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need help for my friend
ok my guy friend wants my help and im not sure what to say to him. His girlfriend whom he loves alot theyve been going out for like 8 months is treating him like dirt. They broke up for awhile then got back together. Im good friends with his girlfriend and shes always looking for other guys and says her boyfriend is ugly. Yet she claims she loves him. Shes a bit of a brat, and anytime something goes wrong thats not her boyfriends fault, she acts like shes mad at him when he did nothing wrong. I feel so bad for him because he LOVES HER. I told him if I was him Id dump her, but he said he didn't want to. I don't know how to help him. Any advice, I rate!
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Your friend doesn't deserve to be treated like that, and that's what you need to tell him.
Say "______ (Name), I know you still like ______ (the girlfriend's name), but you don't deserve to be treated like dirt! When you're in a relationship, your girlfriend should treat you well and make you happy, not treat you like dirt and bring you down!"
Also, tell him that someday he will find someone better who he loves, and who REALLY loves him back, and shows it by treating him well!
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♥ Manders
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I think you've already given him the ultimate advice. Unless you want to give him some valid reasons for your thinking this way though he probably will continue to put up with her. You know she's going to dump him as soon as someone who in her book is better comes along. Maybe you should tell her that she needs to turn him loose so he can find a girl who deserves him. Nobody is going to ask her out if she's attached anyway. He really deserves better than that...even if she is your friend. :)
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he might not really REALIZE that his girlfriend calls him ugly and is constantly looking for other guys. but if he does know that, then I feel bad for him. you need to tell him the truth and every detail of crap she says about him. or, if you dont want to, get someone else to tell him. believe it or not, there are the quiet girls out there who would be dying to go out with him, cause he seems like a really great guy. inform him that he deserves to be treated better. its a tough situation.
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I think you should either stay out of it ( and I know that doesnt seem like it'll help but it might) or tell him to do the same thing shes is...like tell every1 shes an ugly slut or that they slept together...that will get her to stop haha hope I helped lyl good luck I wanna hear what happend even if you didn't use my advice so send feed back byach! Mwaa<3
<3 dianee
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tell him what his girlfriend has been saying and hopefully he will listen to you. let him know that you don't want him to be hurt more than he is already. if he still doesn't break up with her..drop it. its not really any of your business although you are doing the right thing trying to be a good friend. sometimes people just need to figure things out for themselves. good luck!
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If I were you I would tell him all the stuff that his g/f is saying, because if he's really your friend, he would listen to you. Also it;s better that you tell him so that he doesn't end up even more hurt. I hope I helped! :)
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