Heyy, I just want to let everyone know im real and so is my advice. this is a good start for me, since this is what I want to do...Feel free to ask me questions, and even if it hurts ill tell you the truth...xoxo
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Ive seen him in school. His name is Christian. I dont have him in any of my classes, except SAI which i only have every 3 weeks. We talk on myspace alot. He told me to talk to him FACE TO FACE at school. Is it still to early to tell???? (link)
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If he tells you to talk to him face to face, then do it. You will never know until you actually talk to him in person.
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I really really like this guy. I thought he liked me too, but just recently he got a new gf... How do you go after someone who has a gf? do you just wait to see how their relationship goes, move on... what? please help (link)
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All you can do right now is flirt, hell see the signs and if he likes you then hell flirt back...and from there maybe use can be in a relationship, instead of the girl hes with now
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I feel really embarrassed, he was drunk so his friends took advantage and dared him to ask me out and I said no at first, but said yes in the end.
I'm not upset or anything, actually I'm kind of relieved I ended up regretting say yes but I don't think I've ever been this embarrassed in my life. And I've had A LOT of embarrassing moments.
What the worst part is though, he was like to me "I didn't actually remember, my friend mentioned it to me just then...he thought I should know in case you...well you know."
And now everyone keeps asking me how me and him are going, and all this crap.
So, my question is: How can I help overcome this embarrassment? And how do I tell everyone he asked me out as a joke? I mean, this just makes things ten times more embarrassing... (link)
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all I can really say is laugh about it, joke about it, and if your friends with him, mess with him about the situation. The only way you can overcome people joking, is to joke around with them.
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ok, I have a b/f. He treats me pretty good and stuff but he get so mad about most the stuff i do and acts like he never does it, although he does. we argue alot and truthfully he's not exactly the cutest guy ever. But this guy that went to my school last year and i liked him and he liked me but we never got together, started back at our school. we talk alot now and he really likes me and he's cute and sweet and funny and can always make me smile some way and i'm starting to really like him. all of my freinds think i should leave my b/f for him but i kinda dont want to but i'm scared that if i don't something will happen and i will never get another chance to be with him. HELP PLEASE!!! (link)
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First of all, if you and your boyfriend argue alot then you shouldnt be with him anyway. I know sometimes its healthy to get in a few fights but not if its all the time. Second of I think you should take the chance. If you and the other kid dont work out, its better that your single then being with the one your with now. you dont need someone always gettin mad at you, because it will only break you down mentally, and who knows what that can lead to. Listen to your friends, and if anything happens, you know theyll be there.
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I have been married for 5 years, and for the past 10 months have been having an affair with a man from work. I love my husband, but I know that if I tell him the truth, we will be over. My husband is very good to me. The affair is now over. I have been feeling guilty and depressed, and I don't know if I should tell my husband. I also think there is a possibility that I might do this again, and I can't explain why. What should I do? Tell him, and try to move on, or move on myself, and try to spare our relationship? (link)
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Obviously you do not care about your husband like you say you do. I think you need to tell him the truth before it happens again. You hurt him enough and I think its better if you both move on from each other, and if he does forgive you, which would be a miracle, it would never be the same again between you two.
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i seem to be stressing alot lately. so much that its making me physically sick. any good ideas for getting rid of stress? thanks =) (link)
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What i do when im stressed, or with any other unwanted emotions, is write. Poetry always works. im not saying you have to rhyme or anything like that, just write down anything that comes to mind, and soon youll feel relieved.
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i really like this guy, his name's brett, and he's a total sweetheart, he always smiles at me, waves at me, and we've hugged a few times. however, it seems like we talk less and less each day. i honestly do want to be with him, but he's a major flirt and i know that he wouldn't be able to stick with a relationship because hes not a one woman man. but who am i to say? i really want to hang out with him, and i don't want to be the one to make all of the moves because i don't want to come off as desperate. he's definitely not shy.. he's athletic, cute, smart, sweet, and funny. our lockers are right next to each other and we always talk no matter what.
help me out please. :] thanks inadvance. (link)
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Usually its better when you play hard to get. I dont mean act like you dont know him, just dont be to strong with the situation. If he says hi, say hi, if he talks then talk back, but dont bother to much, a guy likes when a girls not interested like that, it makes them more interested in the girl.
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I met this guy at my dads friends party. i liked him ever sense i saw him he was soo cute but i didnt REALLY like him till he was talking to my dads friends son and i saw his personality, a bit. then we started talking and i liked him RIGHT away. soon he had to leave but i asked for his number and he asked for mine. soo long story short whenever i talked to him from then it allways made me soo happy and in such a good mood he would waste his time talking to me. but you know i was allways cool about it i never called him to much or text him to much just like once in three days or whatevr cause i didnt want to get annoying. but i felt annoying when he didnt talk to me for a long while. so i decided to lay off about a week l8tr without talking to him i felt so bad i accualy screwed it up with this guy [i was THAT insucure]and accualy cried overnight. worst night ever over me not even talking to him! then i called him mad i thought i DONT deserve this! im gonna call him and figger out what the heck is going on cause he never calls me back, imagine that he didnt pick up. the next day though he texted me, and we talked and i was happy. the day after that i called and we talked. then stopped till i texted him a few days l8tr. now a few daays ago i talked to him and as allways i felt great talking to him, we talked about everything, and his friend was there too and he accualy flirted with me then . ALOT. he would tell me i was hott and whatnot and that he wanted to see me, stuff like that . i asked him why he hasnt returned my calls. his friend yelled out CAUSE HES LAZY! and he laughed on that. afew days later called again, you get the picture. i feel it keeps going over and over he have a GREAT time talking then he dissapears on me. he gets me all happy but know later i will get in a bad mood feeling i did somthing wrong cause he never returns texts. i dont know, is he just not into me or not much of a talker or what ? i like him soo much and think of him every day. he seems into me on the phone but after that nothing. but hey if he says hell call me that night in a few he will that must count for somthing. please advice !
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Dont bother textin him...if he likes you let him come to you. Guys are weird. they like a chase, and if you text him or call him more then he does to you hes not going to want to talk to you. Just go with it. If he calls you then talk, and if he doesnt that means he doesnt want anything between use. I know that it makes you happy to talk on the phone, but is it worth it to be down when use talk and then he doesnt call, just to be happy one night?
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ok i need help, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 months now and we were friends for a year, hes perfect and he treats me very very well.and we both love each other very much also.but 4 years ago i feel in love with a guy and we were planing on dating and things didn't happen that well because my best friend at the time made up lies about me which he believed and later ended up dating her.now that he knows the truth he wants to come back to me and start dating me but i cant because i love my man and i wouldn't hurt or leave him.. but on the other hand i want pay back and i want to see what it would have felt like if i was his girlfriend because i still have small feeling for him... can anyone plz help me out .. plz (link)
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Dont give in to your ex. He should have never listened to ur "bestfriend". If your going out with someone, you should believe the person you "love" before anyone else. He obviously didnt care about you that much if he broke up with you over a rumor. Keep your boyfriend because if you go back with your ex, hes probably going to hurt you again. Plus he went out with your "best friend" hes so0o not worth it, that was really low of him to do that!
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okay.
well there this really sweet guy whos kinda shy, whos 18 and totally hot.
but he blazes,
and i dont really know what he expects of girls to do with him when they're together, or even just chillen.
so i asked him if hes just looking to fool around with girls or a gf, and he said neither really im just single,
now what does that mean ?
and, he always txts me saying babe and cutie and stuff :)
so idk what to do.
i dont want to come on too strong,
but i want to know lmao.
all my friends say i can get whoever i want,
but idk ! :P (link)
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There are alot of boys like this. First off, if he says cute things to you on text, but doesnt do the same in person, either he like playing games, or hes just scared. Go with the flow for now, just hang out, talk, you dont have to try to impress him, or kiss him. If he still doesnt do anything then hes just messin with ur feelings and you dont want him anyway.
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I want to be a fashion model. I'm like 15, not anorexic or bulimic, not size 0, and have kinda weird shaped body. Like small boobs, narrow hips, small framed, kind of short torso, long legs, very pale, robin's egg blue eyes, light hair, large feet, long delicate hands and arms, and like a little indent right above my lady parts. Like size 4. My ears stick out a little bit, I have a sharp nose that people call "perfect", oval face, thin lips, huge eyes, medium length neck. Long hair, kind of physically weak. Are those good qualifications do you think? I was thinking like one of those British designers who hire those unique-looking models since I'm not the model stereotype, more like 1700s French lady stereotype, y'know? So what do you guys think? (link)
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To be honest, you have pretty much every quality of a model. If you watch Americas next top model, really look at the girls. Most of them are very unique, and some of them even win. They like the long legs and alot of models even have small boobs. Dont be insecure because in the fashion world they love "unique."
Give it a shot...
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my boyfriend has been saying i love you for a couple of months now. i do say it online but not in person or over the phone yet. he understands i'm waiting for the right moment. [btw, i'm speaking from a 9 month relationship]
it's just i don't know what's wrong with me. i can feel it, but the words don't come out. i love you is like saying sorry. by the age 7 or 8, i never spoke of those words [to parents or friends]... maybe because i was embarrassed or i dont know. i want to say it but i'm afraid i'll freeze up. i'm naturally quiet, close to a mute anyway. so maybe it's the anxiety or the experience/reaction of his that's scaring me. i felt forced to say it [over the phone] in another relationship.. but this one.. i told them how i felt about it and i can wait comfortably. i think i'm strange.. it took me so long.. by the age 14.. i could finally apologize to friends.. and maybe around 16, i would go and say i love blahblah [a close friend]. but in a relationship.. it's.. a lot different. what's wrong with me? there has been times i've wanted to say it but.. it just won't come out. i freeze up and get shy. (link)
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You cannot force yourself to say I love you to someone... It will come out when its the right time. Plus if your boyfriend really did love you, he would not break up with you because you cant say it. Just give it some time, and eventually when your hearts ready to open up, you will say it, and at that time it will mean alot.
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