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I can't find a class anywhere.
I also can't find an agent.
13/f
i live in Naperville

plz helpp!

Well it would help more if you told us what type of class you are looking for?

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i am completely lost and confused. i first had a crush on a guy starting in may last year going till about juneish..or so i thought. turns out i dont' think i've ever stoped liking him. and he turns out to be one of my best guy friends. and i'm scared to tell him i like him and ruin a friendship. so please what should a 17 year old girl do about liking her really good basically best guy friend.

[and i heard he had a crush on me last year but i'm not sure if it was true or not]

well if some one told you he had a crush on you, you should take that to consideration, its possible that it may be true, because i too have a really big crush on my best friend and he likes me too, we've been liking each other for three years already and im 18 now, but we never went out, our friendship is great and hes the most trusted person i know, so it think at the moment keep your crush to yourself and let it grow more and more, and at times flirt and if he flirts back then hes interested, just don't rush it, and trust your heart and mind, keep your friendship closer and if it passes a year or a couple of month, do those little flirty comments like "when we having a baby" and "love ya" that type of crap and if he plays along instead of telling you to stop then you can keep your head up high and look toward a good relationship with him. WHo knows, me and my best friend might end up getting married tee hee

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im tired of taking BC pills everyday to prevent pregnancy. Isnt there like a shot i can get from my doctor that will prevent me from getting pregnant for like 5 years no matter if i use protection or not?

i hate bc pills too, ask your doctor for the shot, it takes care of you for a ear...i think three years and its really affective, but always use protection, HIV will ruin your life, but just ask your doctor its easy and you dont have to worry about it for a long time.

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So i overheard these guys talking about a girls vagina and they said it was "phat", what does that mean? Is it a good thing?

what! dam immature guys lol, yea if they said that was phat, that means its a good thing, no guy want to a screw a bony vagina, guys love it with a lot of meat, so yea its a good thing, unless the were sayin eww in a conversation.

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There's this guy who acts like he likes me, a lot, he's always texting me and calling me. And I think he's really sweet and funny and cute- but sometimes I think he is desperate. He has been trying to start a relationship with a few girls for a time, but they haven't worked out... and now that I'm single he's hitting on me. Should I give it a go? Or am I just gonna get taken advantage of because he's desperate to have a gf no matter who it is?

well he for is desperate so, and if you think hes kinda cute, then i dont know maybe you should try it out, he'll probably spoil you alos, which is a good thing for girls, new shoes new jeans hahaha just kidding, but im guessing hes reallylonely and is looking forward to care for someone and admire, but if hes desperate for ass, then you can instanly tell if hes always like "so when can i tap that?" but if hes cute and hes really nice then i think you should just give it a go

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ok my boyfriend likes butt. HOW DO I MAKE MINE BIGGER? like without getting surgery or something

well um what i did was i ate a lot of junk food but not like a bunch of junk food just like enough, and i would be very active around my waist so that i dont end up gettin fat around my stomac, so all the food went down to my butt, but you have to becareful because it cold turn into an ugly butt, but also, you could work out if your the not the junk food type of person, do lunges and suats, i used to do tht alot, now i have a body like beyonce lol,, bt yea hope ive helped a bit

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Im a freshman!!!! yay i dont think its a bad thing i wear my I.D faithfully with that big 9 on it ...But 2 the point yeah uhhh i met this boy and he is like my best friend now he is in 10th and he is 16 its like it was an automatic click WeWhereThisCloseInThe SnapOfMyFingers but you know what they say its never about how long you've known someone its about how close you get to them and the point of this all is that ive fallen for him we cant be bestfriends anymore cuz friends dont look at eachother the way we do and people are always asking do we go out and saying how cute we are together we have never admitted to eachother about our feelings but i know he knows and he knows i know...MAJOR PROBLEM he has a girlfriend who doesnt go to our school...but the thing is i want him to be mine....Advice please : {

well be like "dam it sucks you have a girl? do you really like her?" but no, dont make him break up with his girlfriend, because if he breaks up with her to go out with you imagine if he ends up like some other chick, then he'll break up with you to go out with her, it will turn into a bad habbit, so try not to do that. wait till he starts complaining about her, so be patient, if hes worth it then hes worth waiting for. But then if you cant wait any longer,just ask him how things are going in his relationship, and if he says its going bad, tell him, then it aint gonna get way better, you should just break up with her, but i advise you, do not convince a guy to break up with his girl for you, because he could possibly do the same thing to you.

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im like so embarrassed, ha so im always really tired in school, and when im not paying attention, i just kinda stare off into space. and so, some weird kid thinks i like him, and i deff. don't. i have a boyfriend. & i hope he doesn't tell anyone that i do. because i don't. what should i do?

well if that weird kid thinks you like him do what i do, be a little bitch, when he looks at you give him like a dirty look, but not the way that it would hurt his feelings, just like a little look "wow ur ugly, ewww turn away turn away " type of look, and like when you feel he is looking toward your direction, scoff, and lay your head on your hand so he thinks that you think hes gross to you, You really dont have to say anything, just by the way you look will repel him okay. and if he dont stop, then when he looks at you, be like "what!?!" "may i help you? geez then stop lookin at me?" nad tell your man before hand, be like "some dude thinks i fukin like him, cause im always staring out to space, what an idiot"

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15-f



okay.
so i understand that most girls shave their virgina. well. is it healthy? like when i do it i get red bumps.

Helpp?
sorryy.

Well the truth is, it really dosnt make a difference to your health, pubic hair is meant to prevent friction just like with arm pit hair, so anyways, the reason why you get red bump is because your irritation your skin. What i do to prevent that, is make sure your doing it in the shower, keep it really moist,and put alot of soap or shaving cream. It keeps the hair soft. Then just pull your skin a bit and shave it with a sharp blade, make sure to run the blade under hot water. Keep applying more soap or shaving cream. then when your done, don't scratch or rub it, simply pat it, and put baby oil or cocoa butter with no perfumes because then it will irritate it. Hope ive helped a bit, but thats the way i prevent getting red bumps on mine, oh and while shaving don't keep going over it a bunch of times, you will rip your skin even though you wont notice it, and don't scratch it

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my myspace is like really boring i dont like the whole survey things or pictures under about me or really typing stuff but im not sure what to put there or like find those cute words to put on there! help i need to know what kind of stuff to put on there!

na uh myspace is awsome, but anyway i decorate my page with www.glitter-graphics.com they have really cute stuff. they have quotes on love and shit, and its easy to find which type you want. they have a list.its easy hope ive helped

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Okay so I like this guy "H" and we're not all that close but we talk and are partly in the same social group . So , I smoke and he thinks it's gross . so I'm quiting . Anyways , he's been going about saying smoking kills everytime he sees me ... so I slap him on the shoulder playfully and say shushhh ! and smile and then he smiles and we talk . And today my friend "S" asked me to come to his vollyball game and H is on the team so he was practicing and he walked by and looked at me and smiled and I smiled , and it was EXACTLY like the slow motion moments in the movies !Plus I think H is just saying this to get me to talk to him .

Although , I asked him out like 1 and 1/2 months ago and he said "No , I'm sorry , I'm 13 and I don't need a girlfriend I'm fine by myself"
So ... I don't really see us going anywhere ... but if he liked me enough he might want to try it out [hes never had a girlfriend before]

So basiclly I'm just confused !
Answers by morning or the 30th would be highly apreciated and rated accordingly ! =]
I just need to know !

Oh yes , I also think S likes me ? but he flirts with EVERYONE ! so I dunno but he asked me to his vollyball games everytime and wants to walk me home just to get me to come . Plus he's really sweet to me . But he's like that with a lot of people ?

So I'm thinking because I'm usually one of the guys and easy to talk to , I might just be aprochable ?
Give me some opinions ?
PLEASE ?!?!
I AM DESPRATE !
thnxxxxx !
I will rate if you give good advice !
xoxo

well this is a difficult situation, first of all, do you think your friend S likes you, you should try talking to him, but if he dosnt interest you, then go up to H when hes by himself, just ask, why is it that you don't want a girlfriend, and if he thinks your cute, its possible that he is the stage where he feels that right now isnt the rite time to have a gf, and i believe its true, 13 is kinda young, wait till your 14 at least. haha not much of a difference but thats when the "wanting of a relationship" hormone starts, understand me? but then just talk to him, tell him how you feel, like you like him, you think hes really talented and nice. and that our interested, and if he says, we'll see or maybe "in the future" it will be like a 50 50 chance, because it takes time.

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I am a virgin and i just want to know is it weird when u first have sex. Like how does it happen. To me it just seems akward when your having sex because what are you doing during the sex and stuff??? confused..please help.

Well i just recently lost mine, but dont lose it to someone you dont care about or feel you dont trust. You usally get really turned on when your making out and kissing each others neck and body, and then when your boyfriend asks that question "wanna do it?" your heart will be the one to answer. Then it happens. You feel no shame of your body, and you'll feel comfortable but if you dont, then stop! because it isnt the right time to lose it. When i lost mine, my boyfrind went in slowly and it hurts more the deeper it goes in. Your grab on the blankets, and your head will go back, but it wont make you cry unless hes rough. Usally before sex, a man gets you really wet by eating you out or fingering you. and then you;ll feel ready

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why do i always fall in love with the emo/gothic guys, it doesnt matter who they are or what they look like, i mean he could be the ugliest and fattest guy in the world and i will still fall for him. can anyone tell me why im in lvoe wiht all the emo/gothic guys?!?

ohm y god me too, i used to fall for them all the time, its the same with white boys, they could be like the ugliest but i would still like them because there white, its just your specific taste and you dig the style. Its a kind of species you would love to be around, but its only temporary the feeling, i always wanted to marry and emo guy but its went away in about a year and a half, i still wouldn't mind, but if they are depressed people you'll just be like "get a life guys" hahaha hope that helped a bit

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but when i asked her if she read it she said yes
when i asked what she thought of it im not sure what it was she said like pttff and looked the other way then i said say something even if its stupid she smiled and laughed that was it she hardly says anything to me but says alot to every one else and one time i was talking to her and she acted or she did realy hit a door i kept going for a bit and looked back and smiled and waited for her then we walked out to the buses thats it

im so sorry, mother wouldnt let me on the computer, but well, if she said pfft its definelty not a good sighn, shes probably tryin to avoid you..thats what i do in school, but if your planing on talking to her, meet her at the locker, but make sure your not crowded by a bunch of people, simply tell her. " you know by now that i like you..and i was wondering if you could give me a chance..." but dont ask her if she likes you back, it will make her struggle to answer. When your around her, dont act shy, dont act tough, and dont act like a dork..simply act yourself, never call yourself ugly, becuase that is a no no, no girl wants a guy with no self esteem. But when you go up to her, dont crawl up to her, walk normal, try not to show that your nervous, and be like "hey whats up".look her straight in the eye, dont stutter, and dont sweat, some dude did that to me, and its totally embarrassing. but think of it this way..if you could do this, you know by going up to her, you'll be able todo it again and again, without shitting in your pants, and if she rejects you, dont show that your hurt or depressed. be like "okay whatever then" and smaoke a blunt hahaha just kidding, hope i gave you an idea

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ok i like this girl and i told her and i did ask her what she thought about me and now this year it seems she might like me like when we were talking all we did was not pay attention to anything else but ecother but now for some reason i feel like shit cause every one now knows i like her and they told her and she laughed with them and there not my friends so i was sorta mad not realy at her but atmyself should i talk to her tommrrow and see how it goes should i care that i might make her life harder like her friends hating her for likeing me if she does and stuff and thats why i leave her alone i dont want her to be hurt but tommorrow i should talk to should i not but id have to wait after school and wait for her or go up to her? and start it cause this year we have no classes together

alright sweety, this is a difficult moment, and i bet you get all knotted up just thinking about it. But first things first, look in the mirror, are u good looking, because if you dislike your features then its a no no with her. But if she knows that you like her, its possible that she tryin to make you die for her. But its possible she may like you back. But first of all, dont talk to her yet, i want to be able to help you out in this situation, i need to know what it is that she told you when you told her that you liked her, becuase her answer could help find out what it is that shes feeling. So please let me know as soon as possible because i dont want you to risk a harsh rejection. okay

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How do you make an ingrown toenail (toenail that fell off) grow back faster?

i hate ingrown toenails. my brothers nail fell off also, well all i can tell you, is push the cuticle down everyday, and it helps it grow faster

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okay, so i'm sure this sounds stupid, but i was wondering what other things i could call my boyfriend besides "baby" and "babe" and he doesn't like being called handsome
weird question, yes. but yea lol

thank you :]

Well you could used mine, i call my boyfriend, fluffer nugget, he calls me, caca head lol just kidding.sugar bunnie.sweetie. stuff like that

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Lately ive been sooo tired.
Ive been dieting,but thats never made me tired before.
Also,i havent been exercising as much since we moved and i havent had a gym membership.
I was recently put on a birth control pill as well,for hormone regulation.
I just don't know why im so lazy and tired,i used to be not lazy at all and NEVER tired.
Now its the opposite.
I need some help!

Well, you need to work out, at least 3 times a week, dosnt matter what type of workout, you could dance or whatever. Its keeps you going, and maybe you dont take in much sugar that your supposed to, since your dieting, remember sugar is turned into fuel and energy, so drink a red bull or a cup of coffee. BUt your laziness isnt a big problem. It just means your lacking in your sugar in take kay.

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Theres a dance coming up friday, and I as a dare asked Adam. I've liked Adam now for a couple months and everyone said we'd be cute together.. and that I should. I did, making sure he knew it was a dare, but I did really wanna go with him and he said yeahh. I was wickedd happy, and he went and ruined it. With a bunch of his friends he called me a bus. The SAME day! I was wickedd sad for the rest of the day, and like two days after like on brink of crying.. which I did. He said he was sorry like 20 times, which he always does! I told him I wasn't going to the dance with him, and now everyones like NOO NOO you should!!!
And now a week later were all okay, im flirting he is too.. I can tell lol easily.
But he's two faced like today i had my period and bled threw, and Sasha brought up the pants switch right infront of him.. and I was like what the hell and told her off and Adam was like dont worry I like these pants more on you =D...
Should I see if he's still going to the dance? Or forget about it because he's sorta two-faced but not really, really bad.
Anythings good.
thankxx
i've heard a couple times for you guys, he's a jerk.. sooo

Well then if hes a jerk then don't go to the dance with him, but tats only unless you got someone else in mind. But i just say go the dance with him. It isn't a big deal, just take pictures together and then your off, you can go dace with your friends while he goes dancing with his. But if you feel uncomfortable about your decision then don't go to the dance with him. But he dosnt sound much of a bad guy.

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what do they use?
in terms of color.
[eg. black mascara, etc.]

Well im a make up artist myslef, and what they use, is balck masscara, grey eye shadow, actually depending on what they wear, and rose blush, and nude lipstick for a natural look since their still teens

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