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is he not into me ? =[[
I met this guy at my dads friends party. i liked him ever sense i saw him he was soo cute but i didnt REALLY like him till he was talking to my dads friends son and i saw his personality, a bit. then we started talking and i liked him RIGHT away. soon he had to leave but i asked for his number and he asked for mine. soo long story short whenever i talked to him from then it allways made me soo happy and in such a good mood he would waste his time talking to me. but you know i was allways cool about it i never called him to much or text him to much just like once in three days or whatevr cause i didnt want to get annoying. but i felt annoying when he didnt talk to me for a long while. so i decided to lay off about a week l8tr without talking to him i felt so bad i accualy screwed it up with this guy [i was THAT insucure]and accualy cried overnight. worst night ever over me not even talking to him! then i called him mad i thought i DONT deserve this! im gonna call him and figger out what the heck is going on cause he never calls me back, imagine that he didnt pick up. the next day though he texted me, and we talked and i was happy. the day after that i called and we talked. then stopped till i texted him a few days l8tr. now a few daays ago i talked to him and as allways i felt great talking to him, we talked about everything, and his friend was there too and he accualy flirted with me then . ALOT. he would tell me i was hott and whatnot and that he wanted to see me, stuff like that . i asked him why he hasnt returned my calls. his friend yelled out CAUSE HES LAZY! and he laughed on that. afew days later called again, you get the picture. i feel it keeps going over and over he have a GREAT time talking then he dissapears on me. he gets me all happy but know later i will get in a bad mood feeling i did somthing wrong cause he never returns texts. i dont know, is he just not into me or not much of a talker or what ? i like him soo much and think of him every day. he seems into me on the phone but after that nothing. but hey if he says hell call me that night in a few he will that must count for somthing. please advice !
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My ex-boyfriend was exactly the same way. If I could go back in time i would change it but i cant. Ther is still time for you to save this relationship. Heres wut you need to do. Call him (do not text) and tell him wut you told me. Ask him why he doesnt talk to you or reply to you or wutever. Tell him you like him a lot and it hurts you. Tell him all of your feelings about the subject. If he says idont know or something bad like that then you need to let him go.
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Guys are weird like this. He might really like you but he might not want to seem desperate and continuously call you like you want him to. It doesn't seem like he's not that much of a talker cause you said you've had really good conversations with him. I'd plan more dates with him. Talk to him more in person. It might make him feel a little more comfortable on the phone. And let him know that you like to talk to him on the phone. If he likes you and knows that you like his phone calls then he should call more.
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Sounds like we have a wishy-washy one here!
I have been in this situation before, and it didn't work out. He eventually got to where he never called, wouldn't return any phone calls, etc. I think this guy may do the same thing to you. So I'd be careful about this one.
In my case, and I believe it's the same in yours, this guy really did like me. But there was just something there that didn't want a relationship. The thing with my guy, he always flirted with other girls all the time and wanted his cake and to eat it too. Probably not the same with the guy you like, but I think there's something that's holding him back.
I really wouldn't recommend you wasting your time trying to find it out, because I'm afraid that's all you'll be doing. Basically, if you wanna talk to him still -- that would be ok. I wouldn't recommend trying to be anything other than friends though, I think he'll only break your heart. Try not to focus all of your time on him either.
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Dont bother textin him...if he likes you let him come to you. Guys are weird. they like a chase, and if you text him or call him more then he does to you hes not going to want to talk to you. Just go with it. If he calls you then talk, and if he doesnt that means he doesnt want anything between use. I know that it makes you happy to talk on the phone, but is it worth it to be down when use talk and then he doesnt call, just to be happy one night?
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Awww !
Maybe he's just not much of a talker or maybe he just likes you as a friend and maybe he is really lazy ? i reckon you should tell him you like him or maybe he does like you but he's just to embarrassed to call or text i dont know but i reckon you should tell him it might change a few things.
Let me know how it goes.
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Chances are, he just really isn't into using his phone. I am the same way. Even though I can REALLY like a guy, if he calls or texts me, 90% of the time I never get back to them because I am just not a phone person. Next time you talk to him, see if you can get a screen name for an online messenger or maybe an email address if you haven't already got them. Since his friend called him out on being lazy about answering his phone, chances are he ignores his friends phone calls/tests just the same.
It seems like he likes you from the way you describe your interactions, so just try to play it cool and not overthink things when he doesn't return calls/texts. If there's one thing that people should learn it's to not "smother" someone they are interested in. If you call too much, he might get the impression that you're clingy. Big turn off if you're a boy or a girl.
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