may feel differently if you break up with his friend. This is really a mess!
The thing is if you break up with current boyfriend...even if you are nice about it, if you date his best friend hes going to take that as a slap in the face. You really have to think hard about this one. Make sure the other guy likes you before you do something hasty. :)
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thats a tough situation...if it was me i wouldnt date either of them...just break up with your boyfriend and tell him that you want to be good friends with him...and stay good friends with that other guy too...and then...if you do end up being in love with one of them then u date the one you're in love with...but dont rush anything ya kno?
best wishes
~nichole~
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take some time to think without anyone around you. find the boy that makes you feel special.
both boys sound great , but would you risk your boyfriend for his best friend and loss trust in your boy friend. or loss one friend to go with his friend? just take time to think.
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well one things for sure, you cant go on likethis. its not fair on anyone. you cant be with your boyfirend is you have feelings for someone, especially his best friend! you really need to think about this one carefully but one this you cant do is lie to yourself no matter how much you dont want to hurt people. your feelings for his best mate are obviously stronger thant the ones you have for your boyfriend so i think you should finish him before things get too serious. whatever you decide to do someone is goin to get hurt. but sorry huni thats just the way it is in love and war, you just have to make sure its not you thats the one that gets hurt. i think you should try it with his best friend. he's obviously the one that you want so go for it! you boyfriend wont be happy because after all yor going to finish him for his best mate, so id leave it a little while before you too make it official that your dating. but make sure you tell him your interested but just explain the situation. he will understand because he wont want to hurt his best friend either.
hope it all works out!
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what i would do would think to my self whos nicer to you who hangs out with you more i know it would be hard but you need to tell one of them you can write a note to his best freind saying that you like him and stuff if your boy freind gets mad then at least you will have another boy to go out with
hoped i helped (love Brittany)
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You shouldn't really be going out with your boyfriend when you have feelings for anyone else no matter who they are. It also sounds as if your feelings for the best friend may be stronger than those for your boyfriend. Therefore it might be better to call it a day with your boyfriend as it's not fair on either of you if you have feelings for someone else. However don't suddenly try and start something with the best friend as your ex would get really hurt and also you need to think about the relationship between the two boys! If you do decide to split up with your boyfriend don't let him know the real reasons just say that you think you'd both be better off and happier as friends. It's never easy but it sounds like the best plan! Good luck
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