shuld i shave my arms
Yes, it will hurt something.
There is absolutely no reason for you to shave your arms. It will only make your arm hair come in thicker and darker.
so, No, do not shave your arms.
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This year my mom gave me a budget for school clothes, only 500 dollars. Last year I got twice as much and this money includes clothes, shoes, accesories, bras and panties! I'm spending my money wisely but what should I spend the most on and where should I go?
I spent 200 bucks today and didnt get hardly anything... I went to Buckle, Hollister, and Gadzooks! I need fashion HeLp please!!
You sound quite spoiled. Sorry if thats mean, but from what you say it's probably true. 500 dollars is way more than you need to buy school stuff. If you want more then you should go get your own job.
If you were spending your own money, instead of your mother's money, then you would understand how money works and not buy "hardly anything" for almost half of your entire budget. Money isn't never ending. You can't just expect it to replenish itself when you've spent it all on the most expensive name brand cloths out there.
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I dated this person 4 almost 4 yrs... I loved them soo much n then we went down hill. I don't know if I'm still "inlove" with them, but I always think about them. It's starting to get better and fade away, but they seem to already have moved on. It's only been a year!! What should I do?? Do you think they've moved on?We were eachothers first loves, and I thought first loves don't end!!!Plz Help!!
Sorry, first loves don't always last. All you can do is just move on. You might always love them, but the part of your life where you both were in love with each other is gone. Maybe you could try being friends with this person. But if you think it would be too hard, and you would get upset everytime you think he/she is interested in someone else, then I would take a break from spending time with him/her for a while.
I'm still in this type of situation with my first love. I still love him, and I always will, but it's different then when we were going out. I love him like a best friend, not a lover. A lot of times it's better than before.
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Well I know this is kinda sick and all but im gonna ask neways..when I shave down there its gets all red like a rash and then sometimes it bleed and i really dont know what to do..
Ok, there are too many questions about shaving your pubic hair. I know what you could do to help this, but I don't want to write it down at the moment, either ask me on my column or search for "How to shave your pubic hair" on google, or any other search engine.
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I've been with my boyfriend Steve for alomost 2months now. I haven't seen him in over a month and by the time i get to talk to him it'll have been a month. Lately I've been talking to my best friend Chris a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I really like him now. And i'm more open with him and i can talk to him easier than i can talk to steve but hes going to high school next year and im going into 8th grade and so is steve. Chris just got dumped by one of my best girl friends and shes mad at me cause she thinks i called her a slut and i didnt. I told chris i liked him when he was still going out with my friend. about a week after she dumped him he said he liked me back. we were playing truth or truth and he asked me if i would dump steve for anyone. And i said why do you want me to. And he said yes. I said i dont know if i would cause i hadnt talked to steve in so long. I'm really confused i dont know what to do. Should i dump steve and go out with chris? i mean it might make my friend mad cause she gets mad at stupid things. Or should i wait till steve comes home and talk to him cause i also feel like i barely even know him. who should i choose? what should i do?
Ok, a couple of things. When your going out with someone, it's usually a given that you see them more than one a month. That is, if you really like the guy and your not just going out with him for the sake of telling people your going out with someone. So, if you can really talk to Chris, and are more comfortable with him than Steve, then you should go for him instead.
But first, before you do that, I would talk to your friend. Make sure she knows you didn't call her a slut and tell her you really like Chris, you don't want to hurt her, but you can't help liking him, and ask her if she is ok with it. Then I would sit down and talk to Steve before you make any decisions. Tell him that you don't like the fact that you never see each other and stuff like that.
Oh, and the fact that your a grade under Chris doesn't really matter. Boys usually mature slower than girls anyway, so you two are probably just about on the same maturity wavelength.
So, talk to you friend, talk to Chris, and then you can start to make your decision.
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hey - my best friend has this boyfriend .. and like i KNOW shes to good for him and whenever the THREE of us chill something goes down and she gets mad at me .. because i "flirt" with him .. like i try not to and shes such a bitch sometimes i just cant take it and then .. she goes and chooses him over me .. how can i tell her hes no good without hurting her .. and this is something that totally bugs me .. you have NOO CLUE .. and maybe if it was 2 guys and 2 girls i wouldnt get into a fite with her .. and you know what i cant help that i like her boyfriend a lil cause he is really really HOT .. help me please !!
Yes, you can help it that you like her boyfriend.
Your sopposed to be her friend. A real friend would never flirt with their best friend's boyfriend. Are you just trying to get her to break up with him because you think he's so hot and want him? Thats terrible. I don't blame her for siding with him, I don't blame her for getting mad at you. I wouldn't blame her at all if she wasn't even your friend anymore.
Here's your advice: Stop being a terrible friend and flirting with her boyfriend.
Stop trying to make her feel like he isn't good enough for her, when your the one that wants him.
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My boyfriends friends don't approve of me.. and he has only been ahnging out with the 2 that do this summer so far.. but now hes hanging out with the other ones again.. and there the reason we broke up the other times... I mean.. i know i have no control over who he hangs with but would it be wrong of me to maybe ask him in the nicest way possible to not spend time with them so much?? I don't want him to dump me again because of them!!!:(
He should be able to hang out with them, but he shouldn't let them make you feel like you don't belong. His friends shouldn't be treating you like your not good enough for him. You need to talk to him about that. Just tell him how you feel and how they make you feel. He should respect your feelings, and do something about how his friends are acting.
If he really likes you then he will like you even when a couple of his friends don't.
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my best friend is a year younger tahn me in school...so sometimes it feels like i dont have any one to talk to that is my age. I have many friends that are inthe same grade as me...but they arent my best friend...so help plz!
One year is nothing. If she's your best friend then I'm guessing you two have a lot in common, so you should be able to talk to her about anything. Don't ditch her and find someone else to be best friends with just because she's a tiny bit younger.
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thanks to the ppl who helped me earlier but could u give me more symtoms of being preg...like earlier preg only a couple weeks i would say whhat would happen if u were a couple weeks preg..what would ur body go through?
Just go see a doctor. Go buy a pregnancy test. Don't ask other people what the symptoms are, if you think your pregnant, if you have a reason to think your pregnant, then get tested to see if you are.
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I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me!
I hate to tell you this, but this question is asked about guys of all ages. Most guys do go for the beautiful curvy women. But thats pretty much always just a lust. If a guy gets to know your great personality and see's how your more beautiful because of it then any relationship you have will be much better than if a guy is just trying to get down your pants because you have big boobs.
Pretty much no one gets it. You'll probably be asking this question for the rest of your life.
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i'm 13 and i weigh 126 lbs. i think that's WAY too much for my age. i don't look fat at all but this past year people at school have been saying that i'm really fat. what should i do? what are some good ways to loose weight?
If you don't look fat, and you don't feel fat, then your not fat. It's as simple as that.
Don't let people try to put you down, high school bites and teenagers are rude in large groups. So if you already know you don't look fat then don't listen to anyone else.
Also, depending on your height, 126 is not overweight for 13.
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Hi, I am Noni and my family hates my boyfriend. Only because he dresses gothic. I mean, he believes in God though. Anyways, I really like him, and he really likes me. My mom refuses to let me call him, e-mail him, and all. He is really sweet. And everyone thinks I should break up with him because he is going to high school, and I'm only going to 7th grade. And I am 13 and he's nearly 15. I am 13 and a female. What should I do?
Your parents shouldn't be discriminating him because of his choice of cloths. Gothic isn't a religion, its usually just a fashion choice. Don't break up with him just because he's goign to high school. You started going out with him because you like him right? If so then you should keep going out with him. I usually don't like to tell people to hide things from their parents, but I think your parents are being totally rude. So do what you want to do and don't let them tell you to hate someone just because of the way they look. Thats just wrong.
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what are the side affects of birth control? and can i get it w/o telling my mom? if so how...and what is the day after pill and all that? and how can i get it?
Talk to a doctor, they can tell you more. It depends on what kind of birth control you take. I have taken the pill (ortho-tri-cyclen) and the shot (deprovera) They both involve mood swings or bitchiness, ortho could make you loose some hair, and a few other bad side effects. It's been a while since I took it. Also, if you don't take it correctly, which means EVERY day, at the SAME time each day, then it is not effective. Not everyone gets those side effects, and not every gets them as bad. And, if you can get past them, they only last a few months.
With deprovera, it might also cause a small amount of weight gain. This mostly only happens bothers you if you are already over weight. But the good thing about that is that you don't bleed. You still have pms and everything, but you don't bleed. Whether or not this is a good thing, it's up to you, my gynocologist has always told me that it doesn't hurt. But when you think about how bleeding each month cleans your insides out, then you might think otherwise.
You need to talk to a doctor about which choice is good for you. Your doctor cannot tell your parents anything about what you tell them, at least in my state(Maine) There are also a lot of free clinics around, focusing on birth control and woman care. Try to find out about those.
I would suggest taking birth control AND using condoms. You can never know if someone has an STD or not, so if you don't completely trust your partner then don't take a chance.
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Some moron sent this piece of poorly written tripe to me and everyone else who didn't completely agree with their narrow-minded opinion. Don't make a habit of this - it would be a shame to have to ban you from the site for harassment.
"Let me tell you somethin.
1)youre telling me that u think women should have the right to KILL their unborn child? thats wrong. under any circumstances. and dont tell me they arent alive in there yet. ive done SEVERAL research projects on it.
2)If we didnt go to war, the terrorists would just REPEAT what theyve already done to us thinking we wouldnt fight back. PLus, its not like those people are being forced to go to war. Its their choice to join the forces you dumbsh*t.
3)Youre right about not being able to choose who you love. And you shouldnt have to stop loving them just because you cant get married. ive also done research on this. theyre are many other factors on letting gays/lesbians marry than just letting them go to a chapel and confess their vows. in this country, along with getting married, theyre tax benefits and many things of that sort that SOME people..it would be possibe for them to be getting married just for those reasons. You might think that thats the same for male/female marriages but its not. its a long story and very confusing.
4)kerry is 'pro-choice'. bush..is pro-LIFRE...youre voting for somebody who says its okay to kill an unborn child when if you just put it up for adoption, you would be making another family very happy as well as be getting paid for the hospital bills. abortions are expencive. plus, kerry looks like his face is melting off but thats beside the point.
and your a comple dumbass cuz u have NO IDEA the things that sadaam did to the us and his country. he was killing thousands of people in gas chambers and torture cells just like in the hollocaust. and he was leading his country to make more attacks on the us. get your facts straight. also, gays and lesbians have been getting along FINE for MANY MANY MANY years so why change things now and make a bunch of controversy?? and kerry is against the death penalty. you know what that means? more people in prision. you know what THAT means? INNOCENT AMERICANS HAVE TO PAY MORE TAX DOLLARS TO PAY FOR THE PEOPLE IN PRISION TO BE COMFORTABLE AND NOT HUNGRY!! So, you wanna pay for murders to be 'comfortable'? i dont think so.
so u vote kerry?? u might wanna rethink that."
Thank you so much. I got this same letter for no apparent reason. I had never said anything on any of these topics, have never said I was a democrat or anything, and I have some person calling me a dumbass? I did mention that I'm voting for Kerry because I don't want Bush in office, but I am always open to other's opinions. But things like this just make me mad. I want to know things from both sides, Kerry supporters, and Bush supporters, but I don't want to hear unintelligent stuff like this. I want to hear logical arguments for both sides.
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ok my name is ashley and i am 14. i have a boyfriend and i like him and all but recently he sent me a pic of him and i really dont like his face. he has a nice body and everything. but he lives in indiana and comes out every weekend to his dads. i know u all r thinking im shallow and ur prolly rite and everything but i just cant help it!he is nice and says i am super precios an dsweet but im not sure if he says that to other ppl bc of where he lives. neway i dont kow what to do. i dont wanna eb a bitch and break up with him but i also dont want the situation to come up where i have to kiss him and i cant stand his face!i really need help. for my advice i really dont want ppl to tell me im shallow and to not care if he is ugly bc i know all that but as a person that i am i cant get over that nd i know that is horrible!i really need advice!thanks!
If your really that unhappy and that uncomfortable with the situation then he's obviously not right for you. I wouldn't say your being shallow, as much as people try to say they look for personality, not looks, physical attraction DOES matter. A really good personalitie definately can make someone seem a lot sexier to some people, but this person might not be the one to do that for you.
If your going to let him down, do it easily, don't tell him that it's about his looks, that will just crush him and bring his self esteem down so badly. Try to be friends with him, maybe you'll have a change of heart sometime in the future.
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mii bf has two friends and i had asked him to go to canobiie lake ((amusment park)) with me on sundaii and then his two friends tell me his b-daii party is sundaii and that he cant go.. and they said he has known about it cuz they throw him a huge party everii year.. i donno what to do.. whii would he lie and what should i do...
lOvE,
xAmiiEx
P.S: if im his gf shouldn't i be invited..?
I would talk to him about it. If you feel like you should have been invited then yes, you probably should have. And even if it is just a guy thing then you should have at least heard about it, shouldn't you have?
Talk to him and don't go through his two friends to get some answeres
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heyy im sara and i have this friend that is like my all time best friend but idk if i can trust her cus i want he to met my boyfriend but she stole my bf once from me and idk if she will do it again but ik she didnt mean to steel him i think abd she told me she was so0o sorry (( but idk if i can trust her i cant take my heart gettin hurt again what shold i do:-/??
please help??
I don't see how she could be a good friend if she steals your boyfriend. Even if it was on accident, she shouldn't be going after your boyfriend, and if your boyfriend comes on to you, then your friend should NEVER go out with him, or do anything at all with him.
If she was a real friend then she wouldn't go after anyone that you were interested, and vice versa. Friends shouldn't do that because it seems like a scenario like this will happen each and every time.
Other than that, I would say that if you can't trust your boyfriend to not go for her if you introduce them then he isn't right for you. And if he just goes for your friend because she's pretty when he's already seeing you, then he's a pretty terrible person anyway.
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i really like this guy but when ever i tell him how im feelin about something he gets really mad (like he friends were tellin me all i said to the guy i like is its getin to my head its like messin with me and he blow up in my face and said so u beleive them not me and got pissed i dont know what 2 do i try to tell him how i feel and he just gets mad what should i do???
female/13 almost 14
he is 15 almost 16 (( male lol))
If he blows up like that just because your told him how your feeling, then thats just not right. You need to be able to tell him how you feel, and if you can't do that then you will just be miserable. Try explaining to him that you need to be able to come to him when something is really bothering you, it's not that you believe them, but you need to know why they are saying those kind of things. Don't let him make you feel like your doing something wrong just because your feeling that way.
Tell him that you don't like his friends making you feel like that and wish they would stop. Of course if you hear something over and over again it's going to start to get to you and make you feel really bad, and I know from experience that it makes you feel ten times worse when the guy you like blows up at you for telling you that your feeling bad. From my experience those kind of guys, the ones that will blow up when you try to talk about your feelings, they aren't usually worth it.
I would suggest trying to talk to him more, and don't let him make you feel like your doing something wrong. If he still blows up and doesn't want to even talk about the subject then he probalby isn't worth any of the trouble.
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ok. ive liked this kid (he lives nxt door) for about 3 yrs now, and like,, he knows how i feel and stuff but- idk. i kno he dont like me and @ 1st i thot maybe it was my age (im 13 hes 14) but then he started to like my friend he he keeps asking me to invite her over or w/e. but the truth is, that even tho i tell everi 1 im over him, im rly not. idk wut it is, i just cant. but i rly don think he realizes y i cant/ wont invite her over 4 him even tho i kno nothing ken ever go on between us. idk how to make him get it. am i being a bad friend?
Just tell him straight up why you don't want to inviter her over. That you don't want to watch him hit on her and that you still care about him and have feelings for him.
I don't think your being a bad friend, he shouldn't expect you to do that for him if he knows that you like him. I think he's being a bit disrespectful to you. Or maybe he just doesn't realize that you still like him. I can't be sure, but I would say to just talk to him about it.
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What happens if the person who made you cry is the only person who can make you stop?
Yeah, it sucks when that happens doesn't it? Talk to the person, tell them how they made you feel. If they care about you then they will stop making you feel that way. They will try to comfort you and make you feel better again. But if they keep making you cry then they are not worth it and your going to have to move on. I can't really tell you how to move on from someone who you've loved and who has been the one to make you happy in the past, it's still very very hard for me to do also.
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