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Two-Faced??


Question Posted Monday October 29 2007, 8:16 pm

Theres a dance coming up friday, and I as a dare asked Adam. I've liked Adam now for a couple months and everyone said we'd be cute together.. and that I should. I did, making sure he knew it was a dare, but I did really wanna go with him and he said yeahh. I was wickedd happy, and he went and ruined it. With a bunch of his friends he called me a bus. The SAME day! I was wickedd sad for the rest of the day, and like two days after like on brink of crying.. which I did. He said he was sorry like 20 times, which he always does! I told him I wasn't going to the dance with him, and now everyones like NOO NOO you should!!!
And now a week later were all okay, im flirting he is too.. I can tell lol easily.
But he's two faced like today i had my period and bled threw, and Sasha brought up the pants switch right infront of him.. and I was like what the hell and told her off and Adam was like dont worry I like these pants more on you =D...
Should I see if he's still going to the dance? Or forget about it because he's sorta two-faced but not really, really bad.
Anythings good.
thankxx
i've heard a couple times for you guys, he's a jerk.. sooo


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queenhearts answered Tuesday October 30 2007, 3:12 pm:
You can go to the dance with him, just to spend time with him. But when it really comes down to it.. if he's treating you badly in front or around his friends, he's not mature enough or even ready to be with you. you deserve someone who will respect you and treat you as kind as he does in private around his friends. maybe give him another chance and if he really hurts you, then you should talk to him about it. some guys think making up jokes about you is funny and that it doesn't bother you.. because they think you can laugh at yourself despite how much the joke hurts. since guys are used to crude humor, some of them don't realize how it effects girls. i was dating a guy for over a year who was like that.. and he had no idea he was hurting me with sexist jokes and whatnot.. he still doesn't understand it. you just have to talk to him and maybe that will open his eyes.

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VixenLuna answered Tuesday October 30 2007, 11:36 am:
Well then if hes a jerk then don't go to the dance with him, but tats only unless you got someone else in mind. But i just say go the dance with him. It isn't a big deal, just take pictures together and then your off, you can go dace with your friends while he goes dancing with his. But if you feel uncomfortable about your decision then don't go to the dance with him. But he dosnt sound much of a bad guy.

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