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i have like a muffin top kind of stomach.. but only in the front, i dont have big love handles but i do crunches every night and whenever i do them, i only feel the burn on the upper part of my stomach, and i want to lose the fat on my lower stomach. so do you guys think that it only will help my upper stomach or will it also work for my lower stomach? what are some other excersises i could do to make my stomach smaller? htanks

join a gym and get personal trainer sessions. that's what i do and it helps so much. seriously haha you loose so much weight it's amazing.

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My bf is 15 and his penis is about 5.5 inches long is that about average? hes a bit nervous about it and when he gets an erection it gets bent is this normal?

yeah that's normal, it if bends a little thats fine, but if it bends a lot then you'll have a problem with intercorse, if that's what your interested in.

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My mom constantly thinks I'm doing something wrong, but she used to buy me and my friends beer and stuff and even tried to get me more drunk than I already was once. I will admit I'm not perfect, but the worst thing I've done is smoke (cigarettes) and then drink with her permission. But now she asked me if I was sniffing WD-40! I dont think thats even possible! And she always thinks im lying. What do I do?

my mom does the same thing to me.she asked me if im in a gang the other day.she knows that ive drank and smoke,but theres really nothing she can do.buit the thing i did wrong was when she asked me for the hundreth time if i smoked weed,i flipped on her.which made me look COMPLETLY guilty.
anyways,if you only did that stuff around her,you should really tell her that,and if you ONLY got into it because of her,then she should KNOW that shes the one that got you into that stuff,i mean im not trying to judge her,but i know some parents that say "oh i want you to drink only around me"i mean thats cool and all but if she wants you to get drunk!?
some parents i know get their kids really drunk the first time they drink so they realize not to drink so much.
well im hoping shes letting you drink so you can expiernce it in a controlled way?
but yeah.just tell her "no mom im not doing things like that" AND DONT FLIP OUT ON HER!!!!hope i could help =]

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ok so my friends having this problem with her bf and here is her question.........



ok so theres this guy who asked me out, and i just couldnt say no because hes like really really sweet and he did it in person, not through a friend...but the problem is that i dont like him...only as a friend, so now i have a bf that i dont like and the guy i really do like just now started to talk to me and flirt with me...so the problem is that i dont know what to do about my bf...like how to tell him that i only like him as a friend, but i really dont want to hurt his feelings, cuz i know he'll be totally heartbroken...what do i do???????

sorry that was kinda long lol

the same EXACT thing happened to me this summer.i liked this guy that was his cousin though.and he liked me but he told his cousin to ask me out even though he liekd me.so when he aksed me out i felt bad.and blah blah blah.but i ended up dumping him and he was actually really cool about it.i was just like "oh ya know i never see you and i think wed be soo mcuh better as friends" and he agreed.and if he flips out,then he obviously would be a terrible boyfriend for you.it all depends how he reacts when you do it.if he flips,its not right,but if he understands,then you guys should just stay friends.hope it goes as good for you as it was for me!

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I am a 15 year old high school student and I was just wondering what are some good conversation starters. I feel as though I lack alot in this area. I really just would like to know like what i can do to make more freinds.

Well i'm really really realllly outgoing and have lots of friends so i think i'll be good to answer this question. there aren't specific question you should ask, just don't be shy. to start a conversation you can complement someone on their clothes or hair or something, and then just go from there. i call that an ice breaker, cuz it's a conversation starter. if there's someone you have in mind that you want to be friends with, start a conversation about something you know they like so they'll want to talk about it. Like if someones into sports start talking about how the red sox just won the world serious. if someone's into fashion start talking about your favorite stores, stuff like that. don't be one of those girls who stands in the corner not talking, because the sexiest thing about a woman is confidence:] Hope I helped!

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15/f

i really like this guy, his name's brett, and he's a total sweetheart, he always smiles at me, waves at me, and we've hugged a few times. however, it seems like we talk less and less each day. i honestly do want to be with him, but he's a major flirt and i know that he wouldn't be able to stick with a relationship because hes not a one woman man. but who am i to say? i really want to hang out with him, and i don't want to be the one to make all of the moves because i don't want to come off as desperate. he's definitely not shy.. he's athletic, cute, smart, sweet, and funny. our lockers are right next to each other and we always talk no matter what.

help me out please. :] thanks inadvance.

My ex-boyfriend was like that, but we ended up being together for 3 months. You just have to be the girl that he wants to change for, like you have to make him not wanna look at other girls. Flirt with him a lot, and try to talk about things that you know he's into, cuz then he'll think you have stuff in common and guys like that. Basically it's a competition with you and other girls in your school, so just catch his eye, without being a complete slut, cuz then he'll get the wrong idea.

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Ok, i know this is a pretty stupid question but what does douschbag actually mean? i know its bad and stuff but i dont know what it actually means. thanks so much and i will rate you for answering my random question! haha :D

PS sry if its misspelled haha :P

it's actually something you use to clean your vagina with. but people call eachother it just for a random insult haha. Hope I helped!

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15/f

Ok well,
should i shave my pubes?
ok well idk i have once or twice but i find it hard to keep doing it because the skin gets irritated and its not the easiest task in the world. is there anything i can do to make it not get irritated?

If you're sexually active then you most definitly should. Guys hate pubes. If shaving doesn't mork for you you should get nair, a bunch of my friends use that and it works amazingly, doesn't leave it red like shaving does. Hope I helped!

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what does it mean when a guy "busts"?

when he ejaculates.

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this is a myspace question.
i know when you want a heart, you type in "alt" then "3" but is there any way to get an apple using this same system?
i know this is a random question, but i do need to know. thanks in advance. :]

To make a heart, i use & hearts ; and a spade is & spades ; (i put spaces so they wouldn't turn into the symbols, so just delete the spaces to make them work) so maybe you can do it with other symbols. give it a try! if not you can copy and paste a symbol into your headline like i've done in the past. Hope I helped!

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I love my boyfriend, and when he gets released, we are goin to get back together, but in those 2 years that he is gone is it bad if i meet someone at the time???cuz im not gonna want to be lonley the whole time and ive been crying like crazy that there taking him away. But do you think its bad that i get a new boyfriend in the meantime?

You should talk to your current boyfriend about it before you try to meet someone. What if you meet someone and start to like them a lot and want to turn it into something serious? You could really end up loving the person you meet and then your boyfriend would come home from juvy and you wouldn't know what to do. So I would talk to him about it and think about what you would do if that situation presented itself. Sorry that wasn't much help, that's a tough question.

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All of the sudden i have been getting dizzy! Last night i woke up really dizzy and naucious then it went away after a couple hours and i went back to bed but throughout today i will suddenly just get kinda dizzy and my head will spin and i have to steady myself. not like im gonna fall over or anything but i will just have to refocus. This has never happened before and i didnt chage anything to make it possibly happen so does anyone knoe why this might be happening or how to help me??? Thanks SO much! I will rate all helpful posts! :)

You might just be getting sick and if that's the case then you should just give it one or two days to start to fade. But if it doesn't then the dizziness could be from stress. You said it makes you refocus, and stress often makes it hard to focus and makes you dizzy a lot of the time. I get dizzy from stress all the time, and I just sit down and try to focus on one thing to channel my thoughts. If it really doens't go away then i reccomend going to see a doctor so it doesn't get too serious. Hope I helped!

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I have been married for 5 years, and for the past 10 months have been having an affair with a man from work. I love my husband, but I know that if I tell him the truth, we will be over. My husband is very good to me. The affair is now over. I have been feeling guilty and depressed, and I don't know if I should tell my husband. I also think there is a possibility that I might do this again, and I can't explain why. What should I do? Tell him, and try to move on, or move on myself, and try to spare our relationship?

If you truely love your husband, you will tell him the truth because that's what he deserves. Put yourself in his shoes, wouldn't you want to know the truth about what your partner is doing? Whether or not you will stay together i cannot say, but I know lots of people who have cheated on their partner and worked through it. If you've been married 5 years then maybe you can work past it. But you really need to tell him, you won't feel as guilty and you'll feel better knowing you did the right thing.

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