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Does anybody no a good hair straghtner?? i rate thanks
hot tools... u can get this from Trade Secret, or Cosmetic Center... Chi is supposed to be really good... its not supposed to damage ur hair as much... cuz the plates are ceramic... my sister tried it & it didnt work as well as the hot tools one...
here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
You should paint ur tips black... & put a peach on ur base... or u could just use peach... or pink opal... ( thats like a pinkish white ), silver, u can make it look really nice with gemstones... or other nail art
Well me and this guy were "talking" or w/e. And we stopped i guess or i dunno. but the other day i told him i liked him and i asked him n what kinda way did he like me and he said "im not sure" and then i signed off. well what does this mean? and was it a mistake 2 tell him that i liked him?
It's never a mistake to let sum1 know how u feel... he probably didnt sign off on purpose... talk to him again... ask him how he feels about you... if he likes you you'll be glad u talked to him...
theres a party tom. night that my friends from my old school invited me too.... see i havent seen them since lik a year ago... do u think ill be left out? Should i go? or should i hang with my friends from my school
yeah u should go... you can catch up on all the things you've missed... all ur friends probably miss you... try to bring a friend from ur new school...
i have problems sleeping at night...i always imagine that somethings in my room or someones trying to break in and i feel really uncomfortable. also, when i blow dry my hair, sometimes i freak out because i think of someone on the news that went missing or was murdered and i feel like theyre standing right behind me haunting me..also at midnight, or late, when im walking down the hall, i always run just in case someone is follwing me...whats wrong with me and what should i do
you should see a therapist... they'll help you overcome ur fear... in the meantime take benedryl... doctors recommend takin benedryl if you have problems fallin asleep... try not to think about all that bad stuff... think of happy thoughts... or think about what u are going to wear... what you have to do throughout the day etc...
Alright, I highlighted my hair about August 17. Do you think it would be a good or bad for me to highlight it again? It's growing out so I think I should. Altho, I don't want to burn up my hair.
It wouldnt be that much of a bad idea... i dyed my hair & didnt like the way it turned out... so i dyed it again 2 days later... just dont make a habit of re-cloring it so soon... ur supposed to wait a month before u color ur hair again... so i think u should be ok...
I was dating this guy, and I was really starting to like him. We had "relations" and it became intense for a minute. But my best freind saw him in the mall, and every since then some how he got he number and they have been talking on the phone since. I stopped liking this guy because I felt he didn't respect me or my best friends friendship. Come to find out my best friend want to have "relations" with him and is talking to him on the phone. She really isn't telling me everything. We told each other that a man could not come in betwwen us, but I think in this situation it is diffrent. I mean I stop liking this guy because of her, and now she wants him. Is she being a friend or a freak?
shes being really selfish... if she knew that u were talkin to him... why would she give him her number or take his... you dont do that to ur friends... you should talk to her & let her know shes not being much of a friend... if i were you i would tell her off... tell her i dont trust her... & never talk to her again...
My mother-in-law is always accusing me of over-reacting to things, when I think my reactions are quite normal. She tells me to calm down when I'm only slightly frustrated about something, and her saying this to me repeatedly causes me to get more frustrated, then she's like "I told you so." For example, today she was giving my daughter a ride to school, and I went along because she was in her p.j's and it was a cold day and she was doing us a favor so I didn't have to walk her to school. Anyways, to get to the point, my daughter had made a suncatcher keyring for her teacher and I knew that I had put it in her backpack. My daughter wanted to show it to her grandmother, so she opened her backpack, and I reached back and got it. I looked in her backpack where I had put it and it wasn't there. So I simply stated "It's not here. I know I put it in here." I wasn't hysterical, just slightly puzzled. My mother-in-law immediately starts saying "Calm down, calm down. It's no big deal," as if I was totally freaking out, which I wasn't, and I kept repeating "It's not here," as I looked because she kept saying "Calm down." She was irritating me, and I told her so, and that I thought she was being rude. She just told me to "Drop it." She acts so smug and superior. My daughter found it in the back of the car, and handed it to me, which my mother-in-law didn't even notice because she was so busy telling me to stop going on about it. I told her she was rude and didn't repect my feelings and that anyone would say the same thing when they were looking for something and it wasn't where they put it. She probably didn't hear half of what I said because she was too busy telling me to shut up. I finally gave up, but I have a hard time dropping a subject when I think someone is unfairly judging me. I was trying to get her to understand my point of view. She is always treating me like this. I'm so sick of it. Does anyone have experience with a person like this? How do you handle it without making it look like the person is right about you? I know this is what I'm doing when I respond to her rudeness. But I don't know how else to handle it. She is hard to ignore. Any advice?
It soundz like shes just pickin on u to try to make u look bad... adults try to do that to me too... the best thing to do is ignore her... & when she gets slightly frustrated... tell her to calm down... & when u do this u are not sinkin down to her level... what goes around comes around... just ignore her... act like u didnt hear her... she should give up after a while when she sees shes not gettin to u
I am 33 years old indian citizen now working in kuwait.I had a problem with the right leg and occationally with the left leg also.After resting/Sleeping I can not able to tough my right leg on the floor because too much paining on the heel. After some times walk the pain will be reduced/dissapperd.Please advice what will be the problem.What kind of medicine is needed for this.Pleaseeeee
You need to go to the doctor... no one hear can tell you whats wrong with you... in the meantime u should try pain-killerz... go to the doctor ASAP
im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out?
Trust is the key to a healthy relationship... the best thing to do is tell her... cuz one way or another she will find out... & its best if she hears it from you... & i also think its best if u tell her who u were with... if she truly loves you... she wont break up wit u over that... & if she does break up wit u... than dont worry... you'll find sum1 who truly cares about u...:)
Ok well I'm having a little trouble deciding if I should go back out with my ex again or not..we went out for 1 month and then it changed I didn't feel the same way about him..but we hang out sometimes and he flirts..he tells me he still likes me and wants to go out again..its been going on since may when we broke up? any suggestions?
that all depends on how you feel about it... do u miss him... do u feel like he misses you... are u willin to be in a relationship wit him... is he willin to be in a relationship with u... & if yall broke up cuz he cheated on u or did sumthing else thats really stupid... than i suggest u dont go out wit him...
i just dumped my boyfriend about 3 days ago .. we have been together for a long long time and when we werent we were always good friends .. so when i dumped him i said cant we just be good friends because i dont want this to ruin our friendship and he told me we were never friends and never have been or had a friendship and we were always jsut bf and gf .. and that really hurt me .. now im not even sure if i wanna be his friend .. today i just found out hes trying to get me jealous with 7th graders! and we are both freshman .. how does he think that works .. i think hes a pathetic asshole right now .. i need some opinions ... thanks love
I think hes sayin that yall were never friends cuz he wants to hurt you... you hurt him by breakin him with him & he wants to do the same to you... you should talk to him & tell him to grow up... you should stop being friends wit him if he continues to do this
ok.. my parents are getting divorced and i'm moving into a house in town. i've lived in the house i'm in for 10 years... is it normal for me to be feeling like this isn't real?? i feel like it's just a bad dream.. even though i know it's gonna happen
how can i tell my friends what's happening??
yeah thats normal... when it comes to badd situations people always think it could never happen to them... so if it does... its really hard for them to accept that its real... talk to ur parents about it & let them know how its effectin u... tell ur friends about it when u are ready to tell them
well i like this guy (lets say hes name is steven) well steven is in one of my classes. and we sit across the room from each other, like everyh time he looks over at me i look back and stevens friend told me that i need to go ask him out. but at my school all the guys are like lying all the time even to thier gf's but steven is really sweet.also my friend told me that she ask steven and he said that he likes me.and i was really glad.so my ? in what should i do should i go up to him and say like hi and get into a conversatrion with him or should i leave him alone and wiat till he asks me out.
You should go talk to him... if you dont hes going to think that u are not aware of his exsistence... & thats going to be badd... talk to him & flirt with him... he'll get the hint & ask you out
I've been suffering from clinical depression for a few years, and recently started having panic attacks and mild hallucinations. The hallucinations are morbid (pools of blood, reaching hands, ect.) but clearly recognizable as they're so out of place. I don't want to see a psychologist or take medication. Is there a way to make your mind stay away from depressing thoughts or just clear it if things start getting hazy/weird?
the best thing for you to do is see a doctor... if you really dont wanna see one... just remember... if you really believe your gonnna see sumthing... you will see it... it's all in ur head... dont be scared... tell urself that stuff isnt real...
My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that.
A lot of people like to brag & say they've done things... especially boiz when they really havent... you need to do whats rite for you and what ur comfortable with... if your not comfortable with doing stuff... than dont... that doesnt mean ur a little girl... plenty of girls save themselves... if he really loves you he'll respect that your not ready...
Ok my situation might be retarded but see me and my bf have been going out for 11 months and he wants to "do the dirty" but he doesnt want to use a condom he says it takes the fun out of it for him but i dont want to get pregnet would birth control pills be just as good protection as a condom?
DONT have sex wit him without a condom... i dont think u should have sex with him period... you BOTH are takin a big risk by not using a condom... condoms prevent STD'z as well as gettin pregnant... so tell him that if he loves you enough to have sex with you... he needs to respect the fact that you want to use a condom which is best for both of you...
ok well I just found out that I was pregnant yesterday. I told my bf and all and he was really really really upset and he kept telling me that he wasnt ready for a baby right now. I am 15 and he is 16 and neither one of us are ready. He told me that his dad would make him drop out of school and get a full time job and all and i dont want that to happen. He was already in trouble with his parents because of his grades and all and went to see him yesterday but we just met in town when he got off of work and he wasnt suppose to. I wouldnt let him leave and when i finally did he was in a hurry and he it his cousins car cause she parked right behind him and didnt know she was there. now his dad took his truck from him and he is in trouble and he has to pay for her car by himself. I dont know what is goin to happen. I dont know what i should do. Should I break up with him so he wont have so much to worry about or what???? Someone plz help
What about you & ur baby... i dont think u should break up with him cuz u dont want him to worry... if things dont work out between u and him... thats another story... you guys should try to work things out... it is going to be really hard but its NOT impossible... a baby should never be badd news... you both are responsible for this baby... so dont think u should just break up wit him so he doesnt have to worry about it... i hope things work out for you...
i am an engineering student in kerala(india).i am a 19 years old male.how can i attract my classmate.please give advice
talk to her... ask her what she likes, what makes her happy, ask her out to dinner... or a movie... start off by being her friend... & than take things from there...
what do u look for in a girl like, what type of girl do guys think of as girl friend material?
Nice girls... girls that have respect for themselves & others... guys really hate girls that complain... whether they are complaining about their looks... the weather... or being hungry... guys hate that... guys dont want to be with a girl who messes around either... or one that has messed around a LOT before...