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crush/new friend
I've liked this guy in my government class for about a month now and we never talked, sometimes we'd say hi or smile at eachother but that was about it! Then this past thursday i was walking out of the office in our school and i saw him there, he looked like he was going to say hi so i said hey and smiled and he did the same then i continued walking. So later that night i got home and i checked my myspace and he had sent me a comment, saying, "Hey! How are you? Did you like the movie today?" (we had gone on a movie field trip that day). So i then i wrote back, and we ended up talking for like 2 hours online. Then friday when i saw him in class we said hi but it was kinda like before we started talking. Then after school, i went on a walk with my friend and saw him there playing soccer and he was like flirting a little and smiled at me alot. Then when i got home we talked again for like an hour. so what im asking is does he like me, is he interested, was he just shy in school, because im really shy and wasnt about to go up to him like we were really good friends, so maybe hes the same? Well srry its so long please help!
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My guess from your description is that he really likes you. It's a lot easier to be confident and outgoing when you're speaking to someone over the internet and not looking at them face to face, especially if you're very shy. This is one reason why online dating is so popular!
One of you will need to make the first move and unfortunately, I think it will need to be you! Next time you see him at school, just walk up to him, say hi and try striking up a conversation. Make sure that you come up with something to talk about beforehand, to avoid any awkward silences but I'm willing to bet that once you start talking, it will be easier than you think. As both of you are quite shy, don't be put off by the odd awkward lull in conversation. This is perfectly normal.
Before long, you'll manage to form a good friendship which can stay as it is or can progress into a relationship, if you wish it to do so.
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he loves you, hon. go for it. even if you're shy, you've gotta start somewhere. maybe you should start sitting with him and his friends at lunch, or even just talking more in person (if you see him in the halls, give him a big smile!). it's obvious that he likes you, so just talk to him. think about it: he could be just as nervous about talking to you in person as you are about talking to him in person right now!
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Hey Girl,
What are you waiting for? He is showing interest, he likes you! *big grin* Your right, he could just be shy. You should go for it. Don't wait too long, he might think you have no interest. Congrats! I am happy for you. Megz
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Its obvious he likes you. You don't just talk for hours to people you don't like.
It could be he is shy too. Maybe he is waiting for you to say something at school.
Why not bring the subject up next time you talk online? Ask why you guys don't talk at school too! :)
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