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ok so last year (i was dumb and i regret it) this guy was EXTREMELY persuasive and i would never do anything like it, but this guy totally made me want to take pictures of myself. not nude but not much on. this year we dont at all talk-i mean at all and he goes to a different school. and i dont want to talk to him. but i always worry hes going to post the pictures of me on teh internet or send them to someone. it really bothers me and no one really knows of my friends/family. it scares me of the possibility of posting the pictures. i know its my fault, but sometimes persuasion works. i want help, but to anyone who reads this-just a reminder from someone, whatever you send to someone or put something somewhere-anyone has access to it. sorry its long.
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You're a little bit stuck here and there's not a lot you can do, I'm sorry to say.
No, it wasn't the smartest idea but yes, people can be extremely persurasive. The only thing you can do now is to hope that it doesn't happen and learn from your mistake. Never ever give anyone pictures of yourself, particularly only half dressed or naked ones because it will almost always come back to bite you in the butt!
Whatever you do, don't try to track him down and talk to him about it. For all you know, he might just have forgotten about the whole thing and bringing it back to his mind might just give him reason to do something about it.
You will have to try to forget about it for now and live with the consequences of your actions, I'm afraid. Please please don't do it again though. It's easy to get swept off your feet by a smooth talker who appreciates you and the way you look but that's how a lot of bad things happen to nice girls.
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if you used to talk to him and you guys were friends i dont think he would do something like that no matter what. i mean you trusted him with your pictures he should at least respect that and not only respectyou but himself. and you are right about pictures online. everyone should read that and understand it and be aware and warned. i dont think you should worry about it to much he might have just lost them or throw them away.
*~Stephanie~*
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You are so right. There are a lot of impressionable girls out there too. Especially if the boy is a little older. I hope your message reaches some of them. They need to be aware of the picture phones in locker rooms too while on the subject.
I don't know how you might get your pictures back other than just asking him for them. Hopefully he isn't cruel enough to put them on the web. If you are under 18 it would probably be against the law for him to do so. If he has scruples of any kind he probably won't do it.
Don't let it worry you to much. There is nothing you can do about it now. You have learned a valuable lesson, you have also now warned others about it. That's a good thing. I am proud of you for trying to keep others from making the same mistake. Thanks for that. :)
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