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im 13/f about 5'2, 5'3 ish i think ?
anyways i weigh almost 100 lbs and i think thats too much. im not even big, so idk
is that normal for my height/age?
thanks
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120 is the normal weight for your height. So actually you are a bit under. :)
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I've liked this guy in my government class for about a month now and we never talked, sometimes we'd say hi or smile at eachother but that was about it! Then this past thursday i was walking out of the office in our school and i saw him there, he looked like he was going to say hi so i said hey and smiled and he did the same then i continued walking. So later that night i got home and i checked my myspace and he had sent me a comment, saying, "Hey! How are you? Did you like the movie today?" (we had gone on a movie field trip that day). So i then i wrote back, and we ended up talking for like 2 hours online. Then friday when i saw him in class we said hi but it was kinda like before we started talking. Then after school, i went on a walk with my friend and saw him there playing soccer and he was like flirting a little and smiled at me alot. Then when i got home we talked again for like an hour. so what im asking is does he like me, is he interested, was he just shy in school, because im really shy and wasnt about to go up to him like we were really good friends, so maybe hes the same? Well srry its so long please help! (link)
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Its obvious he likes you. You don't just talk for hours to people you don't like.
It could be he is shy too. Maybe he is waiting for you to say something at school.
Why not bring the subject up next time you talk online? Ask why you guys don't talk at school too! :)
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i have been bestfriends with this girl since the 8th grade, i am now in 11th, and when she was in 9th grade she went out with this guy.
when they broke up me and the guy started to become better friends. This year i would say we have become way better friends and of course i form a huge crush on him. i would say that it is safe that if i asked him to prom he would say yes. the only problem is the relationship between my bf and her ex. she wants them to be friends but he doesn't. She is one of my closest friends but i don't really wanna pass up this possible great relationship with this guy and if i asked him i rish officially ruining my relationship with my friend. what should i do before it is too late? (link)
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Ask him to prom.
Have you told your friend that you like her ex? If not let her know. If he doesn't want to be friends with her, hopefully he will at least be polite for your sake.
Your friend may still have some feelings for him or she may not. It could be weird for her at first. I think she will probably get over it. :)
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i started culring my hair with a culring iron, and it looks really good. however, there is a problem:
it takes about an hour to curl my entire head (i have htick hair, and it just takes a while)but i want to be able to do it in the morning, because if i sleep on it it gets messed up. how can i either shorten the time it takes or prevent it from getting messed up by sleeping on it? an idea for a solution to either one would be great thanks. (and i want to coninue to use a curling iron, not curlers or anything). thanks! (link)
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Have you considered a perm? If you really like the look that's what I would suggest.
Go to a salon, the do it yourself types do not look as good. :)
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i met this girl on a school trip to another city. well we hung out a bit n danced a little n i think shes cute. well when i got back to my city all i knew about her was her name and that she went to a school near where i went to, cuz i forgot to ask for a number. well i asked a friend that goes to that school about her and turns out she lives down the street from him, so iono should i go visit? would that be stalkin? cuz i didnt mean to find out where she lived, i juss asked about her. would it be weird?
if it is weird wat else could i try, she dont have mysapce n other stuff (link)
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It would be fine for you to visit. I'd have the friend get her number for you and give her a call.
Stalking is when someone wants you to leave them alone and you continue to follow them everywhere they go anyway. So it wouldn't be stalking.
She may be home wishing she had gotten your number as well. Get the number and call her!
Good luck. :)
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I have this male colleague that I consider as one of my closest friend in the office. Everything changed when our officemates started making some jokes that he was gay. I asked him straight out if he is and he swears to me he's not. Carrying on with our friendship, we went on a drinking spree with some friends. Tipsy, he started to get touchy-feely all over me and in a joking manner he was suggesting that we go home together in his house. Eversince then, he would praise my looks and point blank flirt with me in a casual manner? I wonder now if he's doin this to erase the rumor that he is gay or he's seriously flirting with me? Either way shall I continue to befriend him?
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I think it may be a bit of both.
It may be more because you asked him about it than anything. Wants you to realize you were wrong.
I don't see any reason why you can't still be friends. If it is bothering you just tell him that you like him just fine the way he was and that the extra touchy-feely stuff isn't necessary.
But if you like it, let him know that too. Just ask if he wants to go to dinner or something and see where it goes from there.
Good luck. :)
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I am female, 15 years old, 5'2 ish and 136 pounds. How much weight would it be necessary to loose to be average? Don't tell me to get a doctor's opinion, I already have, but I want to know what you guys think. I'll rate; Thanks in advance! (link)
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You really aren't that much overweight. I wouldn't lose more than 10-15 pounds tops. :)
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K, i broke up with my girlfriend because i was confused, i had a lot going on at home (parents getting divorced, brother and sister fighting constantly) and im the oldest... so all the pressure falls on me... and so i couldnt handle it, i was confused, and for some reason my confusion went to my feelings for her.. and now (2 weeks later) i miss her tremendously.. one of my football coaches asked me if someone in my family has died because of how i have been acting... The truth is, ive been down cause of her, and i called her the other day to try to get her back, but she said she doesnt trust me, and i made a stupid promise to her that said "i will never hurt you" when in fact i did.. and right now it is killing me, when i talked to her she siad no... what can i do to get her back??
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Write her a long letter. Explain to her some of the things you were going through that caused you to break up as you did. Let her know what yuo are feeling now.
It will be much easier than talking to her. She won't be able to distract you with comments.
Once you have it written...it may get long and that's okay, give it to her to read. After she has read it call her or talk to her in person.
She will know what went on and maybe she will listen to you with a more open mind.
Hope it helps. Best of luck. :)
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i gave a guy my number a couple days ago, and he called that night, and the next two days. we have had a really good time talking. he said we should hang out today, and said he'd call around noon. he didnt call until 5'o clock and i didnt pick it up because i was kinda mad that he didnt call when he said he would. but really, i do want to talk to him. should i call him back or wait for him to call again? (link)
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Call him back. Something probably came up that he couldn't call at noon. Don't be mad at him.
At least he did call! :)
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I'm not having sex, but the month is almost over and I haven't had my period yet. I run track and that's about it. Is there any reason why it hasn't come on? Please help me asap. thank u (link)
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I had a friend who was a runner. She had to stop running so she could get her period back in order to get pregnant.
So, running definitely could be the cause. Enjoy the time its away and don't worry about it! :)
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i was recently raped and im scared. the guy who raped me..was my bedt friends boyfriend (shes 14 hes 15 turning 16) and im scared. i have nightmares about it and im afraid to go to sleep..i keep getting calls that have perverted breathing for like 15 seconds then he hangs up i havent told anyone..and im SCARED!! he threatend to kill me and my family..what should i do?? (link)
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No matter what he says tell your parents.
They should call the police. He will be taken care of. He won't be bothering you or any other girls for a while.
Don't let someone harass you and make your life miserable. This is not your fault at all so go and tell your mom right now. You will feel so much better after you do.
Go tell. Its the only way to get over being frightened. :)
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okay stright to the point! im 14/f
my brother has done some pretty bad things to me! he hasnt all the way raped me! but done enough to bother me and it depress me! i also have a bad home life with like my dad.. i've talk to a close teacher about it. he got me to talk to the conslor..which made me talk to the school social worker! i hated tlaking to her! i told my teacher who i was close with that i didnt want to ever talk to her again! he promised me he wouldnt make me do anything i didnt want to! well the other day i was updating him because he told me to when ever i needed to! i told him i rather not have him tell the conslor so i wouldnt have to talk to the socail woker! he sad he wouldnt! but he ended up tellin anyways!.. so then i had to sit in a room with the social worker again!! after he told i made me feel so bad.. ike i dont want to hate him! he was the only one i could trust! so after school i went up to him and said why did you tell! he said he had to! so i looked at him and walked away1 he didnt bother to say anything else!
and now im confused. now i dont know if i can trust him or if he even cares about this! please someone what do i do now??? (link)
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It is a law that teachers and health care workers have to report any possible sexual abuse. He would get into trouble had he not said anything. So please don't blame him for looking out for your best interests.
You really shouldn't stay in the situation you are in at home. Talk to whoever offers to help you. :)
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male/17. i feel that lately whenever i talk to my girlfriend i get hard. or even when i think about her. i don't think about her in a sexual/lustful way, and havn't been. we don't talk about things on that topic anyway, but why is this happening? is it normal? i'm not sexually active or have had sex or anything. i almost never have thoughts that would cause it or anything, so when it does happen i feel like theres something wrong with me, since its almost involuntary. i havn't told her yet, but i think she might have noticed but i'm not sure, its really embarrasing. what should i do, because i'm not thinking about those kind of things and happens even when i just think about her or talk about her. please help (link)
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At your age it is almost involuntary and it is also perfectly normal.
Unless you usually talk to her about those kinds of things its probably not necessary for you to. If she has noticed she is nice enough not to have embarrassed you by making a big deal of it.
I don't know how you should deal with it exactly.
Maybe some of the male advisers will chime in with something that works.
Just know you are normal. :)
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ok so last year (i was dumb and i regret it) this guy was EXTREMELY persuasive and i would never do anything like it, but this guy totally made me want to take pictures of myself. not nude but not much on. this year we dont at all talk-i mean at all and he goes to a different school. and i dont want to talk to him. but i always worry hes going to post the pictures of me on teh internet or send them to someone. it really bothers me and no one really knows of my friends/family. it scares me of the possibility of posting the pictures. i know its my fault, but sometimes persuasion works. i want help, but to anyone who reads this-just a reminder from someone, whatever you send to someone or put something somewhere-anyone has access to it. sorry its long.
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You are so right. There are a lot of impressionable girls out there too. Especially if the boy is a little older. I hope your message reaches some of them. They need to be aware of the picture phones in locker rooms too while on the subject.
I don't know how you might get your pictures back other than just asking him for them. Hopefully he isn't cruel enough to put them on the web. If you are under 18 it would probably be against the law for him to do so. If he has scruples of any kind he probably won't do it.
Don't let it worry you to much. There is nothing you can do about it now. You have learned a valuable lesson, you have also now warned others about it. That's a good thing. I am proud of you for trying to keep others from making the same mistake. Thanks for that. :)
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ok so my friend's parents both have cancer.. well actually the mom just got over it and is still feeling pretty bad and her dad just found of he has a tumer. they have to do surgery, radiation, AND chemo. its really hard for her because a while back i found her outside (at my party) crying and she told me what happened. i dont no what to tell her because its so hard for her. what do i do to comfort her through all of this? (link)
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Listen.
The best thing you can do is let her talk it out with you. It isn't necessary for you to say a lot. Just be there for her and let her cry on your shoulder.
Hope all goes well for her.
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I need your help. I have been going out with this guy for five months now. He is a very nice person, he treats me well, and we have fun together.
The main problem is recently he lied to me. We were supposed to meet, but he did not appear. He claimed he was carjacked. He has keys to my house, so he went and took money and pretended the carjackers did it.
I want to forgive him but I'm not sure what to do. He asked for forgiveness and promised that this incident will never be repeated. Can I trust him again?
but i raelly luv him and i dont know what to do :(:( (link)
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OK You won't like my answer but I will give it to you anyway.
He is not a nice person. A nice person would have been truthful with you. Where was he when you were supposed to meet? Why did it require a lie?
Lying to you and robbing your house was not treating you well either.
We aren't talking about a small lie here. This is a very big lie. I'll bet he didn't tell you about it until you went to call the police. Which you should do.
I think you are going to have a problem trusting him again. You may still have feelings for him for now but my guess is if he can lie about something like that...who knows what he has lied about before.
You can do what you want as far as continuing the relationship. I certainly can't recommend it.
If you choose to continue I would take the house key back. Better yet, take it back and change the locks. He probably already has a duplicate.
Someone who goes to that much trouble to make up such an outrageous story and then rob you! Girl, you can do much better than him!
Someone who loved you would not treat you that way.
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OK, so here's the deal....
Well, I've been trying to break-up with my boyfriend for a little while but I don't want to hurt him. He REALLY likes me.I mean REALLY LIKES ME!! as in: gives me a kiss every chance he gets, he's given me one of his favorite necklaces, He's even talking about how he plans our future 2-gether! Another problem is, his mom and my mom are BFFs since his mom works at my mom's restaurant. I'm scared that his mom & dad are going to get mad at me because they know how much he likes me. I mean, he's a great guy and all, but I just don't feel it anymore. All the spark just went away. Please help.
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Here are some web sites that may help you out. :)
Break ups 10 things about
http://teenadvice.about.com/library/bl10thingsbreakingup.htm
Break up..
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/breakup/content.shtml?ART=whenitsover
Breakup how to
..http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/breakup/content.shtml?ART=howtobreakup
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im freaking out here! Prom's only a few months away and i still don't have a date:( I really want one because its prom you know, and i really want to take a date with me, but the thing is i don't know anybody to take. My social life has been put on hold because of school anf homework so basically the only place i see anyone is at work. I know a guy but we talk a bit here and there (i really like him to, but hes 2 years younger) should i ask him, or if not what should i do for a date?Thanx (link)
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I think it is a little early to be stressing to much. Guys are notorious for waiting until they absolutely have to ask. Some girls are too.
So plan on going. If it gets to close, or, if you just really want to, go ahead and ask the younger guy. I got me one of those..they're great! :)
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Im trying to make a slideshow for my best friend but I need a song to add... do you know any songs that are related to best friends that I can use? (link)
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Best friend by Queen. :)
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About 2 years ago I met a man..We started out as friends, very close friends..After awhile feelings started developing on both sides. He told me from the beginning he wanted to enlist in the Army. I tried to talk him out of it..But you really can't mess with someone's dream. Things didn't work out between us for various reasons, one being that I didnt want to move with him when he moved to TX later this year. I spoke to him tonight for the first time in quite awhile. He is off for training tomorrow all the way on the other side of the nation. He'll be back in 2 months..I feel like crap. He's so happy..Almost a different person. That's not why I feel so bad, I'm happy for him. But I really miss him. He was in basic for the last 2 months and we didn't speak at all. I always thought of him but was too scared to contact him. I just worked up the guts tonight and tried it, just for the hell of it. So it was a shocker when he told me he was leaving tomorrow. We discussed what happened with us a little bit..Then he said he had to get up early and said he hoped to talk to me again soon. If I didn't contact him I would have never known. I probably wouldn't have talked to him again, since hes moving to TX after he gets back..I feel like its too late. Like theres nothing I can do now but part of me would just leave everything behind here and follow him. Is that crazy? Would I be crazy to do that? For all I know we might still have the same problems. I miss him like hell...and deep down I feel like i'd be making a HUGE mistake if didn't just..Up and leave here. And go with him when he returns. But at the same time I think of my education, my career, my family...I don't know what kind of advice I want. I don't know..opinions, thoughts, input, anything you've got..23/female. Thanks. (link)
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Take the time he is in basic to write him. Let him know what your feeling. See what happens when he returns.
If you really love him, follow him anywhere.
They have schools in Texas I've heard!
The biggest obstacle would be leaving family. I think they would understand. You can visit. With the net they are never far away. They will have someplace to go too. To visit you!
Talk to the guy. If the feelings are still there and you want to commit to each other then I say you have to do it.
Hope it works out the way you'd like it to. :)
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