okay well today was me and my man's 1 month anniverseryy. :D and we havent kissed and we havent said i love you yet. we went out 1 time before and he had told me that he likes to say i love you first cause he was just like that and doesnt want to say it if he doesnt mean it. and now that we have been going outt for 1 month and he still hasent said anything yett, should i talk to him. or whatt? i started saying XO! and stuff when he gets home and texts me i say okayyy. XO! and stuff but he doesnt text me back. i dont want to sound all pushy and telll him i think we shoulld kiss and i think we should sayy i love you too each other. so yeahh helpp me pleaseee! :D
Well sometimes with men, they take more time to tell you they love you because they think if they say it then they might mess up the relationship even though it makes no snse atal but thats how some of then think. I think you should give him more time to tell yo because love takes more than a months to develop or at least real love that is. He migt not think its the right time to kiss you because he might want itto be special with you and he might wanna have a special time to tell you he loves you than on the phone.
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ugh i have a major problem right now.i am currently going out with this guy bobby. he is really nice to me but i don't like him that way and i don't know wat to do because i will feel like a bitch if i break up with him because we have only been going out for like 2 weeks and im afraid his parents wont like me and i haven't even met them.and on top of that I haven't gotten over my ex. i miss him so much i wish i could get him bak but he just used me and doesn't want anything to do with me anymore he just wants to be with his slutty girlfriend that i used to be friends with. i don't know wat my heart wants anymore!!! HELP!!
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Wow girl this situations sounds just like me. Well first of all if you don't like Bobby like that then you should tell him in a nice way that you don't like him like that and give him a good reason for your decision. And if your still not over your ex thats okay too. It takes some people months to get over their ex's. If he doesn't want anything to do with you then why should you want anything to do with him. Obviously if he wnts to settle for less and go out with someone whos gone do him wrong then thats all he'll ever get is what he puts out there and let him go ahead and do what he does. All you should do is keep your had up high and know that you can do better than him anyways. Thae some tine ot for yourself because you know what yor heart wants for sure when u spend a little time being along which is not that bad.
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Hi! I told my bgf that i love him but not in love with him and not exaclty romantically but we were talking alone. I had hugged him bye and then was like wait 1 more thing and then i said I love you but im not IN love with you..." He was just like ok during this my hand was gently in his not exaclty holding hands but i had my hand in his which was cupped and i hugged him again and left. The other thing is we're not exactly friends w/benefits but he can't date until his next birthday (may!) and I don't even know if I want to date him (but prob. will) and we've kissed and I feel totally confortable with him. I dont know if everyone gets that but like when he held my hand i didnt even realize it. And he flirts with me sometimes overly and we flirt in general. The thing is when I told him that he didnt really respond. We've still kinda talked and it wasnt like awkward or anything but i dont know. I pretty much know he does too even if he doesnt tell me because i mean more like in a close friend way not marry me or anything like that haha. I really want to talk to him about it but i dont know how to bring it up and do you think thats a normal way for him to respond to it? Also do you think hes thinking about it or was just like ok whatever? i think he probably is thinking about it but i want others opinions. Lots of them lol :D hanks so much and I will rate all helpful posts!!!
I see what goong on with your situation. I think its goood tht he still shows that he cares about you but if you think that hes not coming on hard enogh then give him some hint on what kind of boyfriend you would like for him to be. Tell him what you like for him to start doin (in a nice way) and things that would make you wanna fall IN love with him. And second don't give up on him. Tell him the same things you wrote in your adivce question. And I guess if youreally wan him to start showing i then you should get him started and show in some of the things you like to do that would make you like him more.
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When I was younger I didn't know what love was so I just dated because...well I really don't know. I've only had 3 bf's. (I'm a girl) & that was between the ages of 8-13. At 13 I got a reality check and figured out what love was. Since then I have not found anyone personally appealing which pretty much means I haven't had a crush on anyone in 3 years. Sure I think some people are visually attractive but that's not a crush. I'm sick of being lonely. To the point that I might be depressed. What do I do???
I think what you should do is go out more and meet different people and if you find a guy that you think is attractive then you should just go up to him and tell him that you like him and h see where it goes from there. Most guys like it when you are upfront and tell them that you like them. And you should never giveup on love because it could come when you least expect it.
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15/f. I dislike my dad and mom. I have nothing for them, nothing against them. I don't feel anything for them. They're like nobody to me. They don't ignore me or abuse me or anything. But I can't bring myself to say "I love you guys." Because I know I'll be bullshitting everyone. I also dislike my sister. My parents get me stuff I want, and they treat me like other parents treat their daughter. But I strongly dislike them. I love being alone, untouched, in my own room. Or instead, out of the house and away from them. I hate being involved with them. And my other relatives live in another country. I don't talk with my parents, and I don't need their advice. I don't confide in them. What can I do?
Any advice? :/
You know what, I am just like that wih my mom. I really dislike her somtimes but I love her but I just can't bring myself to tell her that. I don't think thats there's somthing wrong with you because hey, we are teenager so we all get to that point where we dislike our parents because we feel like they have control over everything we do or always get in the way of our plans. But I guess when we get older then we will learn to appreciate our parents when we finally get lives of our own that we are in control of. So until then i don't think its anything unormal just something we all go through as teenagers.
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My boyfriend is getting me really mad, becauze me him and a couple of frendz are supposed to go to a teen club on saturday, and when i told him about it he sed " oh im gunna go wiht my ex girlfriend " now im not gonna hav a fun time and im gunna worry about them, he mite even ignore me that nite. what should i do, and i need advice quik because saturday is coming up and i need to know wuht to do ahead of time, thanx
I know if that were me then I would be mad but if you really think about if hes realy that bocus that he would use his ex girlfriend as a way of making you do something you don't wannna do then I guess he must be better of wit his girlfriend then. Plus you don't need someone whos gonnabe like that to you.
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my friend used to go out with this really cute guy. she likes to flirt, && i guess she flirted a little too much, so they broke up. they don't talk anymore && got in an arguement. i think it's been over a month, && he's trying to talk to me. at first he requested me as a friend on myspace,&& he messaged me. he told me that he liked me, && asked me for my number. we started talking && realized that we had a lot in common && he asked me out. i don't think it would be right for me to go wit my friend's ex, even though she did him wrong...he likes me && i like him too. should i go out with him ??
I think that you should go ahead and follow your heart but first you should ask your friend would they be mad if you and him went ot and if shes not cool with it but if not then you should tel her that as your friend that she should support your choice in guys and that you'r not doing to make her mad.
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hi. i am 13, and i know this kid. hes lives in the next town, but him and his friends are really good friends with the boys in my group of friends. anyways, hes been telling me he wants to do stuff with me. i thought originally he ment like making out and stuff, but he recently told me he wants a handy. do you think i am too young? i need answers faast because we are hanging out tonight and i think it might happen. also, how do you give a handy?
Well I do think that you're too young to be sexually active and you should tell him that. Its alot of other thing you should do to how that you like hm besides them like just hang out somewhere and thats you're not ready for something like that.
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ok well theres this guy that im really starting to like. the problem is, i dont know him all that well. and he dosent go to muh school n lives really far away....what should i do....keep flirting with him or jus lose himm
I don't think that you shuld lose him I just thnk that you should just decide to justbe friends with him. Its just betterto be friends because the majority of lon distance relationships dont work out so to save your self from going through the relationship crap just offerto be friends.
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I have a lot of friends, I would usually consider myself content. I like all my friends, but feel most comfortable in my little "group" of maybe 10 or so people who I think are closer. But sometimes I feel like if I left, no one would be really bothered by it. I don't feel particularly liked, and I feel extremely self-conscious when I am faced with either the choice of trying to finally talk to people I know, but don't actually have acquaintance-ships with, or just hanging out by myself. When I finally feel like I'm accepted (become part of an actual group, made guy friends, and then made friends with the most popular girl in school) there is someone who doesn't know who I am and doesn't care. Sometimes I just feel like throwing up or something because no matter how hard I try there is always something not right. Sometimes when I make friends with the "it" girl, I think that being friends with her will assure me friendships with her friends, but it never does. I like to be liked and when I'm not and put out of my comfort-zone, I feel like the little kid who's picked on and disliked. I thought that dressing nice and being nice and looking pretty and being smart would just give me a ticket into anywhere, but it doesn't. I feel like everyone is making this more difficult for me than it is for everyone else. I just feel sick and I don't know what to do. Sorry if this is long. Thanks in advance.
I personally think that being smart and looking nice can gt u anywhere but at the same time you can't try and be someone that you're not to get people to like you. U don't have to be liked by everyone t feel important. Plus you shouldn't want to hang out with the "it" girls especially if you're being forced to be someone different that you. Boys these days like girls who are different and who don't always follow the crowd. It is good to make new friends and stuff but doing that shouldn't make you feel out of your comfort zone. So just be yourself to the fullest and its up to them of whether they like it or not.
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