Hello everyone!
So I have always given advice to my friends and to anyone else who needs it. I realized that I do a pretty good job at giving advice to people. I have been through a lot of different things in my life (like most people) so I have learned a lot from my experiences. I give advice to people by being a middle person. If you have a question about a realtionship, I try to take a midde approach and I do not take sides (which I think is the best kind). I would love to help you with any questions you may have and if I don't know the answer or what advice to tell you, I will let you know. Don't be afraid to ask, I am here to help! :) :)
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Age: 21
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Well I just started in an education program and I will be with the exact same group of students for the next year and a half. One of the girls has invited me to her wedding social. This is a dance where they have a silent auction, food, family, and it is prior to the wedding by a few months. It is on a Saturday night. A lot of people in my class (a class of about 35) are going. I already bought two tickets to show my support. Well my parents are having a dinner on sunday afternoon, and they really want me to come out for the weekend. I have not been home since the end of august. I didnt go home for thanksgiving either because my boyfriend and I went to his parents' for thanksgiving. I also have 4 younger sisters who will be there, 3 of which I rarely see. My older sister and her 3 month old baby might also be there. I'm not sure why they decided to have a dinner (a big turkey thankgsgiving stlye dinner) but they are. when I told my mom about the social-she asked how well I knew the girl. Well, I dont know her as well as another girl in the class knows her. What should I do? Is it social suicide to not go to the social or am I overanalyzing things? (link)
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I do not believe that it is social suicide to not go to the social event. The reason why you would not be attending is a good reason, you are going home to see family. I say that family is always a good excuse to miss out on something. I would try not to worry about what others will think of you. From the sounds of it, you would really like to go home and see your family; so do it! If the people going to the social understand why you are not able to make it, then they would be good friends to have. If people do not understand then they do not sound like they would be good friends to have, family seems to be very important to you, so don't sacrafice family time for a social event. I hope I have been able to help! Good luck! :)
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i want to give my boyfriend reallly good oral sex. does anyone have any tips or tecneiqcs? answers asap!!
thank you =] (link)
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To be honest, sometimes it depends on the guy. Some guys like it harder than others and certain ways; you just got to try and see what he likes (the best way to find out how to give really good oral sex, is by asking him how he likes it). A technique you could use is: suck as if you were sucking on a lolly pop (really) and then you could either suck harder or softer (depending on the guy). Some guys like it when you suck and use your hand. Little advice, be careful with the teeth. After practice you will know what you are doing. I hope this helps! Good luck! :)
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Ok, 13/f
I'm getting my belly button peirced next thursday with my friend for her birthday. I was wondering what the price range is..
Also.. What did it feel like from those who got it done because I'm kind of nervous. And it it true that they make you get a hoop when you get it done?
Thanks! :) (link)
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When I got my belly button pierced it was around $40. When you get it pierced they do put in a hoop. Where I got mine pierced, you had to have a hoop (my friends that got theirs done, it was the same). You want to have a hoop, because you are going to need to move it around to keep the hole open. For me, I had to have a hoop in mine for about a year (same for my friends) it wasn't that bad, before I knew it, the year had passed. It all depends on your pain tolerance, when you get it done. My sister fainted but I did not. For me, it was a horrible pain, but it went really fast. I don't want to scare you about the pain, but like I said it goes by really fast. I hope I was able to help. Good luck! I've had mine for about 5 years and still love it! :)
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ok, i have a bf. but he dont talk at all to me. we have lots of things in common, but when i flirt with him, he dont flirt back. than another guy comes along... we were just friends until i started flirting with him instead of my bf. then i guess he fell in love with me, but he has a gf. he said that if i didnt have a bf, then he would have asked me out. i love him more than my pitty bf!! he is like my superman... what the heck should i do here? i feel as if i am on a verry small island... should i break up with my bf and ask if my superman would go out with me instead of his current gf, or do i just sit on this island and wait and never be rescued from this love curse? !!S.O.S!! (link)
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You need to decide if you want to be with your boyfriend or not. If you want to be with the other man, your "superman" then you need to break up with your current boyfriend. It is not fair to him if you are flirting with another guy when you are with him. If you do decide to break up with your boyfriend and be with your "superman" then you need to make sure that he is no longer with his girlfriend. If you are calling your current b/f "pitty" then it sounds like you shouldn't be with him anymore. That is not fair to him. Whatever you do, do not cheat on your b/f and do not be the "other women" with your "superman". I hope I have been able to give you some guidence. Good luck! :)
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I just recently told my guy friend (who is now my boyfriend) that I have feelings for him. So, we decided to be together and there's a huge problem.
This all happened at worse time. He joined the Marines and will be leaving shortly after Thanksgiving. So everything happened pretty darn late. The thing is that I'm not sure if I want to be a military girlfriend or wife. I'm great at doing long distance, but I'm not sure if I'll be great at this. We are both 17 and I just feel so young for this. But I admit my feelings are very strong for him.
I would never convince someone not to follow their dreams, so that's way out. I guess what I'm asking is what to expect when your boyfriend is gone for so long?
Any advice or stories would help. (link)
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Long distance relationships are hard. I believe that they work but there is a lot of commitment that is involved. My friend is "dating" a marine and it is hard being in a relationship with someone that is in the military (especially if you do not live where he will be stationed). It will be hard, but if your love is strong enough then you both will be able to get through it. When it comes to the marines you will be fighting for his attention with the military. In other words, when someone joins the marines, it is like they are marrying the marines. The marines tell them when and where to go and what to do when they get there. Sometimes he will have to do something and may not be able to call you to let you know. I know with my friend she is having a hard time with her "boyfriend" being in the marines. Her mind starts to play tricks on her because she does not hear from him in days or sometimes a week. I also had a friend that is married to a man in the military and pretty much she just tried to stay busy (so she did not think of him) and tried to talk to him every chance she got. If your love is ment to be, then you guys will be together, whether it be now or after the marines. I wish you luck. I hope I have help. :)
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me and my Bf has like 4 years thogether ,From the first time I did sex I really didn't like it at all but I just did it because off him
But now is extra boring and I really never want to do it ,...he asked me what was going on and I couldn't answer him
It's not that I don't love him anymore ,but I don't want to have sex
I even sometimes cry because I don't want to do it and if I do it and did want to ,...I ussualy cry afterwards in the bathroom
Is this normal ?
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First off (as the person before said) you should never be pressured into sex. Sex may not be boring for you, you may have a little libido and that is why you do not find yourself wanting to have sex. It also may be that you are just not comfortable doing it with the person you are having that relationship with. Sometimes people that are not comfortable with sex at all have had a tramatizing experience sexual with someone. I am not saying that these are your problems, I am just listing different reasons why some people do not want to have sex. I definetly think that if you are crying because you do not want to have sex or even after you have sex; then you must stop until you understand why you have those feelings. I hope I have helped. Good luck! :)
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What's the average weight for a 5"5 model? (link)
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I would say that it depends on what type of model you want to be. You can try and look at websites or ask experts that know what model agencies look for. Again it depends on the type of modeling. There is runway, magazine, advertising, etc... If you are looking to be a model, look at what type of model you would like to be and then find out what agencies look for in physical apperance and personality to see if you fit the description. I hope this helps, good luck! :)
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I had freshlook colored contacts: brown color. And everytime i put them in my eyes, they burned. Is it because my pupil was to big for the lense at the time or is it not just that? What would you recommend best, acuvue colours or freshlook? Because im running out of my contacts and i would like the reg. contacts like acuvue oasis and colored contacts. What work better for you? (link)
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I use acuvu oasis and they are great. If they are burning then you probably want to take them out and clean them again. If my contact burns with I put them in, then usually it is because there was dirt or something on them. Hope this helps! :)
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I love a man (never married, not long realtionship) and he is the father of my child he pays child support but has seen the child only ten times in two years, what should I do? i want to let it go(child support)and move on. give me some advice. (link)
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My mother raised my brother and I without my father. She did a great job, but my father never paid child support. If you want to move on, then that is fine, raising a child is hard and it expensive. I think if you do not need the child support then, I agree with the other person's advice when they said to put the money into a fund for the child (that is a great idea)! If the father of the child is offering the money, then I would definetly take him up on it. There are too many children that grow up without the help of their fathers. I hope my advice helps. Good luck!
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This is really confusing. End of September i started my birth control. The week of the last pills(the iron pills) i was spotting a bit for 2-3 days (thats how long i usually get my period) , so i figured i had my period and started the new pack the following sunday. that wednesday i started bleeding (the 24th of october) and i ams till bleeding today (november 4th) i am confused because i dont know if this is my period, i should have it, i should actually be getting it this week. i called my doctor and she said my body wll take 3 mnths to get used to it. but i am confused, do i continue to take the iron pills even if i do not have my period? help! (link)
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When you first start the pill your body is still getting use to them so there may be normal spotting (like your doctor was saying). Take all the pills; when you miss the last pills of the pack (depending on the pills) it sometimes causes spotting. Just take the pills in order every day (if you have to take a pill every day) once that pack is finished then start the new pack. Your period may start to change to a different day because of the pills. I have been on birth control for about 5 years now but I am not a doctor. I hope this helps!
*I would just say, always take your pills.
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ok well im normally the one that trys to answer questions but now its me doin the asking im in need of great help.
im so scared.
basicly im on the pop..mini pill i can only take it 2 hours late..an if i take it late im not protected for 2 to 3 days i think.
i basicly went out an i didnt take my pill untill like 2 hours late an that night i had sex with my boyfriend. this was wednesday its now sunday and i have been gettin rele bad cramps for the last 2 days an been feeelin rele sick in the mornings
i jus started loosin blood. but its not my period im not due...i dunno cud i have Implanation bleeding or like cud i be pregnant im worried please any help wud be much appriciated.
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I had a friend that went throught this just recently. Sometimes you can have spotting if you do not take your pill on time. It does not necessarily mean that you are pregnant. I would say to go buy an over-the-counter pregnancy test, it will be you at ease, because it is either you are preg or are not. My friend ended up not being pregnant (she was just spotting) so the same may be for you. Again, I would go get an at home test at Walgreens or someplace. Good luck!
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Anyone know good ways to releave stress? (link)
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There are so many ways to releave stress. Depends on what you like...a hot bath, exercising, cooking, releaving yourself (if you know what I mean) etc...it depends on what you are into.
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so theres this guy that i like, but he has a girlfriend. well, we talk everynight and he tells me how he wants me and how he doesn't like the other girl. well , we have talked a lot about doing stuff with each other. so i just wanted to get an honest opinion on what people feel about this .. and he says he would date me if he wasn't taken so what are some ways i can step up my game a little ?? thankss. (link)
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First things first, if you are going to do something with this guy then he needs to break up with his girlfriend. If he does not like the other girl then why is he still with her? You do not want to be the "other girl". If the guy really wants to be with you then he would have broken up with his girlfriend. Do not step up your game until he is single.
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My friend has survived a ruptured brain aneurysm before when she was younger. Yesterday she was supposed to come over but I kept calling her and she never picked up. Her sister left me a voice message today to call her. When I called her sister picked up. She told me that my friend had passed out so they took her to the hospital and they preformed surgery on her. She can't breathe on her own right now, she is unconscious. I think she said she was on life support and she said she is probably going to die.
Does anyone have any experience and know if she can live through this? (link)
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I don't have an answer for you when it comes to the medical side of things. There are always miracles and maybe she will become conscious again. I am not sure if you are religious (I am not very religious) but when it comes to stuff like this, all you can do is pray. I hope she comes out of the state she is in. I think that you should tell your friend how you feel about her though. Because heaven forbid she were to pass away, you want to make sure you told her how you felt. I hope I have helped you in some way, even though I was not able to give you medical advice. :)
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so this is going to be my first question. but none of my friends seem to be trustworthy to me right now so i can't ask them, i've been pretty paranoid lately. so here it goes, o by the way i am 13 and am female:
I had an AMAZING boyfriend, who asked me to be his girlfriend on the day before the last day of school, over AIM but it was still sweet. we texted, and talked on the phone ALL SUMMER. and i grew to well, love him. and so now this year we never talked, we were to shy. and so he talked to my bff alot more. he started to like my bff. which i didn't know about, and my bff started to like him. so they were pretty much cheating on me behind my back. and so i broke up with him, needless to say. and then my friend decided she didn't like him anymore either. and so here comes the part that gives me butterflies. my bff's ex apparently liked me. for about the 2 weeeks before i broke up with my ex. and he didn't want to tell anyone because he is really good friends with my ex. and see i REALLY REALLY like my ex still, but my current boyfriend (the one who liked me while i was taken) is SUCH a sweetie, and talks to me LOTS more. ok so i'm not sure WHAT to do. because my ex always flirts with me, and my current is sooo sweet, but kinda a dork, and not by stereotype, he just is. so...what should i do?
-at the top at the love triangle (link)
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I think that you need to decided which guy you are going to be with. It is not fair to your current boyfriend if you are going to be flirting with your ex. When it comes to relationships, you've got to follow your heart and do what is best for you. If your boyfriend now is such a sweetheart and treats you right, then why leave him? You should choose someone that is going to treat you the way you should be treated. I hope this helps. It is always hard when it comes to the heart....
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