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my boyfriend vs my ex love
ok i need help, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 months now and we were friends for a year, hes perfect and he treats me very very well.and we both love each other very much also.but 4 years ago i feel in love with a guy and we were planing on dating and things didn't happen that well because my best friend at the time made up lies about me which he believed and later ended up dating her.now that he knows the truth he wants to come back to me and start dating me but i cant because i love my man and i wouldn't hurt or leave him.. but on the other hand i want pay back and i want to see what it would have felt like if i was his girlfriend because i still have small feeling for him... can anyone plz help me out .. plz
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First of all i hope you got rid of that person as your friend because a real friend wont do that to you. You say you love your boyfriend,stay with him.it wont be fair to him if you leave him to see what it would have been like to date another guy.Pay back is not the way to go,most of the time it comes back and bites you in the a$$.You could end up losing the both of them so keep things they way they are now.If you were meant to be with the another guy,in time it may happen.follow your heart and you say your boyfriend treats you very very well,he doesnt deserve you blowing him off for another guy. Goodluck!!!
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Dont give in to your ex. He should have never listened to ur "bestfriend". If your going out with someone, you should believe the person you "love" before anyone else. He obviously didnt care about you that much if he broke up with you over a rumor. Keep your boyfriend because if you go back with your ex, hes probably going to hurt you again. Plus he went out with your "best friend" hes so0o not worth it, that was really low of him to do that!
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You really didn't need to ask this question as you have answered it yourself.
You love the guy you are currently with and wouldn't want to hurt him or leave him, so why even contemplate the idea of being with this other guy just for revenge? Who are you going to end up hurting? Him? The girl he was with before? Or yourself and your current guy?
But I think the truth is, if you did truly love your boyfriend, you wouldn't want to think what it was like to be this other guys girl.. you woulnd't want to find out.
At the end of the day, follow your heart. Do what your heart tells you to do.
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don't leave your current man. you shouldn't be with a guy that will believe a load of crap (the ex love) and you shouldn't be in a relationship just for revenge. just be friends with him, if anything, and maybe best friends. if you really do love your current man then you wouldn't be having second thoughts about your relationship.
just think of it this way...with your ex love, he had his chance to be with you and he was naive so it's done and in the past.
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i think you should stay with your current boyfriend. you say he is perfect and you love him and he loves you. why ruin that for a "what if "situation, when you already have a "perfect" situation. you may have loved him once before a long time ago, but likeyou said you only have small feelings for him... dont risk losing something perfect ((your boyfriend)) for something inthe past...the past is the past nothing can change it.. the future is whats important... do you see yourself having a future with your boyfriend or with the guy from the past?
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