ok. ive liked this kid (he lives nxt door) for about 3 yrs now, and like,, he knows how i feel and stuff but- idk. i kno he dont like me and @ 1st i thot maybe it was my age (im 13 hes 14) but then he started to like my friend he he keeps asking me to invite her over or w/e. but the truth is, that even tho i tell everi 1 im over him, im rly not. idk wut it is, i just cant. but i rly don think he realizes y i cant/ wont invite her over 4 him even tho i kno nothing ken ever go on between us. idk how to make him get it. am i being a bad friend?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hot_tamalee_1218 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 10:58 pm: Ok, Looks like you've got a load on your hands here! do u know for sure that he doesnt like you? he's a guy...unfortunately there not going to die if they like another girl as well. what i think is that hes a jerk if he keeps on asking u to invite ur friend over. and i dont think u shoudl invite u over if you do. yeah that might be a little mean but still its roud what he did. and if that is the only way he will hang out with you then hes not worth it.
selectopaque answered Sunday July 18 2004, 8:03 pm: Just tell him straight up why you don't want to inviter her over. That you don't want to watch him hit on her and that you still care about him and have feelings for him.
I don't think your being a bad friend, he shouldn't expect you to do that for him if he knows that you like him. I think he's being a bit disrespectful to you. Or maybe he just doesn't realize that you still like him. I can't be sure, but I would say to just talk to him about it. [ selectopaque's advice column | Ask selectopaque A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 6:49 pm: OMG you sound like your my long lost twin the same thing happened to me...hehe
Well if she likes him then yes but if not then you just are protecting your heart from being broken even more than it already is...
Roxybabii922 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 6:20 pm: wow kinda confusing... just talk to him about it.. and let your friend know how you feel so she doesnt go out with him and make you all mad or sad with her or whatever [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
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