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ive known this guy for 4 years and about 3 weeks ago he said that he likes me and it was weird for him beacuse it was in a sexuall way. i dont really know what that means but is there anyways that you can help me understand? i really like him too its just that he seems to want to go further than im really wanting to and we have talked about it and he isnt gonna push me into anything. but i was just wondering, does he really like me or just want some bootie? ya know. he always tells me how beautiful and gorgeous i am and that he thinks im so hott and all i just dont know if her really does like me. can you help? another thing, he got very mad at me becuase he said i broke a promise to him b.c i told my friend about us and we werent even going out. he kept telling me that thats how i make him not want to be around me anymore.. what should i say besides im sorry??
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I personally don't see this guy as being boyfriend material. I think he wants you for sex and nothing more. He isn't attracted to you because your nice or smart or a good person. He is attracted sexually. Somebody needs to tell him if a girl doesn't have one...she doesn't give the other. :)
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Well, first that he is upset you told someone, makes me think he has a girlfriend or is having sex with someone and doesn't want them to know about you. That he is saying you do things that make him not want to be around you is another huge clue. This boy just wants sex. At your age your bodies are changing daily. That you've known each other for so long and he's just now gotten sexually interested in you is because of two things. One he's finally gone through puberty. Two he actually looked at you as you are now, and not as you have been since he first met you. Thinking about cars can give a boy his age a hard-on for God's Sake. That he wants you should be completely ignored as part of the relationship for that reason if for no other. His reactions are nothing but hormones at this age. You are not ready, he thinks it's only a matter of time till he wares you down. His penis wants in and he's being led by it. He probably had sex with another girl and thinks it will be great to try something different. This boy is going to be a real player when he gets older.
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He is just making you crazy honey so he can control you. Why shouldn't you be able to tell your friends that you are going out. Why do you have to hide it. What is he married or something? No,I know he is not. But he is sneaky and that sets off alarms for me. HE IS ONLY INTERESTED IN BOOTY! I guarantee it. What did he do to the other girls he went out with? Dump them after he gotwhat he wanted? Do they have broken hearts. Honey I don't think it is physically or emotionally possible for young men to be looking for anything but booty at their age. I get tooooo many questions from girls who have had their hearts broken. And not enough telling me that they are meeting nice guys.
If I were you I would listen to your intuition that is trying to tell you something. You already know the answer. But you don't want that answer. You want someone here to tell you that it is Ok, go ahead. Well if your heart can stand the break then go ahead. But if you avoid him, or at least stand your ground and don't go all the way.....he will eventually show his real colors. I'll bet that you are beautiful and gorgeous...so keep yourself that way. If he uses you then dumps you, you are going to feel ugly. And very foolish when he won't even talk to you any more, and is working on the next girl. I wish you luck.
Michele
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1st off he sounds like a great guy. but when you liked him back it sounded like he thought you were going out. it dosen't matter the height either. my old boyfriend was up to my shoulders and i am 5' 1". you don't need to say sorry for one promise. if he explodes like this i would forget about him.
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he likes you in a sexual way, i think just means that he likes you as more then a friend.
and to see if he really likes you or just wants you for bootie, dont let him get any bootie untill you have been going out for a really long time, if he sticks around that means he most likely likes you.
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