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God help you if you trusted the advice I gave at 13.trisspoke (7:31:17 PM): make me your forum link!
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im lookin for the Travis Barker version of Soulja Boy. my limewire hasnt been connecting for like the past month and with dial up, myspace music pages take foreverrrr to load, so searching is a problem, and the ones i have found arent downloadable.
does anyone know of a music myspace that has a downloadable FULL VERSION of the song?
or if you have the file [preferrably MP3] on your computer, i could give you my email address if someone would send it to me?
thanks.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=RKQgDY0pZ68
Yes, that's on youtube. No, you can't download it from youtube. However, what you can do is rip it and then download it.
Go to vixy.net. Paste in the link to that video. Now, where it says Converts to change the setting to MP3. Then click start. It'll then rip the audio and you will be able to download it.
i think i am in love with this glass of water. i have been seeing it for about a month. i don't think it loves me back, though. some of it just keeps disappearing, and i think it is because of me.
tips!
5/f
Get some magic beans. Plant them three feet away from your driveway. If you don't have a driveway, go to Indiana and plant the beans three feet away from the driveway of the sixth house you see. In about 7.8947593 minutes your beanstalk should appear. You shall not climb the beanstalk. You shall go to your neighbors house and ask if you can borrow some flour. Then, dance around the magic beanstalk screaming RAPPLE SNAPPLE YOOHOO! (or any other strange nickname your friends gave to a person) three times. Then you must find a wrench and write the words "video ho" on it. Then run into the boy's locker room at your highschool while singing Journey's Don't Stop Believing. Then, and only then, will the magic beanstalk spontaneously combust and the water will love you back.
Oh wait! This is how you get that cute boy in school who constantly makes eye contact with you to like you back! Let me revise.
Since the water is disappearing, or, as I like to call it, evaporating, add some Crystal Light mix to it now while you can. Then drink it up. Mmmm tasty!
i need helpp i dunno how to kiss. ive made out like a couple of times be4 but i dont wanna b a bad kisser. how should i kiss? also, in movies nd stuffz they make out and like move there facess soooo much, how can i do that with boys? like i dont wanna just have my face kissing in 1 place like it usually is. i wanna be relllle sexual about it but a relllle good kisser at the same time. plz dont send me links, just advice nd videos r ok.
This is going to sound lame, but it just comes naturally. It's almost instinct, I guess you could say.
Really all you have to do is massage the boy's tongue with your tongue. Put your hand on his nick, shoulders, or on his face. Just being really into the kiss will make it seem sexual.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Qvu9n246zDg&mode=related&search=
my friend used to go out with this really cute guy. she likes to flirt, && i guess she flirted a little too much, so they broke up. they don't talk anymore && got in an arguement. i think it's been over a month, && he's trying to talk to me. at first he requested me as a friend on myspace,&& he messaged me. he told me that he liked me, && asked me for my number. we started talking && realized that we had a lot in common && he asked me out. i don't think it would be right for me to go wit my friend's ex, even though she did him wrong...he likes me && i like him too. should i go out with him ??
Ask your friend. Make sure she doesn't have feelings for him anymore. If she doesn't, then go for it.
i recently started playing field hockey. i play a forward (usually through or wing) not to be braggy but i think im pretty good but i just don't know where to go when the other team has a free hit or when my team has a free hit, that kind of stuff. can anyone help me out?
What me team does is called channeling. It kinda looks like this:
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=33nz3mr&s=2
Print this out and give it to the coach. It works very well for my team.
EDIT: I noticed the words are hard to read. Click on it to enlarge.
EDIT TO THE SECOND POWER: Just reverse it while on the other side.
I tried to search this on google but nothing came up but...
Is is true that you can get breast cancer if you hit a girl in the chest too hard?
No. Cancer is caused by mutated cells. Hitting someone doesn't mutate a cell.
Is it illegal to write on money?
Like I want to write quotes like you'd maybe see on fortune cookies... maybe XD!
But is it illegal to write on money?
Yes, it is illegal. Honestly though, no one really notices. You probably can get away with it, but don't do it more than once.
EDIT: Actually, don't do it at all.
You know how love can be based on looks,personality,interest,etc.etc.?
well can it be based only one?I think so,but I want your opinion too,like some girls just love a guy cause he looks hot and then only get to know him further,and some girls like guys that play guitar.
anywayws,i met this gal online,and we did not see each other at all,after talking for quite a while we logged off.then the following day we chatted again for hours.She then told me that she likes me and really loves my personality and the way I talk and asked me to be her bf.
So the question is this,is that love? or maybe like?(If love is too strong a word).In this situation,can it be counted that this girl actually likes me? or is it not counted as a crush/love/like since she has not seen me at all but just talked to me?
thanks
You can like anyone. Including, a random person you meet online. However, you can't just love anyone. Love is such a strong word. You need to spend time with someone and get to know them like the back of your hand before you can love them.
In conclusion, she can like you. And obviously, she does.
This isn't actually a question. I just read your column and I think you're really good at giving advice. So, I decided to drop you a line and tell you how intelligent your ideas are. Umm..yeah. That's about it.
Your #1 fan,
Scooter Mclisle =P
Thank you! I've been feeling kinda down today, but you just made it all better!
Why don't you come talk to me in my forum? Generally these kinds of things should be posted there. It'll also give me a chance to talk to you =].
Again, thanks. Have a cookie.
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Can I offer to be a volunteer somewhere where they don't advertise for volunteers?
As in, would it be odd to email them and offer to be a volunteer even if they don't have a history of taking on volunteers?
It wouldn't be odd at all. There is no harm in e-mailing them. You should go for it!
When getting braces do they hurt when they are putting them on or does it only hurt after they are done putting them on? Also would they pull any teeth or would they be able to fix anything teeth that is out of place depending on how far back it is?
I GOT MY BRACES OFF TODAY! WOOO!
Anyway, back to the the point. It doesn't really hurt when they put the braces on. I felt more pain after they were done putting them on. This pain doesn't last for more than a day or two, and you only really feel it when you eat.
Getting teeth pulled really depends on each individual's mouth. Personally, I didn't get anoy pulled, but I know people who had to get like 5 pulled.
I think braces are worth the pain. I can't stop smiling- I love my new mouth!
Alright, well usually I'll agree 'age is just a number' but this situation...
My friend is a 15 year old girl and she's dating a 12 year old boy. I mean, yeah age is just a number but this is weird. People usually say on here 'Remember someone who is older wants a different kind of relationship' and that's true. A 12 year old boy has just left his "Girls have cooties" stage for gods sake!
Well my question is, do you think it's right that they're dating? Or is just me thinking it's wrong?
Also should I just let her be happy, or should I say something? If so, how should I put it?
Personally, I think it's wrong. Boys mature much slower than girls so the boy is probably way too immature for you friend.
However, I don't know if it's best to say something or not. Does your friend take everything personally? If so, just let it be; their relationship won't last long anyway.
Nevertheless, if something must be said don't beat around the bush. Be polite, but get straight to the point.
ive had a bad day after day after day. is there a good song that might pick me up of how down i feel.? if there is tell me.
Almost anything by Jack's Mannequin. Whenever I'm down, I have to listen to them. Drak Blue and La La Lie are my personal favorites on sad days.
Other good slow songs:
Run to You- The Rocket Summer
Setting Up Sunday- Meg and Dia
I'll Follow You Into the Dark- Death Cab for Cutie
Vienna- Billy Joel
Boston- Augustana
Lyrical Lies- Cute is What We Aim For
I know that you can't judge this by the internet, but I'm extremely paranoid. I'm 16 & I was drunk this past weekend. I ended up hooking up with a boy. He's the kind of kid that acts like he gets a lot of action, but I don't know if he's lying or not. (I have no real proof). Well I started to perform oral on him for about 3 minutes (unprotected) but then I stopped and said I didn't want to do it. And the next day I kind of had a sore throat but barely, it wasn't severe at all. Just tiny bit. But it might have been from making out for so long because that's happened to me before. Well now I just have some phlegm (sp?) but it's not bad. And my gums by 1 of my teeth barely hurt, but it might be from brushing my teeth so hard. Do you think I'm at risk of an std?
Yes, you are at risk of STDs. You had unprotected sex, which means that you could have any STD that this boy may have had. You should get tested ASAP.
sometimes when im like sooooooo hungRY!!i say okay il go nd eat a friut then im like no! i cant do that i just dont want to put anything in my mouth for some aparent reason i think fruits will still make you fat
how does fruits get you skinnier
sorry for a stupid question lol
Fruits don't make you "skinnier" persay. They just have less calories and will be easier to burn off then other foods. This is because they don't have much fat. Fat is extremely hard to burn off. I'm pretty sure fruits are mostly glucose, which is the simpliest form of energy and easy to burn off.
Don't trust me 100% on this, I could be wrong.
My friend and I like the same boy. I dont know what to do really. Does anyone have advice for me, because i don't want to hurt her but i really like him. My age is 14 and I am a Female.
He should be off limits to both of you. When you're 14 every little pain in the world of relationships feels worse, due to hormones running around making you emotional. As a result, there's no way for one of you to be happy without the other one getting hurt. This would really ruin your friendship. Honestly, your relationship with this boy probably wouldn't last long, therefore, there's no point to kill a friendship over some silly boy.
If you friend starts liking a new guy and is completely over this one THEN AND ONLY THEN can you go for him.
I'm a senior in high school and part of a requirement to graduate is a project in which I have to have 15 hours with a mentor. The mentor I chose was my mothers boss. She's always been friendly and she agreed to do it. Unfortunately for me, my mother found employment with another company and quit yesterday (Monday). Her boss wasn't happy. The company is attemptig to refuse to pay my mother money owed to her, they're all in a big fight. Her former boss signed a "contract" in order to be my mentor and agreed to continue meeting with me becuase she doesn't back down from a committment. This puts me in a really difficult place. I still plan on meeting her and whatnot, but I'm not sure how to act. I want to be polite. I also know that she'll ask me questions about my mother and the family and I'm not sure how to go with it. I'm only 16 (17 soon) and it's just a really awkward position.
My parents and mentor are currently fighting, I have to spend another 10 hours with her. I'm just not sure what to say when I get there. I don't want to be too cordial and stiff, I also don't want to be too personal. Our next meeting isn't until October 26th so I have plenty of time to figure out what I want to say and how to act. Once I break the ice after this first meeting I'm sure the meeting after will go smoothly. I just don't want to be uncomfortable this first time because if I can find comfort in the meeting the first time then I'll know how to behave all times afterwords. I know it's kind of confusing but I'm not sure how to word this.
Anyway, do you have any advice on how to greet my mothers former boss? It's just so complicated right now. I know I'll have to face adversity in life and this is a grand time to start. I don't want to back down and choose a new mentor when it's so close to the due date for the project. (The paper is due Nov. 2nd. The other things are due in the begining of December). Especially when I don't know anybody else who has enough experience on my topic to meet the mentor qualification requirements.
Thanks in advance.
Greet her as you would greet any other person. Say hello and how are you. Briefly ask her if everything has been going well. Then get straight to business. The fact that your mother no longer works for her gives neither of you any reason to be impolite to each other.
If she does happen to mention your mother in the casual hello, answer her the question she asks then quickly get into your work. If she asks something too personal simply tell her you don't feel comfortable about that.
The number one thing not to do is say "Well, this is awkward." People tend to think this breaks the awkwardness, however, it really makes things much more awkward. This espically holds true if the other person felt comfortable to begin with- they now feel as if you aren't comfortable around them. Most importantly: the "awkward turtle" hand movement is completely off-limits.
ok im 13/f.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for a few weeks now, maybe 4 or 5 somewhere in that range, and the other day, we had a fight. he got mad at me because he said that i was making fun of him, and then he started to pass notes with this other girl. and it really made me pissed off!!!!.
and i told him to not pass notes with her, and he said " why not, were friends, were both in band"
and then he got mad because i got mad for him passing notes with her. all the note said was her asking him if he was mad at me. but it still made me really mad. and then i started to think that he was cheating on me with her. and then that made him even more mad, and he dosent even want to talk to me, and he said that he might break up with me. i dont want to go to school monday, and him break up with me. what do i do?!?!?!
Well, you shouldn't have gotten angry about him passing notes with her. It was immature that you jumped to conclusions and thought they were cheating together. He's going to have other friends who are girls- you need to accept that.
In school on Monday, do the right thing and say that you are sorry. Explain that you know you were wrong and that it won't happen again.
http://www.partycity.com/cgi-bin/parties/costumes.cgi?name=Rag%20Doll&parties=Halloween&productstype=Teen&products=120646&zoom=1&start=&originaltype=
I just bought this costume for Halloween, and then I realized that at the end of October, at night, it's going to be freezing and I need to cover up.
Does anyone have any ideas how I can layer myself so that I'm warm, but it doesn't change the whole costume? I was thinking of wearing thick socks under the stockings, etc. I don't want to wear, for example, a hoodie over it because then the whole costume is changed.
Thanks so much in advance.
Can you wear a long sleeveshirt under it? I don't think it would take away from the coustume too much. Just make sure it's a color that doesn't jump too much, such as black or white.
13/f
I've been dating this guy for sometime now. It was an internet relationship, but i didnt care. He was sweet and made me feel so much better about myself in so many ways. We used to say to tell each other that we loved each other everytime we talked. But recently i he wasnt on for a while. I kept on loving him. There was a place to put if you had a special person, so I put his picture on there saying that i always will love him. When he got back on he said he didnt love me anymore. I was crushed and we've been talking about it. Now he is saying that he isnt the same type of guy and that i should judt forget about him, and he doesnt get why i still love him. the question is, why all of the sudden does he not love me? Is it because the natural male instince to run when a woman says she loves a guy?
This isn't what you want to hear. So if you want a sugarcoated answer, look away.
You are thirteen years old, and you are having an internet relationship. This guy can be anybody. He can lie and say anything. It's the internet: no one knows who you are. His real personality could be 100% different than who he is online. Furthermore, since you are so young, he probably felt that he could take advantage of you.
Why doesn't he love you anymore? Because he realized that you can't base a relationship off of who someone is online. You need to know them in person to be sure you can trust and love them.