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male/17. i feel that lately whenever i talk to my girlfriend i get hard. or even when i think about her. i don't think about her in a sexual/lustful way, and havn't been. we don't talk about things on that topic anyway, but why is this happening? is it normal? i'm not sexually active or have had sex or anything. i almost never have thoughts that would cause it or anything, so when it does happen i feel like theres something wrong with me, since its almost involuntary. i havn't told her yet, but i think she might have noticed but i'm not sure, its really embarrasing. what should i do, because i'm not thinking about those kind of things and happens even when i just think about her or talk about her. please help
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Awwww, don't be embarassed!
My BF does the same thing (much as I'm sure he'd hate me advertising the fact on here :P). It's not your "fault", and it's not necessarily a bad thing! I had an ex who had trouble having an erection every time we wanted to be active... having someone who's ready to go all the time is great :D
Be proud! Don't worry about telling her, it's not something that she really needs to know if you're not sexually active.
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the same thing happens with my boyfriend he always has the same reaction when he is talking to me and even when i am with him and we arent even doing anything. it is perfectly normal. i can tell you that much. i dont know how you should handle it because it all depends how long you guys have been goin out and how she feels about you. i have been with my bf for 8 months i always know that happened and he never told me until about a month ago. some girls think it is a turn on and others dont. it all depends. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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At your age it is almost involuntary and it is also perfectly normal.
Unless you usually talk to her about those kinds of things its probably not necessary for you to. If she has noticed she is nice enough not to have embarrassed you by making a big deal of it.
I don't know how you should deal with it exactly.
Maybe some of the male advisers will chime in with something that works.
Just know you are normal. :)
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