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Miss Her...
K, i broke up with my girlfriend because i was confused, i had a lot going on at home (parents getting divorced, brother and sister fighting constantly) and im the oldest... so all the pressure falls on me... and so i couldnt handle it, i was confused, and for some reason my confusion went to my feelings for her.. and now (2 weeks later) i miss her tremendously.. one of my football coaches asked me if someone in my family has died because of how i have been acting... The truth is, ive been down cause of her, and i called her the other day to try to get her back, but she said she doesnt trust me, and i made a stupid promise to her that said "i will never hurt you" when in fact i did.. and right now it is killing me, when i talked to her she siad no... what can i do to get her back??
Sorry for the long question...thanks!
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you poor thing! :(
i think you two should go out to dinner or just somewhere you can talk things over. a movie would be easier to get her to but won't really give you a chance to talk things over. i like the one idea about writting her a letter. It's more personal than email or IM.
butttt.. if she simply doesn't want you in her life anymore, know when to give up. there are other people out there that will mean a lot to you. don't kill yourself over this, i'm sure you are better than that! <3
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Awwww hunn, that must be really rough for you...I am sorry that is going on...
It sounds like what you need to do is maybe inviter her over and like go for a walk or go out and get some coffee, or just go someplace where you two can be alone and talk.
Just call her and tell her that there are a lot of things that you need to talk to her about, and that you are sincere.
When you two are together explain everything to her, don't leave anything out...girls like it when you tell them everything.
Tell her the only reason you hurt her was because you did not know how to handle your emotions with everything going on...and that you miss her a lot, and you care about her, and you are sorry you hurt her..
I realy hope she will agree to meet up with you and that she goes back with you....so good luck with everything..if you need anything drop it in my inbox.
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Write her a long letter. Explain to her some of the things you were going through that caused you to break up as you did. Let her know what yuo are feeling now.
It will be much easier than talking to her. She won't be able to distract you with comments.
Once you have it written...it may get long and that's okay, give it to her to read. After she has read it call her or talk to her in person.
She will know what went on and maybe she will listen to you with a more open mind.
Hope it helps. Best of luck. :)
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