Question Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 12:16 am
my friend used to go out with this really cute guy. she likes to flirt, && i guess she flirted a little too much, so they broke up. they don't talk anymore && got in an arguement. i think it's been over a month, && he's trying to talk to me. at first he requested me as a friend on myspace,&& he messaged me. he told me that he liked me, && asked me for my number. we started talking && realized that we had a lot in common && he asked me out. i don't think it would be right for me to go wit my friend's ex, even though she did him wrong...he likes me && i like him too. should i go out with him ??
RisingStar4u8998 answered Saturday October 20 2007, 6:33 pm: Dear 'Should I??',
Well, I will tell you one thing...... FOLLOW YOUR HEART! What is your heart saying? Is it saying, "Take the man, girl!" or saying, "NOPE! Your friend is so much better than that boy." Follow it. Just got through this...
Friends you can't keep 4ever.
BF you can't keep 4ever.
What do you have a better chance with?
Friendship or BF and GF? What's calling you?
I would take the boy, Girl!
RisingStar4u8998
PS: If u need any advice on boys and friends... I'm yours I hope I helped :)LOL [ RisingStar4u8998's advice column | Ask RisingStar4u8998 A Question ]
VictoriaGrace answered Saturday October 20 2007, 11:26 am: you definetly should go for it. Your friend may not understand at first but she did do him wrong by flirting. Just in order to avoid a big fight have a girl's night and talk to her: tell her that there's this guy who likes you and you like that guy and he asked you out. trust me she'll want to know who and tell her gently. If she gets mad explain to her that its no big thing and that you aren't gonna jump head first into it if she's upset. But don't put your life on hold for a friend even though the saying goes " no boy should get between friends" if thats true then she shouldn't let anything get between you guys, even if your dating her ex. just don't yell at her and if you guys date don't tell her every single ushy detail of your relationship. confide those parts to other friends in confidence. I wish you luck:) [ VictoriaGrace's advice column | Ask VictoriaGrace A Question ]
blackrose13 answered Saturday October 20 2007, 11:25 am: Well it depends really,
If your friend is over him and doesnt really like him,Or if she has a boyfriend and doesnt care about him anymore,if shes over him i think it would be good if you were to talk to her about it , but before you talk to her about it tell her not to get angry or pissed you get me?
if shes okay with it go for it thats if you like him more than a friend..
Good luck with that hope i helped
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