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how to take it further
15/f
i really like this guy, his name's brett, and he's a total sweetheart, he always smiles at me, waves at me, and we've hugged a few times. however, it seems like we talk less and less each day. i honestly do want to be with him, but he's a major flirt and i know that he wouldn't be able to stick with a relationship because hes not a one woman man. but who am i to say? i really want to hang out with him, and i don't want to be the one to make all of the moves because i don't want to come off as desperate. he's definitely not shy.. he's athletic, cute, smart, sweet, and funny. our lockers are right next to each other and we always talk no matter what.
help me out please. :] thanks inadvance.
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Usually its better when you play hard to get. I dont mean act like you dont know him, just dont be to strong with the situation. If he says hi, say hi, if he talks then talk back, but dont bother to much, a guy likes when a girls not interested like that, it makes them more interested in the girl.
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Just some tips here: Since you don't want to make all the moves, I suggest only subtle flirting, rather than advanced. That way you can see if he plays along with it, and he may make more moves toward you.
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My ex-boyfriend was like that, but we ended up being together for 3 months. You just have to be the girl that he wants to change for, like you have to make him not wanna look at other girls. Flirt with him a lot, and try to talk about things that you know he's into, cuz then he'll think you have stuff in common and guys like that. Basically it's a competition with you and other girls in your school, so just catch his eye, without being a complete slut, cuz then he'll get the wrong idea.
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