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sayinggg love?!
okay well today was me and my man's 1 month anniverseryy. :D and we havent kissed and we havent said i love you yet. we went out 1 time before and he had told me that he likes to say i love you first cause he was just like that and doesnt want to say it if he doesnt mean it. and now that we have been going outt for 1 month and he still hasent said anything yett, should i talk to him. or whatt? i started saying XO! and stuff when he gets home and texts me i say okayyy. XO! and stuff but he doesnt text me back. i dont want to sound all pushy and telll him i think we shoulld kiss and i think we should sayy i love you too each other. so yeahh helpp me pleaseee! :D
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Honestly, I think you are trying to push things a little too soon. You've only been dating the guy a month and that's much too soon for that. Give him some time. It's really sweet that he only wants to say it when he means it and he seems like a great guy for doing that. If you did push him into saying "i love you," things could get pretty bad. Relationships that are rushed into like that don't last long. So just be patient and it will happen sooner than you know it! :)
As for kissing, why not make a move? Next time you have him alone, cuddle up next to him and just talk to him softly about how happy he makes you and how wonderful the past month has been. Then, with your head still kind of on his shoulder, tilt your face up towards him, smile sweetly, and move in for the kiss.
Good luck and I hope it all works out!
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Just give it some time and drop some hints that you want him to kiss you. Maybe you could get close to his face, make him think you're going to kiss him.. watch his move.. if he leans in, go for it.. if he stays then either back away or kiss his cheek!
1 month is too early to say i love you. it's so meaningless in the first month. my boyfriend was the same. i told him to stop because no one can fall in love so quickly like that. you should say it only if you mean it & it's almost a year into the relationship.
so if he hasn't made a move or anything, then wait it out. i'm sure he wants to make it work with you this time.. that's why he's taking so slow. you can try kissing him but don't start with the I love you yet. It might make him feel pressured. He may not respond if he's trying again. Also, it makes them think you want to get way too close with them and that idea to some guys, stresses them out.
i'll wait at least a few more weeks to see if he's dropping hints about kissing.. or you go for it. :] waiting is a great thing in my opinion. if you end up doing both of those things, it seems to hurry up the relationship to end. from my experience.. from watching my friends do that. also then the relationship isn't "boring" or it won't become old.
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If he's told you that he likes to say I Love You first, he's probably hinting that he wants you to wait for him to be ready. DO NOT say anything and DO NOT be pushy.. I've made that mistake sooo many times and it pushes guys away. Waiting longer will help you know he means it, and will make the moment even more special. My 2 month with my bf is on halloween, and we haven't said i love you.. trust me, 1 month is not the right time.
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Well sometimes with men, they take more time to tell you they love you because they think if they say it then they might mess up the relationship even though it makes no snse atal but thats how some of then think. I think you should give him more time to tell yo because love takes more than a months to develop or at least real love that is. He migt not think its the right time to kiss you because he might want itto be special with you and he might wanna have a special time to tell you he loves you than on the phone.
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Falling in real love takes more then one month for most people. What you might think of love right now, isnt what youll think of it a couple years from now. You didnt say your age, but, Im thinking your 13-14. If im wrong,sorry. But at 13-14 you really dont know what love is bc you havent been in mainly long lasting relationships to really know.
But anyways, just make the first move when you guys hang out. I think its time to kiss!!.. Instead of I love you. Try alright, Love yah, Bye.. Its not as meaningful as I love you. =D<3
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okay as long as he says you cant kiss him first then i say go for that one,,,,but id say he just needs to be absolutely sure that he feels that he 100% loves you before he says it...what kinda boy would he be if he breaks his promise??? hope i helped!
xoxo
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