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cheating
so theres this guy that i like, but he has a girlfriend. well, we talk everynight and he tells me how he wants me and how he doesn't like the other girl. well , we have talked a lot about doing stuff with each other. so i just wanted to get an honest opinion on what people feel about this .. and he says he would date me if he wasn't taken so what are some ways i can step up my game a little ?? thankss.
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Dont step up the game at all.He has a girlfriend, so what he is doing is unfaithful and dishonest. Stop talking to him like that, talk to him like a friend. If he really wanted you and wanted to be with you,he would leave his girlfriend. Guys do stupid things sometimes and think about how the girl would feel if she found out. And do you really want to be with a guy that basically cheating on hi girlfriend with you, who is to say he wont do the same thing to you if you were to go out with him. Do the right thing...Find a single guy.
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I want you to consider something.
First. If he really liked you more than his girlfriend, he would leave her for you. How girls miss this blatantly obvious fact is incredible to me.
Let me repeat that.
If he really wanted to "be" with you, he would.
Second. What makes you think that you are any more special than the girl he is dating? The fact that hes told you so? What do you think he told her when he started chasing her? If nothing else, if hes willing to cheat hes willing to cheat. Its not like hes going to cheat on her, but not you, if he was in a relationship with you eventually.
Stay away. Dont mess with guys in relationships unless they are genuinely willing to be in a relationship with you. Why would you consider settling for less?
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He doesn't HAVE TO be taken.
If he wanted to be dating you, he would be.
Igore the fact that he obviously is a cheating little dog, he also doesn't really want to date you, because, well he isn't. He only want to screw you.
Go ahead and step up your game if you want to, but you are the one being played.
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Short & Sweet: Don't date this guy, don't do anything with this guy -- dating or not dating him. He only wants you for sexual reasons, not for who you really are. So I don't think you should step your game up, you would actaully be stepping it down for this guy, he doesn't deserve you.
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You could turn on your goddamn brain and realize what an idiot this guy is.
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you prob arnt going to like this answer but the guys a douchbagg . if he likes you as much as he says he does he would dump this other girl for you. what he is doing is desiteful and wrong, beacuse hes going beind this other girls back.
wel do whatever you want but dont expect for him to do the same thing if or when he goes out wih you. make the right choice =]
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First things first, if you are going to do something with this guy then he needs to break up with his girlfriend. If he does not like the other girl then why is he still with her? You do not want to be the "other girl". If the guy really wants to be with you then he would have broken up with his girlfriend. Do not step up your game until he is single.
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My advice? Don't do it. Don't even think about doing it. If he doesn't like his current girlfriend, he would break up with her - end of.
He's just a jerk who wants a foolish girl to be his bit on the side. Don't let that girl be you.
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He's an asshole. If he really liked you and not the other girl he would be with you. Period.
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