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sometimes i get real frustrated with my b/f. and i start to hit and throw things i feel that if i dont get my anger under control that i will hurt him one day and it will jeopardize our relationship. how can i get my anger under control? (link)
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You need to walk away or seek anger management counselling. If you hurt him...and that's possible, it will be real embarrassing for him to explain what happened to family and friends. He won't put up with that for long. :)
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my g/f gets angry sometimes about little dumb things like what movie we go see and she gets real angry and abusive.she likes to throw things and hit me but i dont hit her back i just hold her until she cools off.but it gets tiring and sometimes it hurts.but i dont want to break up with her because i love her.what should i do? (link)
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You need to get her to stop it before it becomes a habit. Just tell he very firmly that you will not put up with being hit at and having things thrown at you. If she keeps it up then don't take her to the movies anymore or whatever it is that set her off. Explain you won't take her again until she can grow up and stop with the tantrums. Sounds harsh but hey...can't have you injured because of it. Tell her you are not going to be embarrassed by her behavior any longer. She should come around if she cares about being your girlfriend. :)
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ok i love this girl sooooo much i think im crazy. We are going to a movie 2 weeks from now with friends. I need someone OLDER LIKE 16 & UP to answer this- what should i do? should i put my arm around her and for how long-should i try to hold hands?? i am almost positive that she would do whatever back (holding hands, putting her arm around me etc.,)PLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
-wondering (link)
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I think you should start out holding hands. Maybe put your arm around her at the movie too. If all goes well and she seems to like you pretty good (if she don't she won't let you hold hands!) ask if you might give her a kiss at the end of your date. Don't be offended if she doesn't want to, but it will probably be OK. :)
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I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this? (link)
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Don't worry about it! If he cares enough about you to kiss you your braces aren't going to bother him a bit. :)
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Ok, I apoligize in advance if this is really long.
But, i have this friend. We've been really close since elementary school. I really enjoy spending time with her. But when the topic about money comes up, it just makes me ache inside. I don't show it. Okay, so my family doesn't have the kind of money like her family does. Most of the time she just shoves it in my face, i don't really know if she does it on purpose or it just comes naturally.. but it's really starting to make me extremley upset. For example, we're supposed to hang out, and then shes going shopping. I sort of had the option to go with her, but i don't have any money to buy anything. And truth be told, i don't want to watch her shop, that makes it worse. I just want her to realize that theres more things to do than shop & spend money. She has everything i've always wanted. I don't know how to explain this to her, nor i don't even know what to say to her. Any advice on what i should say? Or what i should do?
Thanks Much.
Sincerley, Unhappy. (link)
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Just tell her you would really like to have fun with her but that you cant afford to do some of the things she wants to do (like shopping). I'd say that she is probably not flaunting her money in your face to be mean. She has it so she just doesn't think about it like someone with no money has to. She most likely doesn't even realize what she is doing or how much it upsets you. If she is a good friend she will understand. So, simply tell her what your feeling. :)
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Ok so my parents left town for the weekend and im here with my college cousin. My mom told me not to go to this one guys house but hes having a huge party this weekend. I really want to go but ims cared to death that my mom will find out or something bad will happen and then im screwed for the rest of highschool. should i go or not go? (link)
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I think you should pass this one up. You need to show mom she can leave for the weekend and you can be trusted to do as you were asked. It is only one party in hundreds you will be invited to in your life. If you go and get found out though you will lose moms trust, and may get banned from any other fun stuff for quite awhile.
Not to mention you will feel bad for having disobeyed mom. Stay home. :)
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okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.
Please help me. :( (link)
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Stop listening to what everyone else says and talk to your boyfriend. Some people just enjoy stirring up trouble. Best way to put an end to it is to just talk to each other and keep even your friends from getting between you. :)
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There this guy that I like and he likes me too ( we might be going out soon.. he told me he wanted to ask me an important question after I came back from vacation ) and it's just kinda been bothering me in my mind like ( cause I'm kinda preppy/girly )," What are we gonna do whenever we hang out together out in like public like the mall? He'll want to go into Hot Topic and stuff and I'll want to go into Hollister and Abercrombie..." and I feel very outta place around his friends and stuff cause they're all in black and skater clothes and I'm sitting there all in like Hollister shirts and stuff. I really want to go out with him, that's just been nagging in the back of my head for awhile now. And it's just whenever I hang out with him I have SO much fun and if we do have some stuff in common like I do like alotta punk bands and stuff and etc., I just hate how everyone out there will freak out basically ( at least at my school ) if punks are dating punks/goths or preps aren't dating jocks and preps and stuff, I mean why can't people just let people date people? =/ Please help!!
Love,
Labeled Love =/ (link)
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I agree with you! So don't follow the trend. Date who you want and maybe some of the others will get brave enough to do the same thing. Don't give up on a relationship you enjoy just because someone else might not like it. Be a leader instead and do what YOU want to do. As for looking different from each other...not a big deal. If people judge you by what you have you didn't need them. When you go to the mall agree to go to his stores if he will go to yours. If that doesn't work, go to yours and meet up again after. You can work it out. :)
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i use to be a really fun exciting girl i was always talking or doing something stupid to entertain myself. but i noticed that i dont find many things funny anymore. i dont do anything stupid to entertain myself. I use to talk to everyone now i only talk to a few people. I dont get close to anyone anymore i dont share my feelings anymore. im sorta confused i dont know whats happened to me. (link)
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You could be having some depression. Make an appointment with your family doctor and he/she will be able to help you. :)
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I have an OBGYN appointment next Monday @ 3 o' clock and I was just wondering what all they do because my mom told me that at first they were just going to talk to me and I wouldn't have to have a pap smear but now that she knows about me losing my virginity to my boyfriend *that I am still with* she told me that now I would have to have a pap smear...is this true? Does it hurt? I just want to know everything about it before I go. I rate HIGH for good answers, please no foolish things like look it up unless you have a really good website. Thanks in advance! (link)
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She may be going to put you on birth control. You do have to have an internal exam before the doctor will prescribe them.
It is uncomfortable but doesn't really hurt. You will get a talk about sex, sexually transmitted diseases etc. Be sure you write down any questions you may have and take the list with you. Nows the time to ask if you have any. :)
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I am going to the gynecologist soon and I have a few questions:
1. I'm not sexually active, I'm just getting put on the pill for my period. But I'm almost positive I'll be sexually active 6 months to a year from now. I was wondering if I should mention that during my visit? Or just mention it during an appointment after I lose my virginity?
2. If you're not sexually active, do they prescribe to you birth control pills that arent as effective as ones given to those who ARE sexually active? Or all birth controls just as effective regardless if you're sexually active or not?
3. I am not comfortable showing my body to anyone, especially strangers (like doctors.) What is a good way to get over this feeling and feel more relaxed?
4. Is there anything I should do to prepare for my appointment? Any other tips?
Thank you for your time. (link)
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1) The doctor I worked for would have a talk with all teenage girls about sex, sexually transmitted diseases and birth control when they visited her. Usually when they came in for sports physicals or whatever. Since you will be getting a Gyno exam they will probably ask if you are sexually active but probably not if you plan to be. You will probably get the sex talk but don't be offended because it is routine.
2)All birth control pills are created equal. There are none that are less effective than others.There are different brands etc. but they all work the same.
3)To be honest I don't think there is a woman out there who isn't uncomfortable with the internal exam. Its just a necessary evil. They will know you are nervous and will talk to you as if nothing is going on. It helps a little. A nurse will be in the room the whole time.
4)If you have any questions about anything to do with sex, your pills, your period, STD's write them down. Take the list with you and don't be afraid to ask. If you write them down you won't forget to ask since you will be nervous. :)
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ok, well i am 13, 5'4" and i weigh 123lbs.Is that ok, cause my sister is 16, the same height, and 110 lbs. am i over weight??? (link)
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No you aren't. You are about right for your height. Sis may be a little under. Don't worry about it at all. :)
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ok whenever i go number 2 its been hurting and there is even blood when i wipe..and sometimes even in the toilet. trust me , this is not my period. this didnt just happen once or twice, its been happening for awhile.
whats hemroids? is that what i have because doesnt it have to do with something like this?
what are the dangers if i dont tell anyone (it would be mortifying if i had to go to a doctor and have him look at me because im not 10 anymore, im 17.
has anyone had this problem before or known someoen with this problem?
what should i do?
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It does sound like a hemorrhoid. You can try preparation H but I'd advise seeing a doctor. Especially if you have had it that long. Don't be embarrassed. You will be I know but it is nothing to a doctor who sees these things all the time. They can be very painful so please see your doctor. :)
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My friend has diabetes(sp?) and she eats like a pig! lol no offense but she never gains weight. she's like 5 foot 4 or so and eats all the time but weighs 995 pounds. is this normal? i don't think she's anorexic... but (link)
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I hoped 95 was what you meant! If she eats like a pig she is not anorexic. Diabetics do sometimes eat "all the time". They just don't eat a lot. They have to to help regulate their blood sugar. She is okay. Probably doing what her doctor advised her to. It is nice you are concerned for her though. :)
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I'm trying to lose some weight, and I haven't noticed any results. I havent been eating much and I've been exercising everyday for a while now. Is there any way to increase my metabolism? Good diets? Exercises? Anything helpful! Thanks~~~ :D (link)
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Yes there is actually. Eat 3 meals a day. Don't skip any. Don't eat like its your last meal but don't skip meals. Not eating will actually lower your metabolism. Your body thinks it is starving and will start storing the fat. :)
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Alot things have happened to me lately..my parents split..my dad moved out..and my friendships are coming and going. I'm depressed. How do i get over this? (link)
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Go to your family doctor. Tell him/her what is going on and they will be able to help you. :)
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14/f. I've read on the internet the signs of having depression. I fit many of them. Though I do not ALWAYS feel depressed and hopeless, it comes often. Certain things in my life have caused me pain, and then there's other times where I just feel horribly down, yet I can't point it to any certain cause at all. I don't feel close enough to either of my parents or anybody..come to think of it that I could tell about me having this problem. Yet, I do think that me getting help is a good idea, because I've become very close to doing something drastic more than once. Is there reason to suspect that I really do have a depression problem, or is it just teenage hormones? Is there a way for me to get help? (link)
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Your regular family doctor can help you with your depression. No need for specialist or anything. Go to doctor and tell them everything you've been going through. :)
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hey, umm, yeah...i haven't really been sleeping the past 2 weeks...and now, i'm starting to get headaches-like frequently...
this has never happened before, and like i just wanted to know if this is semi-normal or if something's wrong w/ me.
also, i'm postitive that its not like PMS or anything having to do with my period...it just started randomly happening...and plus, i've had it for like almost 4 years now...s0o0o, yeah...help?! (link)
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Not sleeping enough and sleeping to much will both cause a headache. Its always a good idea to check with your doctor...helps ease the mind as well as the headache. But most likely it is sleep related. :)
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my room has like a plum kinda rug and my bed comforter is like the same. i just got the rug so i cant get rid of it but i dont want purple walls anymore..i know this is hard for people to answer cuz you dont know the exact purple but what color could i paint my walls for it to go with the plummy kinda like purple rug and comforter i have? (link)
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a lighter shade of blue or pink would look good believe it or not. :)
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my friend she is in love with a guy that broke up with her and hes 18 and she just turned 15 she tells him she has feelings for her but he just has sex with other girls and she doesnt care she says she still loves him and always will what should i do
Signed ~Alejandro~
HIGH POINTS IF ANSWERED (link)
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If he is 18 it against the law for him to date a 15 year old. Tell her to stop bothering him because she could easily get him in trouble.
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