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Question Posted Friday July 22 2005, 2:11 pm

i use to be a really fun exciting girl i was always talking or doing something stupid to entertain myself. but i noticed that i dont find many things funny anymore. i dont do anything stupid to entertain myself. I use to talk to everyone now i only talk to a few people. I dont get close to anyone anymore i dont share my feelings anymore. im sorta confused i dont know whats happened to me.

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Additional info, added Friday July 22 2005, 2:14 pm:
my brother and i are really close but for the last 2years hes been away to bootcamp. not for two years straight but he went to bootcamp for 4months(which really hurt me. i was so sad i wouldnt do anything but sit around the house and just wait for him to come home) then when he got out he was only out for maybe 3months and he got locked back up for 9months and that really hurt me to because for 9months i wasnt allowed to see him or talk to him i was only allowed to write him. does that have something to do with why im not myself anymore?.

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broooke answered Saturday July 23 2005, 11:29 pm:
Hey, sounds like you're a little depressed to me. The reason for this, couldd be that change in your life with your brother. It's sucha difference not to see him as often as you'd like that it probably upsets you a lot. Once his time is done, just start hanging out with him like you used to..it should bring your spirits back up, and you'll start having fun again! Maybe try being more outgoing, try making bunches of friends like at random friends, I promise..it will make you feel good.

♥ BrOokE

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HERExiSZxADViC3x0O answered Saturday July 23 2005, 11:08 pm:
yes i would say with out your brother there you might of changed. i was the same way. about 3 months ago my BEST friend died and im still upset and i wont go out of the house. many things in life make us change. sometimes its a good change but sometimes its not. next time you see your brother, spend as much time with him as possible. maybe you`ll start acting like your old self again. Hope i helped <33

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Orlandoxluva answered Saturday July 23 2005, 9:43 am:
as your getting older things start to change you become more mature thats probably why

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Gorda1224 answered Friday July 22 2005, 11:58 pm:
hey,

The fact that you are close to your brother and you dont get to see him it does affect you. It might not be a drastic change but it changes the way you were. You are depressed. Its not that bad but you are sad and you miss your brother very much and not being able to see him for 9 months is hard. I hope i have helped. If you need anything else just ask me.

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DrJenny answered Friday July 22 2005, 2:58 pm:
Hi there,
It would help me to answer your question if I knew how old you are?

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askamyanything answered Friday July 22 2005, 2:48 pm:
you have been affected by your brothers absence. You need an outlet for the way it has made you feel. if you don't have a friend to talk to or know someone in a similar situation, then i suggest writing down everything you think about it. You could write it down in letter format, poem format like Hiku, tell your feelings like a story or draw pictures. it helps alot. and no one else ever has to see them unless you want to share.

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karenR answered Friday July 22 2005, 2:20 pm:
You could be having some depression. Make an appointment with your family doctor and he/she will be able to help you. :)

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