my boyfriend is starting to have extermly bad family problems...i mean it was so bad last night that we couldn't even talk bC he was so upset! i don't even know what i should do..he told me he didn't wanna tell me about whats been going on bC he wanted to "protect" me from it! but he finley told me when i told him that i felt like i was doing something! he got kicked outta his house and now his back home...well last night was to terable all i could do was cry..we ened up getting into a really big fight but i stopped it and told him i didn't wanna but and more stress on him bC of what he was dealing w/...and i told him that it breaks my heart that i can't be there for him and hold him...i don't know what i should do...should i just let all this ride out...or try my best to help him out!?
plZe help me!! i'm so scared that we will break up bC of his family problems and i love him to much to have that happen
What is he doing to get "kicked outta his house"? From the way you put it I can only suspect that he is the cause of his "family problems". I don't know how you can help him with that if he doesn't tell you anything. Chances are you won't be able to help, because unless you agree with him...he isn't going to listen.
Personally I wouldn't want to be with someone like that. The problems are probably going to ruin your relationship, I think you already realise that. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
MmSBaBe167 answered Saturday May 28 2005, 4:06 pm: thats awful but you need to help him through these times even if he doesnt want you to because if your his girl you need to be there there for him even if he denies it he wants help and you could be the one that gets him through it. dont think about breakin up i bet you guys have a good thing going and you need to keep on struggling if your in love things will fall in place keep your and his head up too because in a realationship struggling keeps it strong dont give up ! good luck
naimee answered Saturday May 28 2005, 4:03 pm: dear family problems dont try to interfeir with his family problems because its not your fight its between him and his parents just be there for him when he needs you the most this will all most likley come to two ways between his family he will either
1: Get it over with his family and theres a happy ending
or
2: He will run away and come to your house to stay there if it gets so bad at home [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
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