Hey
my name is alexis. I currently have a boyfriend. And i am going threw boy trouble.So anyone who can give me advice that will help alot.
thanks
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I am in 11th grade in high school and I like this girl who’s in 12th grade. She’s both smart and very beautiful, and I’m not actually just saying that. Last year during school she would try to get my attention by doing a lot of things for like 8 months. However I never reacted to her and then she started to date her friend’s brother from another school. I really regret that I didn’t do anything to show her that I liked her. Eventually I called her right before school ended. She told me she had a bf, but that we should still talk sometime. She said she had dated her bf for a month, and I remember that every time she saw me she looked really sad. Especially on the day she bought prom tickets for the both of them. I called her back again and we talked for a bit since it was late. Eventually I had to go on an international vacation, so I called her but her mom picked up the phone instead. I just told her mom to tell her that I called.
When I got back from vacation I wanted to call her but decided to try to talk to her in school. When school did start I found that I didn’t have the courage to talk to her. We met in the halls in the mornings but we just look at each other. There was one time she said hi to me and asked me how my vacation was but all I could say to her was "hello" and "good". There was also another time when she actually said the words, “I like him” just as I showed up in the hallway. However she said it behind my back and I didn’t confront her about this. This was probably the most stupid thing I have ever done. I still like her a lot but I’m not sure what to do. In fact I think I’ve fallen in love with her.
Since this is her last year in high school I really want to try to date her. Even though she never told me that she liked me I can tell that she does by the way she acts when I’m near her. I've joined some clubs in school for college application help and sometimes she's in some of them. She would also do things to get my attention during club meetings. Anyways, besides our very brief talk in school we haven’t continued to talk. One reason that I was afraid is b/c if we do talk I’ll ask her if she still has a bf, and of course she’ll reply “yes”. Then I would probably do something stupid like hang up on her. If I did do this I probably would ruin any chances with her. I mean I’ve let her down so many times and have probably hurt her a lot. Her current bf was there for her when I wasn’t. I know it’s probably a lot to ask for, but I just want one chance to be with her. I’ve never felt this way about a girl before. Anyways I have a lot of questions:
1. After everything I’ve screwed up, is there a chance that she could have any feelings left for me? I mean she still drops subtle hints and stuff, but I’m constantly worried everyday whether she still likes me or not. I mean doesn’t the fact that she drops hint whiling having a bf suggests she doesn’t have 100% loyalty to him?
2. How should I try to establish a connection to her again? I mean it’s been like a month since we last talked (counting the brief talk) and like 4 months since our last conversation. Its way too awkward for me to call her, I mean I know I’ve said she’s important to me and that this suggests I would do anything to try and reach her, but its because of how important she is to me that I’m afraid I’ll screw up again. Should I like just ‘wave’ to her while we walk past each other in school? I’ll be going to a soup kitchen next Wednesday for a club that we’re both in and I really hope that she comes, I feel as it would be easier to talk to her alone while having something to talk about right away.
3. I don't understand why she wants me to know that I like her even when she has a bf, does she want me to try and steal her away or something?
4. Is there any way I can ease my jealousy over her bf? I mean I know they’ve probably kissed and made out, but I hope nothing more has happened. Also there’s a party this week for Halloween and she’ll probably go with her bf.
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1. You still have a chance with her. It could be that she is trying to make you jealouse. I had a person do that to me.
2.Try to come up with a converstaion or is you are walking down the hall say hi or just go up to her when she is alone talk to her.
3. Yes you can ease your jealousy over her bf.
Ignore him.Dont let him get to you.
hope i helped
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im almost 16, (less than a month) and i am 5'5" and weigh 160lbs. i really hate the way i look and i just want to lose a lot of weight. im even considering anorexia. this has been an ongoing problem in my life. i hate being fat. any advice would help.
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what you would have to do to lose weigh follow these instuctions:
1.Eat healthy food. Fruit, veggies, seafood is all good for you.
2.Be active do a sport or play outside with your friends whatever you do try to get an hour of excirse a day.
I hoped i hepled
Alexis13
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I'm 15 years old, female i live in Iowa. i've never liked the computer much, but for the past six months, ive been on it every night for an average of five hours and sometimes more. the reason-- i met this guy, he's 17 and he lives in california. the first time i met him, we talked for 14 hours straight. (not exagerating) he's so great.. i can talk to him about anything and i'm understood so well.. i can understand him too and he says he's never felt the way he feels when talking to me...this probably sounds creepy but it's honestly not. i really love him.. i don't know why. i just do. i know 15 is young to love and probably to young. i've never felt this way about a guy.. i look at other guys and see nothing in them, no future. i just want him. We both have these feelings and want to meet. i know it's dangerous. I've been warned about how he can be different in person or not even be what he says he is. also that he could rap/kidnap/kill me. I know all of the bad stuff that can happen yet i still want to see what could happen. I don't want to ask myself 5 years from now what could have happened if we did meet. Even through all of this, i'm scared alot. it's so hard to like someone so much who is so far away. is it wrong for me to want to meet him in person?... if not.. what should i do? > (link)
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ok miss 15 year old~
i have felt that same before and i am 13. Its not wrong that you want to meet him but you are right you need to be careful you never know what could happen.But if you want to meet him ask you parents and set up a date to meet him.
I hope that i helped
alexis13
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I have no idea what to do about my friend.She likes my boyfriend.
i need advice on what to do!!!! (link)
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Well myself
get advice sooooooooonnnnnnn!!!!!!
Like today or tommrrow
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