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my heart doesn't know wat it wants


Question Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 4:39 pm

ugh i have a major problem right now.i am currently going out with this guy bobby. he is really nice to me but i don't like him that way and i don't know wat to do because i will feel like a bitch if i break up with him because we have only been going out for like 2 weeks and im afraid his parents wont like me and i haven't even met them.and on top of that I haven't gotten over my ex. i miss him so much i wish i could get him bak but he just used me and doesn't want anything to do with me anymore he just wants to be with his slutty girlfriend that i used to be friends with. i don't know wat my heart wants anymore!!! HELP!!


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WhenIComeAround answered Tuesday October 23 2007, 10:24 pm:
Definitely call things off. The longer you go out, the harder it will become to break things off with him. You don't need to tell him about your ex, if you want to do things nicely just say you feel sorry, but you didn't feel a strong bond and you wish you did, but you don't.

He might be upset, but he'll be thankful you didn't drag him along in the long run.

And about your ex, it hurts now, but you really need to get over him. He sounds like a real prick, and you derserve someone nice. Show your the bigger and mature person in this and pretend the whole situation doesn't affect you, because one day you'll wake up and notice you're not pretending it doesn't hurt anymore, because it won't.

I know this isn't what you'd like to hear, but one day you'll be so glad he went out with your unfaithful friend, because it got him out of your life.

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JRose answered Tuesday October 23 2007, 10:13 pm:
Wow girl this situations sounds just like me. Well first of all if you don't like Bobby like that then you should tell him in a nice way that you don't like him like that and give him a good reason for your decision. And if your still not over your ex thats okay too. It takes some people months to get over their ex's. If he doesn't want anything to do with you then why should you want anything to do with him. Obviously if he wnts to settle for less and go out with someone whos gone do him wrong then thats all he'll ever get is what he puts out there and let him go ahead and do what he does. All you should do is keep your had up high and know that you can do better than him anyways. Thae some tine ot for yourself because you know what yor heart wants for sure when u spend a little time being along which is not that bad.

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