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moving
ok.. my parents are getting divorced and i'm moving into a house in town. i've lived in the house i'm in for 10 years... is it normal for me to be feeling like this isn't real?? i feel like it's just a bad dream.. even though i know it's gonna happen
how can i tell my friends what's happening??
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Omi god!! ive been through the same thing b4, adn i was ten to, it didnt sink in until a week after i was actually in my new housem adn for a loooong time i never called it MY HOUSE, i refereed to it as the place i live in. weird but true, and i always said i woudl move back inot my my old house as soon as i can, but ive grown to love this house, but still it feels werid sometimes thinking about it, and it is normal when you have such a drastic change, just lookm at it as a positive thing, and a chance to learn and grow from, you never know there could be a cute boy next door! Lol! Hope I helped!
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Just have a good talk with them. If you are changing schools stay in touch. And maybe they can help you with your parents divorce situation. Is any of your friends parents divorced? Or do you know any one who parents are? Try talking to them about it. I hope i helped <3
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thats normal and tell ur friends to keep in touch and that its ur parents doing
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yeah thats normal... when it comes to badd situations people always think it could never happen to them... so if it does... its really hard for them to accept that its real... talk to ur parents about it & let them know how its effectin u... tell ur friends about it when u are ready to tell them
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Yeah, I remember moving from NY, here to NC. It felt unbelievable. It was so odd to realize that you're going to be in a new house, that you will live near different people, and that you will have different friends.
Well, since you are sad, one day at school, or for a week at school or so, act like you feel, act sad, then they'll ask whats up, and tell them that you have to move.
It's going to be hard on you and them, and though you will want to keep in touch (depending on how far away you move) it's going to be hard. I'm still in touch with a few friends, but not many.
It's normal to feel that way, for the first month or so, I wanted to move back so badly, I behaved so weird.
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yeah it is normal bc what happening is reality and you dont want it to be ... you want everything to be the way it was before but it wont ever be like that again. divorce sucks adn it sucks that they are doing that to you but youll just have to deal ... my parents are divorced .. theyve been divorced since i was 3 so i really dont know anything else and im sure its really hard on you and it will suck but it will be ok in the end. i hope i helped! -kayla
ps. just ask your friends for support while this is going on and tell them how you feel about it .. i promise they will be there for you all the way and whenever you need it ... after all thats what friends are for right?
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Yes it is completely normal to feel like it isn't happening. It is a lot to take in. Tell your friends who you really trust first. Then when it comes closer to the time you can tell more people. But talk to your really good friends, they'll help you.
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