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my boyfriend, logan, seems to not like me as much as he did when we wernt going out. all of his friends say that to me. im really good friends with all of his best friends. and today, his friend philip, said that he didnt think he liked me that much anymore. and even clarissa said it( my bff )
i want to ask him whats up and talk to him about it, but im to afraid that he will get mad at me. cause he gets mad at me alot! please give me advice!
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this is happens to plenty of girl (that includes me)... and i'm gonna be very blunt: IT SUCKS! but heres what you need to consider and know. You need to know that you, just like everyone else, you deserve someone who loves you for YOU. i know that sounds cheezy and all, but its true. it doesn't matter how cute or sweet he seems.. you need to look past those few memories that you cling onto and think of YOURSELF. and ya, some boys want the "chase". after time, girls tend to allow their boyfriends at them a little too easy. Even if you think "well hes my boyfriend... whys should i make him work for anything?!". its sad but some guys just need that. things get dull when its handed to them, just like anything else. I was actually talking to my ex boyfriend the other day and asked him why he honestly didn't want to be with me anymore. Guess what he said?? -"you became too protective with me over time" so thats another thing. Even if you dont feel like you are, and even if you feel like you NEED to bc he talks to other girls or something. its just the way it is. im not gonna say "oh, its not meant to be" because you never know. but everything happens for a reason. you need to put yourself first here. for as much as it hurts, and for as bad as you feel.... you need to listen to your heart. and looking at the way you worded your question, i think you know what you need to do. and make it your doing before it becomes HIS and he tells all his friends how HE broke up with you.
i didn't get over my boyfriend for soo long; sometimes people just stick with you for w.e reasons. but all in all, talk to him. if he gets mad at you just say "screw you bud!" you need to do what you need to do. and im pretty sure you know what that is
best of luck girl. im sorry you gotta deal with this
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Obviously somethings going on. I wouldn't tolerate this for one second and id probally dump him. lol I happen to be very staight forward. But really if he's acting this way there's something that happening. maybe your being to clingy or something or maybe he isn't the type for relationships. I think he's also telling your friends things as well. He may also be getting ready to dump you and I apologiize for my bluntness. If he's getting mad at you for things often he's not a good boyfriend and it sounds like he's mean. Id cut it off right now. This relationship doesn't have a bright future. Also if your bff is saying thuings like that maybe its time for a new one. Hope i helped and am again sorry for being blunt:)
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I think it has to do with the chase.
Some guys like the chalenge of getting a girl, they think they like the girl a lot, but once they get them it's like "Ok, now what?"
You will never know how he feels unless you talk about it with him. If he gets mad at you because you want to know his feelings, he's not worth it anyways.
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