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heyy im sara and i have this friend that is like my all time best friend but idk if i can trust her cus i want he to met my boyfriend but she stole my bf once from me and idk if she will do it again but ik she didnt mean to steel him i think abd she told me she was so0o sorry (( but idk if i can trust her i cant take my heart gettin hurt again what shold i do:-/??
please help??
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tell her and him about what you think.. if he loves you he wouldnt have gotten stolen.. n if this guys is even worth it.. then ur friend cant even break u up!
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Well before they meet set down the rules to her. Say something like: Look, last time when you hooked up with my guy, my feelings were crushed. Please just respect me because I really like him. And another thing you shouldn't be afraid to let them meet b/c if he loves you enough he wont let any other girl get in the way of things. You know what I mean? If he did start to like your best friend he'd prove himself a complete jerk, and that would just be his problem. And if your best friend pulled the same trick on you she wouldnt be much of a best friend at all.
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You should let your best friend met him and try to tell her how you really feel about your boyfriend. So then she knows not to flirt with your boyfriend cause that probably happened last time. Make sure your man feels the same way about you before you have your friend meet him. Also ask him if he'll ever break-up with you for somebody else.
Love,
~~angel_advice~~
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Well,she doesn't sound like much of a friend if she's just snatching your boyfriends away. But blame falls on the guys who just went to her,so don't just blame your friend. There's no law that says these two people have to meet,but they should. If your guy is just gunna dump you for your friend,he's not that great in the first place.
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I don't see how she could be a good friend if she steals your boyfriend. Even if it was on accident, she shouldn't be going after your boyfriend, and if your boyfriend comes on to you, then your friend should NEVER go out with him, or do anything at all with him.
If she was a real friend then she wouldn't go after anyone that you were interested, and vice versa. Friends shouldn't do that because it seems like a scenario like this will happen each and every time.
Other than that, I would say that if you can't trust your boyfriend to not go for her if you introduce them then he isn't right for you. And if he just goes for your friend because she's pretty when he's already seeing you, then he's a pretty terrible person anyway.
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TO: sara
if she IS your bff and all then i think you should chance it..i mean why hide secrets...just make it clear to the two of them thah he is YOURS...and if he is worth it then he'll stay with you no matta how pretty your bff is...ya noe?
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well if yall are really BEST FREINDS then i dont think that she will steal ur bf if she knows hes ur bf and if she does then u need to lose her b/c real friends dont do that.. ya kno, so if u really really like the guy and ur best friend really meant she was sry then let her meet him but if she tries to make a move on him then lose her.. i guess look at it as an experiment (lol)! hope it all works out! XoXoXo
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if u dont wanna her to meet ur bf then just dont introduce them. if u absoulutely want them 2 meet then y dont u hook her up 1 of his friends so she wont steel ur man again. im sure if u tell ur friend how u feel she wont win him over.
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well its not just all her.. its your bf to.. if hes trusting then let them meet-trix
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