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is THIS love?
You know how love can be based on looks,personality,interest,etc.etc.?
well can it be based only one?I think so,but I want your opinion too,like some girls just love a guy cause he looks hot and then only get to know him further,and some girls like guys that play guitar.
anywayws,i met this gal online,and we did not see each other at all,after talking for quite a while we logged off.then the following day we chatted again for hours.She then told me that she likes me and really loves my personality and the way I talk and asked me to be her bf.
So the question is this,is that love? or maybe like?(If love is too strong a word).In this situation,can it be counted that this girl actually likes me? or is it not counted as a crush/love/like since she has not seen me at all but just talked to me?
thanks
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truthfully, i wouldnt meet her. for all you know it could be a 50 year old gay man wanting to rape you. also by the way, you can not love someone who you never even met. you dont know this person. you could im each other for yeaars, and youll never be able to love her. you like her. did you even call her ever? try that first before meeting up with her. look up the song internet relationships are not real relationships by mc lars. might give you a hint there.
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Oh my god, same thing happened to me, let me just tell you, so that you know how it will all end up. I met a guy who knew about me through his friend. He aimed me and we talked and he said i was beautiful. He sent me his pictures and he was cute, he was a stalker he was a normal teen like me. so he called me, and everyday for 2 weeks, we talked. we liked each other so much we couldnt wait to meet! he called me baby and shit, and he said he could see us fallin in love..so did i...well we went to the movies, and he was sooooo cute, then a couple of days later he was a distant, and he said he had boxing and working to do so he would be too busy. he still called me, and lecture me, telling me never to let anyone let me down......bla bla bla, anyway it turned out shit, and in the end even if you saw the person once, it will hurt you like if you knew that person for years. it may feel like love but its just a really big crush. But i say give it a try. meet her...but count on it...you may wish that she remained annonmous....
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Well your right love is a strong word and no its not love but it does mean she likes you. You dont have to see a person inorder to start liking them sometimes the way a person speaks in other words expresses their feelings can be much more attractive. The truth is when you someone face to face you cant always be yourself but when you talk to them over the phone or etc then its easier to be yourself. Anyway if you like her to then go for it and goodluck.
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You can like anyone. Including, a random person you meet online. However, you can't just love anyone. Love is such a strong word. You need to spend time with someone and get to know them like the back of your hand before you can love them.
In conclusion, she can like you. And obviously, she does.
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it could be love but it couldnt youll know when your in love its a forever thing!
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In my opinion, you need to know a person much more in order to actually "love" them. If you truly love someone it won't be based on one thing. You may not love every little thing about them, but you still love the whole package.
I think most people are attracted to one thing about the person at the beginning (like their looks, talents, personality), but that's just the initial attraction. That one thing should be what makes you want to get to know the person better and then you can truly love them.
In your case I think she really truly likes you. Usually, a crush is just based on looks. Since she hasn't seen you she must really like you for who you are. Chatting with someone without seeing them can be a great way to really get to know them because you aren't distracted by their looks. It sounds like you like each other and should just take things as they come. Enjoy each others personalities and get to know each other better. You never know, it could turn into love.
By the way, I hate to be preachy, but be careful about who you are talking to on the internet. There are a lot of weirdos out there... and GOOD LUCK!
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