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hi i need some advice i cant seem to find a girl that likes me i ask and everyone says im a good guy and anygirl would be happy to have me but i just cant find one that does i feel so depressed and sad that i cant get one
Signed ~Needed Love~
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Hey hun! I'm sure your a really great guy! Don't ever change the way you are if you feel like you need to be different in order to get a girlfriend. You'll find someone in no time! You just have to take your time! Don't rush things! It might take a while to find someone, but someday you'll end up meeting someone you like so much and as you talk more and more you guys will realize you have feelings for each other and go out. Keep being the good guy that you are, and you'll have no problem finding someone! You have plenty of time!!!! If your a little shy, maybe you should start opening up a little more to girls and flirt a little with them. You could meet people when your at the mall, school, the movies, just about anywhere! Strike up a conversation with someone if you ever start to like someone! Don't worry, you sound like a really great guy. You'll find someone! :-) I feel the same way. I want a boyfriend so bad, but I can't seem to get a boyfriend. I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend again, and that I'm too ugly and shy. If you ever need anymore help, or just wanna talk you can email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com or KxIxMxMxY51890@aol.com. I'll be sure to email you back! You can also IM me anytime on that second screenname I gave. Alright, well good luck hun! Everything will be fine! You'll find someone, and when you do you'll be so happy! There are many girls out there!
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Awwww!!!! You sound adorable. In a way you sound like me I can't find a guy! LIGHTEN Up its not the end of the world!! Although you could try and pick a girl you have a crush on... or just wait a few days and just start talking to girls! My gosh dont be in such a rush for love..hehe lol
:hugs: !LIZ! Hope my advice helps a little
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awwww dont worry that one special girl is out there, and you'll find her sooner or later. for now try to be really nice to girls they love it when guys call them randomly, like once a guy called me at midnight and said he couldnt sleep without hearing my voice. do sweet stuff like that (but dont call them that late unless they r good friends) also you could be more a flirt and hang out with the girls and get to know them better but not like every second cause then ur guy friends would be feelin wierd about it. i really hope i helped!♥
Tara
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Hey i would just say do what u like doing best sooner or later your true love will show up on your front step.If not im hear for you just kidding i you need any more help im me on xxlittlejxx9 or e-mail me at jessie921912@yahoo.com
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First off, make sure you never stop being a good guy. Even if you're feeling a bit ignored and that all the "bad guys" are getting the girls, don't change. The good guys always win in the end and I preffer them. From a girl's point of view, I think you should just try making friends with some girls. Friendship means you'll get to spend time with more girls and they will eventually end up having some sort of feelings for you because when you spend alot of time with a certain person who is of opposite gender, you can develope a crush. Girls also like guys they can trust so building a relationship based on friends is the best way to show them that. Good luck & if you ever need any help, feel free to ask me.
xo♥ monty
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First off, make sure you never stop being a good guy. Even if you're feeling a bit ignored and that all the "bad guys" are getting the girls, don't change. The good guys always win in the end and I preffer them. From a girl's point of view, I think you should just try making friends with some girls. Friendship means you'll get to spend time with more girls and they will eventually end up having some sort of feelings for you because when you spend alot of time with a certain person who is of opposite gender, you can develope a crush. Girls also like guys they can trust so building a relationship based on friends is the best way to show them that. Good luck & if you ever need any help, feel free to ask me.
xo♥ monty
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quick lookin 4 just love and just have fun with ur friends and every1 and you will find love, dont go lookin 4 love let it find u
or start lookin 4 some1 who shares the same interets as u
dont just go 4 any1
answered by taylor the sax
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Patience is a virtue. The right one for you will come along.
What kind of girls are you asking? Take a look around and find one that thinks like you do. Maybe she isn't one of the more popular girls or the prettiest in your class. :)
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I'm going to give you advice I have given to many other people.
First of all, do you even have a girl in mind you really like? If the answer is no, then why are you depressed? You need to wait until you DO find that girl and ask her out. Until then, you can't go around being depressed about being single when you haven't even found the girl you're crazy about.
I'm assuming you are a teen. You don't have to worry about being lonely for the rest of your life! You have plenty of time to find your soul mate. You can't get depressed just because that special girl hasn't gone out with you yet.
My brother is twenty three and he still hasn't found love. I'm not sure if he ever will because he pushes away everything and thinks marriage is stupid. That doesn't mean his life is worthless. You don't have to get married just to be happy. There are many people out there that are not married. Your life doesn't have to revolve around having a girlfriend. And if you have excellent friends you can live life happily without being tied down.
So whether you find someone or not, you will be happy, as long as you try to be and work for it.
My point is, everyone has a boyfriend or girlfriend at different times. Even though it may feel like you're the only person "lonely and single", believe me, lots of other people are too.
So the solution is to stop wanting a girlfriend. We make ourselves suffer only because we want things and because we are selfish. If we put those selfish wants aside, they will come to us when they come and you don't need to mope around all day waiting for it.
Nobody "needs" a boyfriend or girlfriend. Heck, we could go through life without one. Don't be a dependant person. Enjoy life single while you can. A guy doesn't need a girl just to be happy. If you kept yourself happy and surrounded yourself with awesome friends, you wouldn't worry about getting a girl all day long. There are many things in life we can achieve and they don't require having a girl by your side.
Being desperate for a girlfriend is not a good thing. You know why? Because it makes your judgement cloudy. You'll probably end up going out with any old chick. That's bad because you want someone special. Which is exactly why you should just let life take its course and wait for the perfect girl to roll along.
And if she never comes, so what? The truth is, not everyone finds love. But that doesn't mean your life is worthless. Your life is what you make it. So make life great.
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Dear Needed Love,
okay. I'm not going to give you any of that advice thats like "be yourself" or w/e. I think i have some straight out advice for you. You say you have asked around about what girls think of you. Have you asked any out? Also, do you like any certain girl? If you do, just ask her out! Or, if your not sure who to like, look around for a girl like YOU, who needs some1. And dont misjusdge any girl. jsut becouse their not the prettiest doesnt mean that their not worthy of your love. I hope you find some1!!
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Girls only like you if you make them like you. Be friends with them. Make sure they know you want them. And it wouldn't hurt to grow your hair out ;) Girls like maturity, too. Don't be depressed about it. There are so many other things worth being depressed about, not having a girlfriend is a very tiny problem that doesn't matter much. Just don't think about it so much, and one day a girl will come up to you and say, "Wow you are wicked hot and I really like you!" Girls are also pretty shy. See, we've basically been told that a guy has to make the first move, and they are probably afraid that if they ask you out, you won't like them. Don't be afraid to ask a girl out.
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Seems like your a little desprate huh? l0l Babe dont worry! Just stop looking and asking everyone. Go out with your buds and introduce yourself to some girls and ask them for their screen name or number! All girls like that. Im sure any girl would like you but you will meet that special girl soon. Talk to them and ask to hang out. When they really get to know you they will think you are a good boyfriend. Make sure you treat them right and everything. ♥
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stop looking. just be yourself and she will evenyually show up. =).
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ok well this is kinda tough but, you can probably get one maybe your just going through a time where things are odd just keep your head up and things will be fine I bet you can get one if you have a girl that you like that your good good friends with take her out and show her a good time no worries you'll do fine good luck
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