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i really like this guy but when ever i tell him how im feelin about something he gets really mad (like he friends were tellin me all i said to the guy i like is its getin to my head its like messin with me and he blow up in my face and said so u beleive them not me and got pissed i dont know what 2 do i try to tell him how i feel and he just gets mad what should i do???
female/13 almost 14
he is 15 almost 16 (( male lol))
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sounds like hes treating you like absolute crap. Tell him your sorry but between him and his friends, they all have your head spinning like crazy. Apologize to him but make sure he treats you right. If infact he keeps on doing mean things like that, you need to stay away from him sweetie. He wont be good for you or your life in any way. But i wouldnt abandon him just yet, just make sure you go ahead and dont let him treat you like trash. He sounds like he has some anger problems.
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Well if he can't take you seriously n listen to you then you gotta sit him down n talk to him. Tell him not to speak till your done. if he still gets mad at you then you really don't need him.
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If he blows up like that just because your told him how your feeling, then thats just not right. You need to be able to tell him how you feel, and if you can't do that then you will just be miserable. Try explaining to him that you need to be able to come to him when something is really bothering you, it's not that you believe them, but you need to know why they are saying those kind of things. Don't let him make you feel like your doing something wrong just because your feeling that way.
Tell him that you don't like his friends making you feel like that and wish they would stop. Of course if you hear something over and over again it's going to start to get to you and make you feel really bad, and I know from experience that it makes you feel ten times worse when the guy you like blows up at you for telling you that your feeling bad. From my experience those kind of guys, the ones that will blow up when you try to talk about your feelings, they aren't usually worth it.
I would suggest trying to talk to him more, and don't let him make you feel like your doing something wrong. If he still blows up and doesn't want to even talk about the subject then he probalby isn't worth any of the trouble.
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Keep telling but if i were you i would give up-trix
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risk it...if this is as worth the shot as you make it seem then risk him blowing fire and breathing smoke...i mean after he cools down hell prolly say how he feels about ya too and onie then can you noe...ya noe?
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