My boyfriend and I love eachother to death. We were best friends for four years before we decided to go out. We have been going out for five months. I feel like he doesn't find me attractive- desirable. I asked him, and he says he does. But he never calls me names like sweetheart anymore, and he lacks initiative. I don't know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? maroon answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 7:35 am: wow bestfriends for 4years and you guys datng each other now that is so cool,anyway i think the problem is you guys are to comfortable with each other.im sure both of you know each other so well and there is nothing to explore anymore it happens.remember you cant force things to happen.the best thing is tell him how you feel.if the whole new relationship is not working i think you should put an end to it hey at least you can save your friendship of 4 years.think about it....it makes sense.god bless you.i hope i helped. [ maroon's advice column | Ask maroon A Question ]
xxxxxx answered Friday July 22 2005, 4:08 pm: Well maybe it's just him. Relationships aren't about calling eachother names. Maybe he doesn't want to. Married people can go through their whole life without calling eachother cute names. However if you feel that theres a communication gap, the best thing to do is have a serious conversation with him. [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
askamyanything answered Friday July 22 2005, 2:55 pm: my brothers friend and i always had and attraction and we were all friends for years and years (2 yrs old to present 33 yrs old) we both felt an attraction in our mid 20's but we each were never between relationships, then one day we were. We confessed our feelings and had high hopes for a very close and lasting relationship, but after a few months I really got to know him and I thought I knew everything, not so. and slowly i was not attracted to him anymore. I think we both imagined that because we were friends first it would work out great. It was hard but I told him and we broke things off. We hardly speak anymore, but we both moved on and got married. [ askamyanything's advice column | Ask askamyanything A Question ]
louisianaisforlovers answered Friday July 22 2005, 2:49 pm: call him names and see if he catches the hit if he doesnt just ask him be like baby what ever happened to you calling me sweet names
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