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hey - my best friend has this boyfriend .. and like i KNOW shes to good for him and whenever the THREE of us chill something goes down and she gets mad at me .. because i "flirt" with him .. like i try not to and shes such a bitch sometimes i just cant take it and then .. she goes and chooses him over me .. how can i tell her hes no good without hurting her .. and this is something that totally bugs me .. you have NOO CLUE .. and maybe if it was 2 guys and 2 girls i wouldnt get into a fite with her .. and you know what i cant help that i like her boyfriend a lil cause he is really really HOT .. help me please !!
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OK! uhm to me you really just sound jealous. no offence. but yeah and ive had partially the same thing tho, like when i was with my best friend and her boyfriend (total hottie) and they would invite me along places and i would end up feeling left out. But eventually i just started talking to her boyfriend ill call dan. Dan and i would talk/flirt and she would get pissed but in the end he cheated on her so i realized i dint want his sorry ass. lol. hope i helped in some way.
*Raushelle**
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Wow if your friend chooses her boyfriend over you that's not good friend..just explain to her and say listen we need to talk im not tryin to her your feelings but your boyfriend and if that don't work find another guy and then go on double dates..
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Well, if he's too good for her, Don't you think he's too good for you too? It's your friend and you have to respect her choices over men. Maybe it'd be better if you weren't there when they hung out. You wouldn't end up flirting with him and she won't get mad at you. But you have to be there for her and you have to respect her decisions over guys. You can tell her that he's too good for her, but if she doesn't wanna listen, then its her choice and you really can't do anything about it. I know this from experience. But you just have to be there for her .. and it's kind of disappointing to hear that you like her boyfriend. You shouldn't, so try to get over him because, it's not good. And if she found out, There'd prolly be a WWF smack down or something! lol ..
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Yes, you can help it that you like her boyfriend.
Your sopposed to be her friend. A real friend would never flirt with their best friend's boyfriend. Are you just trying to get her to break up with him because you think he's so hot and want him? Thats terrible. I don't blame her for siding with him, I don't blame her for getting mad at you. I wouldn't blame her at all if she wasn't even your friend anymore.
Here's your advice: Stop being a terrible friend and flirting with her boyfriend.
Stop trying to make her feel like he isn't good enough for her, when your the one that wants him.
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First off don't be a cock block. Sorry to use slang like that, but if he's about to do something with her then don't step in or interrupt, theres nothing more annoying. Flirting with him isn't a big deal. If it bothers her that much then she probably isn't very seccure with the relationship. I flirt with my friends girlfriend all the time. He knows that she really loves him and so it's ok for me to joke around and flirt. Maybe you should talk to your friend and explain that your not actually trying to pick up her boyfriend and that if it upsets her that much then you'll try and stop.
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You're contradicting yourself. From what I read,this is what I know. First your friend has a boyfriend that you "know" isn't good enough for her. Then she accuses you of supposedly flirting with the guy. Then you tell me that you like him too. Well wait a minute. If he's not good enough for her,then why do you say he's good enough for you? Maybe your friend's claim that you're flirting has some merit. She's taking his side because she's hurt that you'd think about trying to screw her over. She also knows it's only a matter of time before he dumps her for you. Not too cool babe.
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wow! same thing wit me chicka...tell ur friend that no matter hwt happens between yall and no matter wht guy always be friendz...tell her that u wouldnt lie to her about him if he is a bad guy..i mean u dont want ur friend to get hurt i noe....so yea..juss tell her that u would neva do anything to hurt her and juss lett her no that he is bad...chances r she will find out for herslef but wen she cums back dont yell at her fo it...be supportive
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You confuse me... hes too good for her... you want to tell her hes no good .. but you like him a little...????
Okay I will try though...
Well for one..you can tell your friend if shes going to cause a fight between you 2 everytime the 3 of you chill then she can hang out with both of you seperately..You can also apologize to her for her thinking that you flirt(even if you don't,apologize.. becuz its hurting your friends feelings and im sure you don't want that) then tell her the only reason it may seem like your flirting is because you try talking to him alot cuz you don't want to feel like a 3rd wheel. She should understand. About you liking him a little.. I suppose thats normal.. chances are you are flirting with him... its normal for girls to flirt self-consciously when they see a hott guy...And as far as telling her shes too good for him.. i would hold off on that... especially since she thinks your flirting..wait a while.. becuz she might take that offensively.. just let her learn from her own mistakes.. eventually she'll get hurt by him.. but at least your shoulder will be there to help her when she needs it ;)
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Good luck
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well....mayb they shuld spend sumtime alone...n u shuld find sumwun else cuz thts ur BESTFRIENDS
MANN!!not urs not tryin tto mean but mayb u shuld back off alil cuz i no i wuld b mad if wun of mi friends flirted wit carl n hes not even mmi b/f....but shuld never choose him over u NEVER EVER shuld she do tht! soo dunt let her b a bitch but just find another guy ighty
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