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Question Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 10:58 pm
Okay so I like this guy "H" and we're not all that close but we talk and are partly in the same social group . So , I smoke and he thinks it's gross . so I'm quiting . Anyways , he's been going about saying smoking kills everytime he sees me ... so I slap him on the shoulder playfully and say shushhh ! and smile and then he smiles and we talk . And today my friend "S" asked me to come to his vollyball game and H is on the team so he was practicing and he walked by and looked at me and smiled and I smiled , and it was EXACTLY like the slow motion moments in the movies !Plus I think H is just saying this to get me to talk to him .
Although , I asked him out like 1 and 1/2 months ago and he said "No , I'm sorry , I'm 13 and I don't need a girlfriend I'm fine by myself"
So ... I don't really see us going anywhere ... but if he liked me enough he might want to try it out [hes never had a girlfriend before]
So basiclly I'm just confused !
Answers by morning or the 30th would be highly apreciated and rated accordingly ! =]
I just need to know !
Oh yes , I also think S likes me ? but he flirts with EVERYONE ! so I dunno but he asked me to his vollyball games everytime and wants to walk me home just to get me to come . Plus he's really sweet to me . But he's like that with a lot of people ?
So I'm thinking because I'm usually one of the guys and easy to talk to , I might just be aprochable ?
Give me some opinions ?
PLEASE ?!?!
I AM DESPRATE !
thnxxxxx !
I will rate if you give good advice !
xoxo
Additional info, added Thursday November 29 2007, 10:59 pm: oh yes and if it helps I'm 13 feemale !
please no lectures on the whole smoking thing , I know it's bad thats why I've stopped ! =]
thanks !
xoxo. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kiran answered Friday November 30 2007, 9:07 pm: First S, Do you think he likes you? Well I can't really tell you if he does. He may like you you might be approachable and easy to talk to and he may be a big flirt. So you never know, everyone is different.
As for H, you should talk to him more and be nice to him. He might like you too so you can have a chance with him. Only he likes you and wants to be with you. 13 is a young age to have a relationship (I am 13 too) so he might think that it is but just talk to him and if the subject comes up then ask him about it. I hope everything goes well for you! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
VixenLuna answered Friday November 30 2007, 11:04 am: well this is a difficult situation, first of all, do you think your friend S likes you, you should try talking to him, but if he dosnt interest you, then go up to H when hes by himself, just ask, why is it that you don't want a girlfriend, and if he thinks your cute, its possible that he is the stage where he feels that right now isnt the rite time to have a gf, and i believe its true, 13 is kinda young, wait till your 14 at least. haha not much of a difference but thats when the "wanting of a relationship" hormone starts, understand me? but then just talk to him, tell him how you feel, like you like him, you think hes really talented and nice. and that our interested, and if he says, we'll see or maybe "in the future" it will be like a 50 50 chance, because it takes time. [ VixenLuna's advice column | Ask VixenLuna A Question ]
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