my friend she is in love with a guy that broke up with her and hes 18 and she just turned 15 she tells him she has feelings for her but he just has sex with other girls and she doesnt care she says she still loves him and always will what should i do
Signed ~Alejandro~
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By what I'm understanding, this guy is just a playa. Obviously he will do anything for sex and doesn't care about who truly loves him. You should tell your friend that it's not a good idea to fall in love with him. Tell her that if they happen to go out, she will probably only end up getting hurt.
karenR answered Friday July 22 2005, 7:50 am: If he is 18 it against the law for him to date a 15 year old. Tell her to stop bothering him because she could easily get him in trouble. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ncblondie answered Friday July 22 2005, 2:13 am: There's not much that you can do for your friend. Short of locking her up, there's no way you can prevent her from getting her heart broke. You're a good friend but sometimes we have to learn from our own mistakes, no matter how much someone tells us it's going to hurt. It may take time but she'll realize that being cheated on is not what love is about and she'll move on.
Until then, be supportive of your friend, even though you don't agree with her choice. Try not to push her since it will just get her angry since she'll think you're trying to split them up. Last, be there for her when it does all fall apart. She'll need your friendship and support to get her through it. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Friday July 22 2005, 1:45 am: i think she needs to find someone better to give her love to...someone like you that really cares about her and doesnt have sex with other girls...was he cheating? shell get over it eventually. for some "how tos" and stuff go to www.about.com and look under "teen advice" & "love and dating". <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
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