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mystry girl


Question Posted Friday March 24 2006, 11:37 pm

i met this girl on a school trip to another city. well we hung out a bit n danced a little n i think shes cute. well when i got back to my city all i knew about her was her name and that she went to a school near where i went to, cuz i forgot to ask for a number. well i asked a friend that goes to that school about her and turns out she lives down the street from him, so iono should i go visit? would that be stalkin? cuz i didnt mean to find out where she lived, i juss asked about her. would it be weird?


if it is weird wat else could i try, she dont have mysapce n other stuff


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Friday_im_in_love answered Saturday March 25 2006, 9:55 pm:
honestly, any girl would love that.
bring the friend along if you feel werid, but make sure he knows when to leave so you two can be alone, and make sure to get her number this time lol
- Meg

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xlionxyouthx answered Saturday March 25 2006, 8:09 pm:
Well, truth to be told. I would think it's a little bit creapy also..

Since you guys "clicked", go hangout with your friend. Walk by, and stop at her house.. tell her that you were just talkin about her to your friend, and your friend had mentioned about you living down the street.

I'm pretty sure she'll think it's cute that you were tellin your buddy about this girl you danced with.

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Dominicangrl123 answered Saturday March 25 2006, 4:23 am:
Hi my name is Anabel i really dont think it would be stalking at all. You never know she is probably looking for you 2. I would go hang out with your friend and take a walk down to her house or maybe your friend can get her number for you. Maybe an address so you can write her. hope this helps Bye

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sweetie4eva710 answered Saturday March 25 2006, 3:32 am:
it wouldnt be weird for you to go hang out with ur friend and u shouldnt let it pass you by... take your chance.but it would be weird for you to be walking up and down her street all of the time so go to your friends house once and make plans with him to go to the door at her house. dont get into the habbit htuoghcause then your friend might feel like he is being used. hope i could help.

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crackinup930 answered Saturday March 25 2006, 3:07 am:
just do it i really don't think visiting her is considered stalking especially if its only the second time you would be seeing her. if she asks why your here just say that your friend lives nearby and he mentioned that you lived around. If you feel you had a connection defitently try this, whats the worse that can happen. you know that you tried something instead of wondering what could have happened. i know this is so cliche but the worse she can say is that she does not feel the same. but don't be negative and think this will happen if she hung out with you and danced with you, to that means interested.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Saturday March 25 2006, 1:00 am:
Just showing up at her house would be a little weird. It's not stalking, but it would be kind of awkward. Try to get more information out of your friend. If he doesn't know anything else go to her house with him. It wouldn't be so weird or awkward if there were two of you. If none of that is really an option you could always get her address off of her mailbox and send her a letter with your e-mail address or something in it. Make sure you explain how you got it though if you do that. I wish you luck!

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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Saturday March 25 2006, 12:09 am:
I think that would be fine to go and visit her...in fact I am sure she will feel flattered...it will not be stalking at all.

Well good luck with her!

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karenR answered Friday March 24 2006, 11:52 pm:
It would be fine for you to visit. I'd have the friend get her number for you and give her a call.

Stalking is when someone wants you to leave them alone and you continue to follow them everywhere they go anyway. So it wouldn't be stalking.

She may be home wishing she had gotten your number as well. Get the number and call her!

Good luck. :)

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