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My boyfriends friends don't approve of me.. and he has only been ahnging out with the 2 that do this summer so far.. but now hes hanging out with the other ones again.. and there the reason we broke up the other times... I mean.. i know i have no control over who he hangs with but would it be wrong of me to maybe ask him in the nicest way possible to not spend time with them so much?? I don't want him to dump me again because of them!!!:(
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no.. you shouldnt tell your boyfriend who and who not to hang out with or not to spend as much time as someone compared to someone else. The best thing to do is tell him how much you like him, express your deepest feelings. BUT tell him that a lot of times they say mean things about you and it hurts you. Tell him you want his trust and not listen to the mean things they say about you and ask him to just be him, and make sure somewhere in there you add in you love him or something to ease his temper if hes starting one, which he shouldnt lol. But anyways-- hes got to accept you for you or hes just not a very nice guy... and dont worry men are stubborn they mess around with their buddies and believe what they are sayin.
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GOOD LUCK HUN!.. i think he should listen to what u say no matter what u choose to do! :-D
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He should be able to hang out with them, but he shouldn't let them make you feel like you don't belong. His friends shouldn't be treating you like your not good enough for him. You need to talk to him about that. Just tell him how you feel and how they make you feel. He should respect your feelings, and do something about how his friends are acting.
If he really likes you then he will like you even when a couple of his friends don't.
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he wont dump you if he really likes you so go ahead and tell him that you think the reason you broke up the other times was them and you dont want them to effect what he thinks again
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Just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and that your afraid of you guys breaking up again because of them!!
X0X Jamielynn
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I would say just try not to hang around them when your with your bf.. and talk to your bf about it.. maybe he can talk to them about it..
hope i helped!
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maiibii u shud st0p beiin such a h0 n they wiill liike u dumbass trash bag h0
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okay hey hunnie well first of all you cannot force your b/f not to hang out with his friends that hes known longer than you if he did do thats called pussy whipped if you just expect him to drop his friends for you hunnie no don make him do that your jsut gonna have to deal with it okay and if you dont like it then dump him okay.
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Aww =(
Tell him what you just told us.
Explain to him that you feel like the friends he's been hanging out with lately don't approve of you, and you're afraid that they'll influence his opinion of you and all that. If you tell him what you just told us, except use "you" instead of "him," then it should work. Make sure you talk to him about it, though. Everyone should have an honest relationship. If not, nothing will ever get resolved!
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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okay girl... if this dude is breakin up wit u cuz of his frens u need 2 tell him that u dont like them cuz they r the reasons y'all broke up b4. then tell him i will not spend time wit u if u r hanging out wit them. and if he doesnt understand that then he aint rite for ya.
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I think what you should do is be like hey you wanna hang out this day.(the day) if he says no keep trying..and if you do get a yes then make it funniest night possible..a night that he will always remember so that he will want to hang out with you more!
Hope it helps,
-x0x becca
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I sort of have the same problem. Some of my b/fs friends don't like me...but now that its summer he doesn't hang around them too much. but even when he does.. we have grown so close that it doesn't bother him anymore what his friends say. So i say if you and your b/f have a close relationship...and you love him and he loves you then not to worry about it. If his friends start dissing you then he should either have enough courage to stand up to them or just forget what they say and forget them. Your his girlfriend.. and if you trust him and he loves you and your relationship is a good one.. then just let him hang out with them.. maybe you all could even hang out so you can all become friends. That way theres no more negativity...
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