ok, i have a bf. but he dont talk at all to me. we have lots of things in common, but when i flirt with him, he dont flirt back. than another guy comes along... we were just friends until i started flirting with him instead of my bf. then i guess he fell in love with me, but he has a gf. he said that if i didnt have a bf, then he would have asked me out. i love him more than my pitty bf!! he is like my superman... what the heck should i do here? i feel as if i am on a verry small island... should i break up with my bf and ask if my superman would go out with me instead of his current gf, or do i just sit on this island and wait and never be rescued from this love curse? !!S.O.S!!
HopeICanHelp1002 answered Wednesday November 7 2007, 4:33 pm: You need to decide if you want to be with your boyfriend or not. If you want to be with the other man, your "superman" then you need to break up with your current boyfriend. It is not fair to him if you are flirting with another guy when you are with him. If you do decide to break up with your boyfriend and be with your "superman" then you need to make sure that he is no longer with his girlfriend. If you are calling your current b/f "pitty" then it sounds like you shouldn't be with him anymore. That is not fair to him. Whatever you do, do not cheat on your b/f and do not be the "other women" with your "superman". I hope I have been able to give you some guidence. Good luck! :) [ HopeICanHelp1002's advice column | Ask HopeICanHelp1002 A Question ]
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