I've had a boyfriend for like 4 months. He's my first. He's really shy and so am I. Since both our parents are really strict I can only see him at school. I really want to kiss him on the lips but I'm too shy and I never seem to have the right time to. Please note that Im thirteen 1/2. My eight grade year has been great. Middle school is almost over, and I wanna have my first kiss, now. How can we both get over being shy when we see each other?
Vassalisa answered Saturday May 28 2005, 8:27 pm: What do you do together when you hang out? Can you go out to do something fun with a group of friends? That way your parents would approve but you can break the ice a little with your boyfriend. It's hard trying to get over shyness when you are at school. What you want is a bit of intimacy but you're in a pretty public place! Would your Mom & Dad be alright about your boyfriend hanging out at your house? Maybe if they got to know him they would let you spend a little time alone. [ Vassalisa's advice column | Ask Vassalisa A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday May 28 2005, 5:23 pm: Once you see each other a few times your shyness will go away.
If you want a kiss...Grab him by the ears and just give him one!
Ask your mom if you can invite him over for dinner sometime during the summer. Maybe your parents will let you see each other that way during the summer. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
MmSBaBe167 answered Saturday May 28 2005, 4:10 pm: you should do it last day of school and just let it roll shyness never lasts you can do it no problem go for it and wear lip gloss (lol)good luck
sweetpea318_247 answered Saturday May 28 2005, 3:27 pm: you need to see him other than just in school...having a boyfriend that you only see in school is lame...especially because school is almost over...duh...talk to your parents about gettin to know him and stuff...and if they refuse...sneak out and go spend time with him duh! then you will both get over being shy...it just takes time hunnie best wishes
~nichole~ [ sweetpea318_247's advice column | Ask sweetpea318_247 A Question ]
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